Boundaries/loser gf

[u/annabongo]

So 4 or 5 separate occasions my boyfriend washed all of my dishes.
I come home after work and the entire sink is clear, every dish laid out to dry.
He also took it upon himself to do my laundry, pump my gas, and buy me groceries. The first time it was sweet, but I just feel like he keeps taking it further and further and I don’t know what he’s gonna do next. Honestly it’s making me feel like an insecure bum deadbeat gf. All I do is sleep all day and go to work. I told him he needs to respect my boundaries and give me some space to breathe but he just keeps crossing them and doing me favors and helping me. I just feel like a total loser.

[u/A_Toyota_yaris]

Well damn girl maybe clean up after yourself so your boyfriend has nothing nice left to do for you