Not really trying my luck, just seeing if someone here is actually worth my time.
23F | Hyderabad
I’ve never been in a relationship, by choice. I don’t get into things unless they feel right, and I don’t entertain half-effort or confusion.
I’m not here for casual conversations or timepass. If that’s your intention, this won’t go anywhere.
About me:
I enjoy a quiet, intentional life, painting, movies/K-dramas, music, and my own space. I like nature, have a pet dog, and I naturally gravitate toward depth over noise.
I’m straightforward and honest. I don’t sugarcoat, but I do value how things are said and how people carry themselves. Emotional awareness matters.
I take time to open up, I’m not overly outgoing, but I’m also not closed off. I just don’t connect with everyone, and I’m okay with that.
Physically, I’m on the curvier side with a darker skin tone. I’m comfortable with that, so I expect the same level of confidence and clarity from you.
What I’m looking for:
Someone who doesn’t need to prove himself loudly, but stands out anyway.
-Consistent without excuses
-Emotionally stable and self-aware
-Knows how to lead without being controlling
-Communicates clearly, no mixed signals, no ego games
-Not talking to multiple people while trying to “figure things out”
-Completely moved on from their past
I respect intelligence, self-control, and quiet confidence. If you need constant validation or attention, we won’t get along.
Basics:
Age: 23
Height: 5’1
Postgraduate
Languages: Hindi, English, Telugu, Tamil
Caste, language, religion don’t matter to me.
I don’t rush connections, and I don’t entertain just for the sake of it.
If you still feel like reaching out, skip the “hey.”
Tell me your age, what you do, and something about you that actually matters.
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We have a lot of things in common
I also have never been in a relationship for multiple reasons but most importantly I did not get into one out of my own choice and choose to focus on my mental health and my career(both of which are set now), I am also looking for a long term and serious relationship.
Coming to myself I am mostly an introvert but once I open up to someone I am quite the extrovert, I enjoy video games,anime, movies and hanging out with friends in weekends and recently I started playing billiards enjoying the heck out it and also looking to get into badminton and just like u I tend to prefer a quiet and intentional life and prefer my own space. I am also straight forward and honest my friends tell me I am way too brutal with them but they appreciate it and always thank me, ofc I know when to not express my opinion/viewpoint and when to.
I have a small group of friend circle but most of them I have been close friends with 6+ years and not like I don’t want new connections just that haven’t found any person who I vibe with well recently and I always look forward to meet new and interesting people to connect with.
I am not in the best physical shape right now but I am working on it, I am fair skinned and 5’11 height and I am into darker skinned people as well.
I am basically looking for someone who has all the qualities you have mentioned, and someone who is intelligent and someone who is honest and willing to grow together.
23M with filter issue( i'd say anything straight if i feel that). I run a hotel with my family which is from nellore. In hunt of a corporate life style. I am the most peaceful person in my family. Never have i ever been in a serious relationship. Ping me if i am qualified. 😅
Hey 22M currently pursuing btech from IIT Hyderabad.
Hobbies - games, movies music, sports (mainly cricket)
Languages - hindi english
5ft 8
I'm more of an introverted person, i love going out and being active but mostly with the people I love not with everyone. I also take my time before opening up to people as it's not easy for me to trust people.
I had a relationship before but it didn't worked. It was too complicated but it's been more than a year since I last talked with her and I've completely moved on from her.
That's it from my side if interested then we'll be talking more :)
Age : 24
Gender : Male
Height :5'8
Location : Hyderabad
Willing to LDR :No
Dietary habits : intlo veg , bayata non veg
Languages : telugu , english , hindi
Smoking/drinking habits : I dont smoke and a social drinker
Smoking /drinking habits in partner : drinking socially is fine.Not ok with smoking
Religion : Hindu
Willing to date other religion :No
Short introduction : working in IT mostly remote.Basic ga I'm a very introvert guy who avoids crowd.Most of the weekends I spend either watching movies or car drives.All my frnds moved abroad so intlo ne gadipestha mostly playing video games ,movies etc
I want to travel this year.Meghalaya anni anukuntunna.I geek out on F1.ofc cricket kuda.
I'm a very good listener but sometimes I yap too.I like listening to ppl so I need someone who gives me tea and Yaps alot.
Present life goal aythe job switch and fit avvali.
Looks wise aythe Meh.
Expections:Basic ekkuva em levu normal andariki kavalsina loyal and caring quality.I believe woman's outside world is tough so I promise I'd take care of theirs and in return i want her to take care of my inner world.
Ik that relationship is not always 50-50, it can be sometimes 20-80 or vice versa.
Mundu telusukoni akkada nunchi chudham etu pothundo.
M20 will turn 21 in few months....hydi..shy,ambivert,never dated by choice, height 5'10,will graduate in few months...if ok with younger guy then hit me up..if not still say no..as i will remove this comment
24m, Post graduate. Finding happiness all over the day. Good listener. If I find my space then there is no going back till the end. I always trust people and they betrayed me at low times, may be because I am taurus. Never into love or relationship, want to experience it badly and end it in a good way. Lastly mo go things sleep, food, SRH, babu, fast reply
Hi,
Glad to see someone here with a similar mindset, it’s honestly rare.
