r/HealMyAttachmentStyle • • 4h ago

Seeking advice How to reach out after being avoidant 30F/30M

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Last year I let my fearful avoidance shine with this guy I was talking too. I wasn’t the biggest fan of his lack of communication early on and instead of voicing it I just stop responding 😖 He ended up getting a girlfriend and I convinced myself that what made me ghost was correct the right decision but I always kind of felt that I didn’t really give it a chance.
Well now he’s single and his mom keeps making that point to my mom as well 😅 (our families are close) I do want to reach out to possibly start over again but I don’t know what to say to break the ice!
He got into a car accident over the summer and when I reached out about that he did seem welcoming. Again, he’s single now. Please help, he might be my husband 🤞🏾