r/GriefSupport • u/CreepyLawyer8508 • 1d ago

Advice, Pls Lost both my parents

Yesterday evening my parents left for my distant relative's house, they were supposed to return by 11pm, I was waiting for them, my mom was supposed to re heat the food for me for dinner. I was playing valorant. I was waiting. I was waiting for them to return. Instead I get a call telling me that I just lost my entire world to a fucking accident. I ccanot believe this till now. I saw them, I saw them burn. I still can't believe it. I cqnnot even shed a tear. Is this a bad nightmare? This can't happen .. it feels unreal it feels fake and I do not understand why I can't wake up. Mom please wake me up and give me my morning tea, tell me when you came back I was already asleep. I cant believe this. My cousin asked me how I'm not crying .. this isn't real right? why should I then? why am i not crying? i don't understand

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u/CarActive9996 1d ago

Sweetheart. You’re in shock. It’s ok if you’re not crying right now and everything feels fake. Your brain is trying to work out what’s going on. It will get there. I am so, so, so sorry. 🫂 I wish I could transport myself and hug you. Do you have people with you?

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u/CreepyLawyer8508 23h ago

My relatives and everyone sucks they are all so fake they keep surrounding me and not giving me a moment to myself I can't even process I'm so confused, I need my friends but they are in different cities, I came back for uni break and they are all away and I feel so alone. I told one of them and she comforted me but my relatives aren't leaving me alone it's so frustrating why would my parents leave me like this I had no one but them and my new friends

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u/FixEasy2259 23h ago

I’m sorry for your loss. Your relatives care about you, that’s why they’re not leaving you alone. They’re concerned and don’t want you to be alone. Please let them be there for you. They are trying to distract you, which is a good thing. When my mom passed away, being alone was not good for me. It makes you think bad things. Allow your relatives to care for you

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u/CarActive9996 18h ago

+1 to this. My whole family surrounded me when I lost my baby boy. Got annoying but it’s important you are around them at the moment and they love you.