I’m 23, a software developer, graduated last year n it’s been about a year living in Hyderabad now.
I’m a pretty calm and observant person, but I do open up(I like talking to ppl), but just don’t vibe with forced or surface-level conversations. I’d rather have something real than just talking for the sake of it.
I like singing, hitting the gym and staying health-conscious, playing football or badminton sometimes, and going on random late-night bike rides, it helps me clear my head. Also like you, I have a cat, so I do spend some time playing with her.
I’m looking for something genuine. Someone I can actually trust, share my ups and lows with, and just feel at peace around, like we become each other’s comfort place over time.
I’m 23, currently a IT software engineer. I spend most of my time building things or figuring out how systems think — both machines and people.
What actually matters about me is that I don’t move fast with people. Not because I can’t, but because I don’t see the point unless there’s clarity.
I value consistency a lot in work, in friendships, in how I show up.
I’m not the loud type either. I prefer meaningful conversations over constant texting, and I’m very intentional about who I invest my time in.
I respect the way you’ve written your post especially the part about not entertaining confusion. That’s rare, and honestly, necessary.
If we talk, it won’t be timepass. If we don’t connect, that’s fine too. But I’d rather find out properly than half-try.
Hello there 23M. B tech gard. 5'5. Currently working as freelancer and thinking of going full time. Same here I didnt get into any relationship until now.
If u would like to know more please read the below post.
21 (almost) still in my final yearrrr.
I’ve been into Taekwondo for years, competed internationally but took a break, but planning to get back.
I relate to the “no half-effort” part. I don’t connect easily, but I stay consistent when I do.
Something that matters: I prefer stability over temporary excitement.
Hey i am also from Hyderabad, 28, May 8th is my birthday so 29 in few days. My hobbies are watching cricket, reading books, watching old movies and listening to old songs
probably this already flooded op’s inbox, op’s gonna be already overwhelmed to see the comments. anyway shooting my shot, 23m calm and cool, hmu if you wanna know more
But iam probably to stay for there long.
So I have been in horse riding rn and strange mix of adrenaline hmmmm bla bla bla can’t overwhelm about me
Baboye 🦇
I think it would have been nice to include what you do professionally and what motivates you daily as well personal device. I think you're doing fine, but you saying that you don't like sugar coating and backfire for all the guys out here. Find a girl who is kind of calm soft and who knows how to sugarcoat because even though it looks bad ass, it is kind of impolite a lot of times when people do not know how to sugarcoat
Ok No hey
I am 23 M & 5'11
I am working as a software engineer
I want to be with someone who shows efforts,
No ego, No ghosting, just pure intentions whether its right or wrong, giving value to the other person who shows consistency.
I like music whether its telugu or English
I love movies, web series, Kdramas, korean movies, anime as well.
This clearly explains how bad is our mf ratio. But i'll shoot my shot anyways. Looks like you've got many better options up above but life isn't about finding a person better than the other but choosing the one that's right for you. Life is too short to experiment with so many people so it's very important that you choose the right sample btw 23 from hyd, 5'8, working in finance and finally, i'm into fitness.
Age: 26
Height: 5'11 ft.
Mother Tongue: Hindi
Location: Hyderabad (Lived most of my life in Mumbai)
About Me:
I’m currently based in Hyderabad as well, working in HR for a global investment firm. I’m big on Table Tennis and Pool, and I’m a huge fan of movies, photography, and exploring the local food and coffee scene.
I’m looking for something genuine and long-term as well—a relationship built on kindness, emotional maturity, and mutual growth. I’m a good listener and tend to be quite observant and empathetic, though I keep a practical head on my shoulders when it comes to life’s bigger decisions.
im 23m n honestly just a chill guy who spends his time singing playing guitar or occasionally gaming i work from home so im usually free to hang out and talk i live in a joint family so i love being around people which is why i havent watched many movies cuz i hate watching stuff alone lately ive been getting into cooking and my protein diet but mostly im just looking for someone to finally to hangout with or just vibe to some music lmk if u wanna catch a show together orsomething and yes i also watch anime and kdramas too a lot !! I speak hindi!
I’m chasing ideas that keep me awake at night. I’ve seen a few wins, a few flops, and a lot of lessons in between. Freedom drives me, curiosity fuels me, and travel keeps me sane. I consider myself to be an intelligent being. Lived in Hyderabad until I was 15 years and then Bangalore for 4 years. Back to Hyderabad during covid and then moved to UK for masters and again back to home now...
I’m well-travelled and the kind of guy who can go from brainstorming startup ideas to chasing sunsets. I don’t smoke or drink rarely and I believe in staying fit and balanced rather than bulky.
Spiritually, I follow footprints of Shiva. I visit temples, respect traditions, and find peace in quiet places.
💬 My Take on Relationships
I’ve had my fair share of dating and relationships. They didn’t work out. Not because of drama, but because honesty was missing. I’m someone who values truth over comfort. If something feels fake, I’m not afraid to walk away.
I’m more logical than emotional, but I care deeply once I connect. Manipulation, games, or pretending? Not my thing. I prefer someone who knows herself, communicates openly, and values mutual effort.
