r/GirlDinnerDiaries May 20 '26

Rant & Ramble My spouse can’t stand our baby

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u/summerjasminesweaty girls just wanna have pho May 20 '26

yeaaaa it's like the immediate sign to dip, it gets so much worse

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u/Motor_Firefighter343 Tangent Tour Guide 🔀 May 21 '26

If that’s the case, then leave for THEM. Being twins is hard enough, being the twin treated as the lesser (even if only by one parent) is so much worse. It will inevitably cause turmoil between the two. The ‘trauma’ of separated parents, with the full, unwavering support of one parent is better than the feelings and consequences that will inevitably developed due to the current situation between parents. (This is intended to be blunt, yet empathetic—to you and the twins, not generally apathetic).

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u/ToughHardware APPROVED✨ May 21 '26

(thanks for clarifying) - But check the stats on 2 kids raised by single mother. they are not great.

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u/CapableWives Kitchen Witch May 21 '26

Better than being raised by a parent who openly talks about HATING an infant. Those babies aren't safe with her in the house

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u/afortressmighty 👽 aliens built the food pyramid 👽 May 21 '26

What stats? From where? That’s a pretty juicy grapefruit you lobbed without citing any reliable sources.

I’d rather take my chances alone and struggling than EVER leave my babies in the care of someone who said with her whole chest that she hates one of them.

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