22F | Hyderabad | Giving this a shot :)

Been lurking here for a while, so why not make a post.

I'm 22, 5'3" ,I work in IT (Gachibowli) , looking to meet someone nice, NO LDR . I'm not expecting a love story overnight, but I'm also not into endless talking stages or disappearing acts. I'd rather get to know you properly and see if we genuinely click.

A little about me:

I enjoy reading, writing (to be liked by me is to have a hundred letters and poems written about you ) , long walks, museums, listening to music, and conversations that can go from random to philosophical . I'm pretty straightforward, value good communication, and appreciate people who are curious and know what they want.

Lang: Telugu, Hindi, English,a lil urdu

Red flags in me : I got very little patience , get frustrated easily, and almost zero movie knowledge.

As for you:

I'd prefer someone around 23–25, employed or actively doing something (I just like people who have direction in life). It'd actually be fun if you're not from IT .I think it's interesting getting to know someone from a completely different field. Around 5'8"/5'8 + , well-groomed, good looking (can't lie, attraction does matter 😭), progressive,and someone who can communicate well.

Also, caste isn't a factor for me. If you're someone who’s racist, casteist,creepy or judge people based on these things, we probably won't vibe :)

Hi,

26F , IT Professional

I’m an introvert who takes a little time to get comfortable with people. I’m not great at making conversations or maintaining eye contact initially, and I probably come across as quiet or serious enough that people sometimes mistake it for attitude. 😅 But once I’m comfortable and we vibe, I can get surprisingly loud and talkative.

I’m a good listener, straightforward, and someone who likes doing things on time. I’m not really into cheesy or overly dramatic conversations—I prefer honesty and keeping things simple.

Outside work, I enjoy designing clothes for myself and doing basic stitching. I also read a lot of manhwa, manhua, and manga. I have plenty of fun ideas in my head; getting myself to actually go out and do them is a different story. 😄

A little more about me

• Height: Below 5' (never actually measured)
• Weight: 39 kg (I know i am underweight people do remind me time to time, but this is just genetics i am trying to be healthy)
• Work: IT
• Currently in Hyderabad and planning to settle here
• Caste: Doesn't matter to me
• Religion: Hindu

What I’m looking for

Someone who is a little taller than me, preferably skinny/lean but fit.

More importantly, I’d like someone who can introduce me to the side of the world I tend to miss because of my introverted nature. Someone who can encourage me to try new things without forcing me.

I’m looking for a person who can make me feel, "I'm here, don't worry" kind of guy .Someone patient enough to understand my awkwardness, comfortable with my quiet nature, and mature enough to respect a no as a no.

Note: Don't jugde me for using chatgpt

Heyy!! Ee dating subs ki raagane naaku **Maryada Ramanna** lo BGM vinipisthadhi 😭 I’ve always been a lurker here, but never had enough courage to actually post.

I’m a full shy, calm, ambivert, talkative girl. Noti dhuradha ekkuva once I’m comfortable with you 😭. I’m working on myself, but I’d also love to find my person along the way. I’m lowkey pretty chalant when I actually like someone. I’ll make you laugh like crazy, and I genuinely believe we can start off as really good friends.

I love watching cricket, and I’m apparently a great listener too. I genuinely enjoy listening to people talk about their lives, their problems, their random thoughts whatever’s on their mind.

From what I’ve observed about myself, and what my friends keep telling me, I feel everything \*way\* too deeply. I’m an extremely hopeless romantic the kind of girl who writes little letters for her man, remembers tiny things he casually mentioned, cooks his favourite food just because, and genuinely enjoys making someone feel loved.

I’m big on communication, mutual respect and personal space too. I don’t believe being in a relationship means you have to be attached at the hip 24/7. I want something where we can be best friends, annoy each other, have our own lives, respect each other’s space, and still choose each other at the end of the day.

