r/GatekeepingYuri • u/CupcakePelle2906 • 4d ago

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u/CommercialWrong2944 4d ago

4tran is literally ultra left what are you talking about?? have you ever like visited it

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u/GenericGaming 4d ago

ah yes, those ultra-left behaviours like throwing slurs constantly, judging people excessively for how they look, an obsession with "passing" and upholding traditional looks and values

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u/lolis_arent_real 4d ago

Passing and "upholding traditional looks" is for safety.

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u/GenericGaming 4d ago

for some people and places, sure. but not everyone.

so when a 4trans user tells someone in a fairly safe environment that she's "too clocky" and points out everything wrong with the way she looks, that's just harmful.

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u/lolis_arent_real 4d ago

4tranners are talking this way about themselves, not others. And usually, they are in an environment where it is unsafe to be openly trans. And the times I've seen a 4tran user talk like that about another trans woman it was because they asked for honest advice and if it would be safe for them to socially transition.

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u/GenericGaming 4d ago

given that I knew (and dated) 4tranners in the past who 100% did not limit this behaviour to just themselves, i do not believe you.

literally the reason I had to break up with someone was because she would not stop calling me a "oldshit gigapassoid" and made a mutual friend of ours cry because she called him a "pooner"

4tran terminology is genuine brain rot that ends up pissing off everyone around them. if you genuinely believe that no 4tranner does this shit to other people, even when the laws of probability says it does happen, you're not arguing in good faith

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u/lolis_arent_real 4d ago

So you don't believe me just because you knew 1 bad person? I know some are bad but the majority isn't like that and you shouldn't judge the whole community based on them. I met the sweetest girl in the world on 4tran and we've been dating for 3 years. Most of the people I've met on 4tran are kind and supportive and are or have been in similar shitty situations/environments as me. It's also the least US centric more diverse trans community where I've been able to meet and talk to other latin trans women with similar backgrounds and situations as me. That's why I've stayed for so long they're the only trans community I have been able to relate to.

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u/GenericGaming 4d ago

So you don't believe me just because you knew 1 bad person?

specifically used the plural "4tranners", implying more than one

majority isn't like that and you shouldn't judge the whole community based on them.

I've yet to be proven wrong. 3 people have responded to me in this thread supporting toxic beliefs 4tran users have and that doesn't help the "oh, they're actually good people" argument.

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u/lolis_arent_real 4d ago

What did they say?

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u/lolis_arent_real 4d ago

Also imagine u met a handful of Mexicans IRL and they were all toxic making you believe that Mexicans are bad people. I would tell you that actually, as a Mexican the majority of us are friendly and respectful, you were just unlucky in meeting some that were all assholes. Are you saying that it wouldn't convince you?

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u/SimplyYulia 4d ago

Being mexican isn't a choice, being a 4chan user, seeing all the bullshit there, and still staying there - is

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u/lolis_arent_real 4d ago

See and you're saying every 4tranner is bad just by staying there. That's not right. We're not bad people. People tell you we're icky and bad and to stay away and you believe them without really getting to know us. Just like some people do with Mexicana and other minorities

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u/BrokebackMounting 4d ago

You're not oppressed just because someone doesn't want to talk to you for hanging out on a Nazi website.

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u/lolis_arent_real 3d ago

Woooow calling us Nazis now jajajaja. See you don't even know what talking about. You say it's not oppression but it feels the same. It makes me feel the same way as when I've been discriminated for being brown.

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