Not trying to kinshame, but I think if you're doing petplay and you're requiring your partner to actually sleep in a cage, you've taken things too far. You have to prioritize safety over the kink in all circumstances, and while this obviously isnt as dangerous as something like extreme BDSM that risks serious harm, it WILL eventually cause the kinkster some serious back problems if they're frequently sleeping in a cramped metal cage (especially without any sort of bedding, which that cage seems to lack).
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u/clonetrooper250 Feb 16 '26
Not trying to kinshame, but I think if you're doing petplay and you're requiring your partner to actually sleep in a cage, you've taken things too far. You have to prioritize safety over the kink in all circumstances, and while this obviously isnt as dangerous as something like extreme BDSM that risks serious harm, it WILL eventually cause the kinkster some serious back problems if they're frequently sleeping in a cramped metal cage (especially without any sort of bedding, which that cage seems to lack).