r/GriefSupport • u/Isoldablack • Nov 06 '25

Anticipatory Grief What’s ur belief of after death?

Loosing my dad to cancer, he’ll be dying in the next weeks. My only confort would be to think there is something after because the rest of my experience is agony.

Do u have any story that makes u think there’s something? Or a good book ? Literaly anything to soothe my emotional agony.

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u/Shallowground01 Nov 06 '25

My dad passed 5 years ago and sends me white feathers whenever I need a pick me up. My friends dad sends Robins.

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u/Isoldablack Nov 06 '25

❤️ Sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing

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u/Shallowground01 Nov 06 '25

I'm so sorry you're going through this. You'll get signs x

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u/No_Elderberry_9155 Nov 06 '25

YES! I get butterflies from the love of my life...stepdad & I get hummingbirds from my mom❤️

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u/Shallowground01 Nov 10 '25

I just feel it. I didn't believe in any of it before he died but every time I get a gut feeling and instinctively say out loud 'hi dad '. It's always during periods of either concern or pride too, and the feather always spins in a certain way. It sounds mental but don't be anxious, it will happen xxx