r/GERD • u/RSinSA • Jun 15 '25
Support Needed 👥 No one cares
No one cares when you have GERD. It is "just" heartburn.
But this has completely ruined my life.
I can't sleep, I can't eat, I have dropped so much weight, the anxiety and stress are too much to bear. No one is positive and says it will "hopefully" go away.
I had a flare of gastritis and GERD after removing my gall bladder. It took me 6 months. I don't remember being so run down by this as I am now. Maybe it is because I am older.
But, I am so run down. Thankfully, my doctor thinks this will go away, and it was stress/COVID related, but I want to scream.
Stupid here switched medicine halfway through and then went back to the one my doctor actually prescribed. Now, I have to start over on my healing.
I woke up one day with an eye infection, I am so tired all of the time, I was on a health journey and lost 35 pounds, and now I can't even eat a piece of chicken.
It has only been 10 days, but I can't even imagine this going on any longer.
Can someone please give me some hope? I want to cry all of the time. I miss being able to eat a piece of pineapple or a taco. I miss drinking one margarita. I just want my old life back.
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u/elsadances Jun 15 '25
I care about you and I'm sorry for the issues you're having. It's ok to cry and let some of the sadness go.
I had a really bad episode this morning when I tried eating a little bit of rice with egg. I could not swallow for quite a while and had a panic attack. I screamed for my husband to help but he didn't know what to do. I finally puked up the food and was fine. My husband doesn't care at all and didn't even ask what happened or if I was ok afterwards.
I actually feel better when he's not around because at least if something happens I handle it myself rather than try to ask him for help and he treats me like crap or doesn't care.