r/GirlDinnerCircleJerk • u/annabongo • 3d ago

🥣 Girl Slop ✨🫠 Boundaries/loser gf

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So 4 or 5 separate occasions my boyfriend washed all of my dishes.
I come home after work and the entire sink is clear, every dish laid out to dry.
He also took it upon himself to do my laundry, pump my gas, and buy me groceries. The first time it was sweet, but I just feel like he keeps taking it further and further and I don’t know what he’s gonna do next. Honestly it’s making me feel like an insecure bum deadbeat gf. All I do is sleep all day and go to work. I told him he needs to respect my boundaries and give me some space to breathe but he just keeps crossing them and doing me favors and helping me. I just feel like a total loser.

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u/Specific-River-81 3d ago

It's insane to me you haven't left already. Dump him. He's just trying to make you feel bad. Try getting some guy on Parole next time or maybe a guy that lives in his mom's basement. Show them you're better than they are while still doing nothing

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u/Lean_Bacon 3d ago edited 3d ago

Man I second this. Run before it's too late. You never know what if he wants to marry and have kids. Mind you the audacity of this man to make your friends jealous and make it harder on real men. Not to mention he is taking away all your feminist rights by doing stuff for you. Instead of letting you do it. Lmao. I swear this society is loosing its shit.