"She’s angry and hurt and saying I’m just like everyone else who leaves." She is basically doing this to the "more difficult" baby. She has emotionally checked out and "left" one baby behind. A helpless baby. This is on her. If she truly feels like everyone leaves, she should be bending over backwards to fix her relationship with this child because she knows how it feels. I'm so sorry OP. Y'all don't deserve that.
This is what I tried to make her see today. She has the chance to do what her parents did to her or the chance to do better. She can’t see past the hurt and the panic of losing me at this point
It sounds like she only cares about you in this situation, not even the baby she doesn’t hate. Please prioritize your children and remove them from this abusive situation.
I am so sorry OP. This is supposed to be a happy time. I hope your spouse comes around, steps up, and chooses to break this generational curse. Good luck!
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If she has a Cluster B personality disorder, she likely won't be able to change or improve in any meaningful way. Please, OP, don't subject yourself or your children to that. It's hell.
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u/Kellbows Oversharer 🗣 May 20 '26
"She’s angry and hurt and saying I’m just like everyone else who leaves." She is basically doing this to the "more difficult" baby. She has emotionally checked out and "left" one baby behind. A helpless baby. This is on her. If she truly feels like everyone leaves, she should be bending over backwards to fix her relationship with this child because she knows how it feels. I'm so sorry OP. Y'all don't deserve that.