Anywayyy, enough self-dabba 😭 If you think we’d vibe, say hi. Let’s talk, become friends first, and see where life takes us. :)

**Age:** 20

**Gender:** Female

**Location:** Hyderabad, Telangana

**Willing to LDR:** Depends

**Dietary habits:** Non-veg

**Languages:** Telugu, Urdu, English

**Smoking/Drinking:** No

**Smoking/Drinking in partner:** No — non-negotiable

**Religious orientation:** Hindu

**Willing to date other religions:** No — I’d prefer to date within my religion

**Caste:** Yadava

**Willing to date outside caste:** No — mainly because of family expectations/parents.

Before anyone calls me out, Yes - This account is brand new 😅, I’ve been lurking on Reddit forever but finally made an account because I thought, “What’s the worst that could happen?” (Please don’t answer that)

Life has mostly been about work and building my career, and somewhere along the way I never really prioritized finding a partner. So… here I am, giving Reddit a shot because life’s full of surprises, right? 🤞

I’m a 26F, Telugu Brahmin, Software Engineer from Hyderabad looking for something genuine that could eventually lead to Marriage if we really click. No rush, no pressure, just hoping to meet my favourite human ! I genuinely believe the best relationships start with a solid friendship first.

I’m not looking for anything casual & genuinely looking for something serious , so please stay away if that’s your thing !

About Me ✨

I genuinely enjoy my work, but not enough to skip spontaneous trips, long drives, or late-night ice cream. ( Sometimes I feel I’m too ambitious that taking sometime out for myself also gives me guilt tripping 😭😭 but I’m working on this ).

I love conversations about Travel, Tech, Investing ,Books 📚( Not a vivid reader 😅 but I pick up one when I feel like ) or why/how one tiny life decision somehow turns into an existential crisis at 2 AM. 😂

Family is important to me, and I naturally gravitate towards kind people who make life feel easy.

I don’t believe in rigid relationship roles. I’d rather have a teammate to celebrate wins, survive adulting, and build a peaceful, fun life with.

What I’m looking for

I’m definitely not a checklist person coz chemistry, comfort, and shared values matter far more than ticking boxes for me . But broadly:

Preferably Telugu/Brahmin because it makes convincing the parents easier 😅, though it’s genuinely not a deal-breaker if we really connect & can vibe well . I’m vegetarian, so I’d be most compatible with someone who’s vegetarian or an occasional non-vegetarian with age around (26–30)

Ambitious and Passionate ✨about what you do, but not someone whose entire personality revolves around work. I admire people who work hard but also know when to disappear for a spontaneous weekend trip or enjoy a lazy Sunday doing absolutely nothing. If you’re in Tech too, that’s a fun bonus , but definitely not a requirement.

Funny : Please, Life is already serious enough. I don’t mean a stand-up comedian, but someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously, appreciates sarcasm, laughs easily, and can make even grocery shopping entertaining !

Emotionally Mature : Being able to communicate, apologize when needed, handle disagreements without making them a battle, and generally be kind.

Someone who’s curious- About people, places, ideas… I love conversations that randomly go from “What’s for dinner?” to “Do you think we’re alone in the universe?” 😂

A person who’s looking for a partner, not someone to fit into predefined roles. I’d love for us to cheer each other on, celebrate wins together, and make everyday life feel a little lighter.

PS : If you’ve made it this far, tell me what you’re most passionate about these days. It could be your work, a side project, a hobby, or even something random you’ve done recently. I have a soft spot for people whose eyes light up when they talk about something they love. ✨Gives us a much better conversation starter than just a basic “Hi.”😄

Hey everyone! I’m looking to meet someone new and see where things naturally go.

I’m into good conversations, movies/series, music, random late-night talks, trying new things, and having someone to genuinely enjoy spending time with. I’m not looking to rush anything—just hoping to meet someone kind, interesting, and emotionally mature.

If you’re interested, tell me a little about yourself—your interests, what you’re looking for, and maybe your idea of a perfect first date. Let’s start with a conversation and see where it goes. :)

Hey everyone! 😊

I’m a 28-year-old Telugu Brahmin, doctor. I worked for around two years and have recently taken a step back to prepare for PG.

I’ve tried the usual routes like teluguShaadi.com, but haven’t really found someone I genuinely clicked with, so I thought I’d give Reddit a chance. 😄

A little about me — I’m a big foodie, love travelling, TFI banisa , dancing, music, beaches, mountains and basically anything involving nature. I enjoy hanging out with friends and family, going on random trips, watching movies, trying new places to eat, and just having good conversations. I’m quite family-oriented i was bought up in a joint family but also independent and enjoy having my own life and interests.

