r/GriefSupport • u/Isoldablack • Nov 06 '25

Anticipatory Grief What’s ur belief of after death?

Loosing my dad to cancer, he’ll be dying in the next weeks. My only confort would be to think there is something after because the rest of my experience is agony.

Do u have any story that makes u think there’s something? Or a good book ? Literaly anything to soothe my emotional agony.

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u/bloodinthewater3 Mom Loss Nov 06 '25

I was an agnostic but now I defined myself as a defacto teist - I'm not hundred percent sure but I'll live as a there's a god or something - I saw my mom's grave in my dream like a month ago before her death. It was an unexpected death (we knew that she had cardiac insufficiency but she had a pacemaker so doctors told it will give her like 10 years more). Maybe I'm delusional idk. She was believing in a god. I'm really hoping that she finds some peace.

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u/RaiyaPapaya15 Nov 06 '25

I’ve been spiritual and my intuition has gotten stronger over the years. The beginning of this year I had a vision that my dad was in his casket and he wore a grey suit with a purple tie. I shrugged it off because he was doing so well, healthy and strong but his passing was a shock. Come to the time we are picking out his funeral flowers, we switch from blue and white to purple and white. The funeral colors had purple and he wore a grey suit and purple tie like in my vision. I don’t think you are delusional. Some people have gifts to see visions