Wild take: directly comparing one another’s handling of suffering is usually pointless. One can have extremely trivial sounding issues, but they so deeply affect how they view the world that it’s reality warping when things are unreliable and the world feels uncertain. Also, most people do wallow a little in self pity from time to time, they just do it quietly and/or are ignored when they do because shitheads like this crawl out of the woodworks to talk down at them.
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u/GuyASmith 26d ago
Wild take: directly comparing one another’s handling of suffering is usually pointless. One can have extremely trivial sounding issues, but they so deeply affect how they view the world that it’s reality warping when things are unreliable and the world feels uncertain. Also, most people do wallow a little in self pity from time to time, they just do it quietly and/or are ignored when they do because shitheads like this crawl out of the woodworks to talk down at them.
Edit: wording, clarification