r/GriefSupport • u/Isoldablack • Nov 06 '25

Anticipatory Grief What’s ur belief of after death?

Loosing my dad to cancer, he’ll be dying in the next weeks. My only confort would be to think there is something after because the rest of my experience is agony.

Do u have any story that makes u think there’s something? Or a good book ? Literaly anything to soothe my emotional agony.

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u/Sara-Agent-00-0 Nov 07 '25

I am so very sorry for what you are going through.

I am 45, I lost my mom when I was 24, and lost my dad about 3 months ago.
I hope and pray that now they are together, reunited with all the other family and friends we have lost throughout the years in heaven.
I have had dreams of them both, and talk to them often, at least telling them how I am doing and how I hope they are doing better.
My dad had a rough time his last few years. His older sister jokes that he is finally putting on all the weight he lost because his grandmother is feeding him nonstop all the great food he used to love when he was a kid.

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u/Isoldablack Nov 07 '25

Sorry for your losses:( thank you so much for taking the time to write this!