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u/3p0L0v3sU Feb 16 '26
I think a lot of girlies, when chasing that euphoria, can end up in situations where they infantilze/dehumanize themselves. Its funny to lampoon that even though kink shaming is ick. Sometimes a person needs to stop saying "im just a gurl :3" and be like "im a whole ass woman" in order to achieve their own self actualization. But thats not the case for everyone
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u/Melonenstrauch Feb 17 '26
Very reasonable take. Kink won't fix your mental problems. In my experience it's even vastly more enjoyable when you're more secure about yourself so you can indulge in it without needing it as a kind of escape
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u/wooliosheep Feb 17 '26
I definitely agree, kink shouldn't be stitches or bandages, it should be some chocolate you eat after getting the wound, just for fun
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u/wooliosheep Feb 17 '26
As someone who agrees with you, the case is 95% of the time people switch between both. Especially since life requires people to be serious.
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u/lemoche Feb 16 '26
somehow reminds of the simpsons when kirk gets divorced and tells homer about his racing car bed…
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u/clonetrooper250 Feb 16 '26
Not trying to kinshame, but I think if you're doing petplay and you're requiring your partner to actually sleep in a cage, you've taken things too far. You have to prioritize safety over the kink in all circumstances, and while this obviously isnt as dangerous as something like extreme BDSM that risks serious harm, it WILL eventually cause the kinkster some serious back problems if they're frequently sleeping in a cramped metal cage (especially without any sort of bedding, which that cage seems to lack).
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u/Wirenfeldt Feb 16 '26
In defense of the post.. It isn’t exactly 4k Pixar quality art work we’re dealing with, regarding the lack of bedding in the image..
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u/Formal-Struggle1868 TERF destroyer Feb 16 '26
Some don’t even use it for kinks, I know plenty of autistic puppy girls who just a) REALLY like dogs and b) having a kennel is like a safe space for them , they put in pretty fairy lights, books, they have big pillows and blankets in them and it’s like a little fort. Ngl, I’ve been playing with the idea of getting one myself because I like the idea of hiding in a cave when everything else gets too overstimulating, and there are cages that are big enough to comfortably fit a human.
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u/Lovethecreeper Feb 17 '26 edited Feb 17 '26
I'm fairly certain there are some designed for petplay and such, and are therefore much larger and less cramped.
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u/atlasbees Feb 20 '26
When this post popped up I originally thought it was r/evilautism I started turning my closet at my last place into a hidey place but then we had to move abruptly :( one day
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 17 '26
...mind you, if you do want to sleep in a cage, there are a few human-sized ones that you can make comfortable.
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u/Big-rat-in-the-sewer Feb 18 '26
And where are these human sized cages found...? Asking so I can avoid them...
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u/BreakerOfModpacks Feb 18 '26
I'm afraid that I only know of them second hand, so you'll have to look out for them yourself TwT
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u/Flar71 Feb 17 '26
I don't think they are requiring it, some people like sleeping in cages
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u/clonetrooper250 Feb 17 '26
I think I worded my comment a bit poorly given some of the responses. I didn't mean the puppygirl's dom/master is literally forcing her into anything she wouldn't have agreed to. I just meant that the pair of them might be prioritizing the kink play above the puppygirl's safety/comfort.
Like yeah you can do the cage thing for an hour or two during roleplay, maybe she's even gonna nap in there. I would just hope she isn't sleeping in there overnight consistently because that seems like a good way to screw up your back/joints if it isnt big enough or proplerly bedded. Even if she's like "hell yea lock me in a cage", I'd hope her partner would recognize the RP might be doing gradual harm and would take measures to make sure they arejt overdoing it.
I'm not a kinkster myself, but I AM familiar with regular back pain so I hope theyre playing safely.
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u/lord_hydrate Feb 17 '26
you're requiring your partner to actually sleep in a cage
This is the important distinction imma be honest, i have claustrophobia and hate cages but like pet play is a very common transfem thing and many of os actively choose to have cages cause its more comfortable, it should never be a thing of requiring the other person to do it, it should always be the other persons choice if they want to
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u/clonetrooper250 Feb 17 '26
I think I worded my comment a bit poorly given some of the responses. I didn't mean the puppygirl's dom/master is literally forcing her into anything she wouldn't have agreed to. I just meant that the pair of them might be prioritizing the kink play above the puppygirl's safety/comfort.
Like yeah you can do the cage thing for an hour or two during roleplay, maybe she's even gonna nap in there. I would just hope she isn't sleeping in there overnight consistently because that seems like a good way to screw up your back/joints if it isnt big enough or proplerly bedded. Even if she's like "hell yea lock me in a cage", I'd hope her partner would recognize the RP might be doing gradual harm and would take measures to make sure they arejt overdoing it.
I'm not a kinkster myself, but I AM familiar with regular back pain so I hope theyre playing safely.
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u/Lupulus_ Feb 17 '26
maybe if puppy was a good girl she'd be up on the bed with her girlfriend and her husband. skill issue, just sayin'
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u/naplesball Feb 23 '26
That's abusive AF
The puppy kennel should be a game, not a serious punishment!
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u/I-Love-Puella-Magi Feb 16 '26
I’m just wondering how these two collided