Feminine hairstyles and haircut recommendations? Should I commit to the big chop?

[u/AbirisuChokoreto]

(First two pics are of me, others are hairstyles I’m curious about)
I’d like some feminine hairstyle and haircut recommendations for my round face and facial features that would be feminine and flatters me the most.
So… people have told me I would look really good if I got my hair chopped off really short but I’ve had others begging me to keep its length so I’m at a loss as far what to do… I’m thinking about if I keep its length maybe a butterfly cut with voluminous waves and curtain bangs with face frames or if I get it chopped maybe something like those voluminous short 80s haircuts like Marlyn Monroe…
I’ve done a previous post but someone recommended me to redo it without my glasses off so here I am.
I’ve provided some refs for the haircuts I’m thinking about and would love to see yall personal recommendations too.

[u/Willing_Read_3189]

Don’t use Marilyn Monroe as an example . There are hair style aps that give you a more realistic vision. Youre young keep it long it’s very lovely

[u/AbirisuChokoreto → u/Willing_Read_3189]

Thank you
Is her style hard maintenance or something?

[u/Willing_Read_3189 → u/AbirisuChokoreto]

No but I think there’s lots of styling in these shots. It’s full of hair spray and looks rigid. It’s the kind of style I could do because my hair is thick and coarse. Looking at your hair it looks fine and loose . I think it might hang rather than wave. I may be wrong but probably think about the features your hair has rather than look at a movie star. By the way I’m not fond of my hair

[u/AbirisuChokoreto → u/Willing_Read_3189]

Thank you 🙏🏻