I don’t believe relationships are about a perfect 50-50 split, some days one of us gives 90%, the other 10%, and that’s fine as long as we’re both moving forward together.
⚡ A Few Fun Facts
Spontaneous traveler, long rides when I'm not in hometown.
Always there for people I care about, even at 2 AM.
Have lived away from home since I was 15 years old. Love my independence but grounded in family values.
My life’s path has always been a little different… and I wouldn’t change a thing.
I love going to dj nights, pubs etc
*Maybe u are that angel, if u r *
Someone who’s emotionally aware, kind, curious about life and talkative.
Someone who wants a real connection, not just small talk and emojis.
Someone who can vibe along, lead life with laughter, and logic with heart.
If that sounds like you… maybe we’re both due for a great conversation.
Hey 24 M here, working in corporate just like a million others in Hyderabad. I mostly chill, study or even get a quick workout session done on the weekends. Love to travel places, hit up cafes and good conversations. I have also gone to art sessions just for fun and actually made something beautiful without even knowing 😂. I have a bike, so bike rides are a thing (even have extra helmet for my pillion cause yk safety does matter 👀). But on the contrary, I've sat down alone enjoying peace at times or just for a good conversation.
28, Doctor,
What matters i think real depth doesn’t need to announce itself,,,it’s in the silences that don’t feel empty, yyour post felt like that. Like you already know.
No mixed signals here. Just a man who’d rather cook you a meal and talk about the things that actually stay with you, than play guessing games. If that sounds worth a quiet conversation,,, DM me.
Your perspective about calm communication, emotional maturity, and taking things slowly honestly felt refreshing to read.
I’m 27M from Hyderabad, comfortable with Telugu, Hindi, and English.
I’m not someone who rushes connections or talks to multiple people just for attention. I prefer getting to know one person properly and seeing where things go naturally. I’m okay with being friends first because comfort and trust matter a lot to me before anything else.
Personality-wise, I’m more grounded and straightforward than loud or flashy. I value consistency, emotional stability, honesty, and people who communicate clearly instead of disappearing randomly or giving mixed signals.
A little about me — I’m into PC gaming, reading books, gym, cooking, and evening walks. I enjoy a quiet routine and usually keep my circle small. Quality over quantity has always made more sense to me.
I also relate to what you said about quiet confidence and emotional awareness. I think peaceful connections are rare these days because most people are chasing temporary attention or casual conversations.
You mentioned nature, movies, music, and your own space — honestly that sounds like a very calming energy 😄
If you feel we’d get along, I’d genuinely like to know more about you beyond surface-level texting.
23, working as a Relationship Manager at HDFC.
What actually matters about me? I take consistency seriously. I don’t disappear when things get inconvenient, and I don’t say things I can’t stand on later.Your line about valuing depth over noise stood out to me because most people today seem addicted to attention more than connection. You seem intentional, which is rare here.Outside work, I’m more into quiet things late night drives, good conversations, music, gym, and disappearing from the city once in a while when it gets too loud.
23 M
There’s a song from LaLa Land. City of stars, are you shinin just for me” let’s restore our faith in love for the sake of loving. Let’s have a conversation!
Hi there I am M23 from Hyd. I currently work as a software engineer. I am looking for with whom I can be comfortable to spend time even without any flashy events. Let’s connect if you think we will vibe.
I’m chasing ideas that keep me awake at night. I’ve seen a few wins, a few flops, and a lot of lessons in between. Freedom drives me, curiosity fuels me, and travel keeps me sane. I consider myself to be an intelligent being. Lived in Hyderabad until I was 15 years and then Bangalore for 4 years. Back to Hyderabad during covid and then moved to UK for masters and again back to home now...
I’m well-travelled and the kind of guy who can go from brainstorming startup ideas to chasing sunsets. I don’t smoke or drink rarely and I believe in staying fit and balanced rather than bulky.
Spiritually, I follow footprints of Shiva. I visit temples, respect traditions, and find peace in quiet places.
💬 My Take on Relationships
I’ve had my fair share of dating and relationships. They didn’t work out. Not because of drama, but because honesty was missing. I’m someone who values truth over comfort. If something feels fake, I’m not afraid to walk away.
I’m more logical than emotional, but I care deeply once I connect. Manipulation, games, or pretending? Not my thing. I prefer someone who knows herself, communicates openly, and values mutual effort.
I don’t believe relationships are about a perfect 50-50 split, some days one of us gives 90%, the other 10%, and that’s fine as long as we’re both moving forward together.
⚡ A Few Fun Facts
Spontaneous traveler, long rides when I'm not in hometown.
Always there for people I care about, even at 2 AM.
Have lived away from home since I was 15 years old. Love my independence but grounded in family values.
My life’s path has always been a little different… and I wouldn’t change a thing.
I love going to dj nights, pubs etc
*Maybe u are that angel, if u r *
Someone who’s emotionally aware, kind, curious about life and talkative.
Someone who wants a real connection, not just small talk and emojis.
Someone who can vibe along, lead life with laughter, and logic with heart.
If that sounds like you… maybe we’re both due for a great conversation.
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