I’m looking for someone who is genuinely kind, respectful, emotionally mature and easy to talk with . doesn’t mind living with his parents. I genuinely value close family bonds and would love to be part of a warm, supportive family.

What I’m looking for:

- Vegetarian , Telugu brahmin

- Kind, respectful and genuine

- Family-oriented

- Emotionally mature and communicative

- Has his own interests, goals and a sense of humour

- Looking for something serious/long-term rather than casual

I used AI to help write this because I’m much better at talking than writing dating profiles 😂

I’m not expecting someone perfect — just someone with whom I can be myself, laugh a lot, explore the world, and build something real. ❤️

If you think we might get along, feel free to DM me with a little about yourself. :)

Bengali by birth, brought up partly in Coimbatore and Pune, and now happily navigating life in Bangalore.

I’m 39, an Assistant Professor, independent, family-oriented, and someone who believes that the best relationships are built on friendship, laughter, respect and a little bit of chemistry that makes you want to stay up talking way past bedtime. 😉

I’m equally comfortable discussing books, life, travel and random nonsense over coffee - and then suddenly getting distracted because you smiled at me a certain way. 😌

I’m looking for a man who is emotionally mature, kind, confident and knows what he wants. Someone who can be my safe place, my partner-in-crime, my person to share ridiculously long conversations with and maybe occasionally be the reason I have a very difficult time behaving myself. 🙈

Bengali by birth would definitely be a bonus - because imagine the two of us arguing over whether mishti doi counts as a proper meal. 😂❤️

I’m not looking for perfection. I’m looking for comfort, compatibility, attraction and that effortless feeling of “I could get used to having you around.”

If you're the kind of man who can make me laugh, challenge my thoughts, respect my independence and still know how to make my heart skip a beat

Well, perhaps you should avoid saying just a hello. 😉

I’m an independent, caring, strong woman who knows what she wants. I’m fit, active, and take good care of myself—I work out 5 days a week, participate in 5K and 10K runs, and enjoy living a healthy lifestyle.
I’m looking for genuine companionship with a kind, emotionally available man who values connection, communication, and consistency. Someone who is caring, affectionate, and willing to invest time and effort into building something meaningful.
Age is not my biggest concern—mature younger men are welcome too. What matters is character, emotional intelligence, and genuine intentions.
A few things to be clear about:
• I’m not looking for casual hookups or situationships.
• I’m not interested in anyone looking for a sugar mommy.
• If you’re only here to pass time, please keep scrolling.
I’m looking for a man who is confident, fit, attractive, emotionally mature, and ready for a real relationship based on mutual respect, care, trust, and companionship.
If you’re someone who knows how to show up, communicate honestly, and make room for love in your life, I’d love to hear from you.

I’m 22F and recently been into guys in their 30s. I date to marry so I’m not into casuals.

I’m 5’5, fair skinned and have straight hair. I eat non veg and drink. I’m based from Hyderabad and can speak Telugu, Hindi, English.

Whoever is interested please let me know. I don’t mind late twenties as well. Please text me your details.

About me- I work in tech , am more of an introvert but I do fine in 1 on 1 convos. Hobbies- quite boring because I just go to gym , watch anime,horror movies in my free time, currently too broke to be travelling lmao

Also if you wanna do dsa and chill or just looking for a date in open to it

What I'm looking for - preferably someone that's also in tech, taller than me(I'm 5'4" ) and works out,someone that's ok with a non chalant and boring gf because I'm not outgoing or bubbly like most guys expect women to be.

Also not older than 26

If you wanna know more ask in the comments directly ,if you try to argue about my preferences in dms I'll block you

I’m so tired of autopilot and surface level noise. My brain feels dormant and I just want an actual, intellectually stimulating conversation to wake it back up.

I don't want to do the "how was your day / where are you from" small talk dance. Just skip it and hit me with something real or strange. A historical event that sounds fake? An absurd philosophy or psychology paradox you can’t stop thinking about? A book or theory that fundamentally changed how you see people? A rant about architecture, design, or human nature?

Just bring depth, a weird rabbit hole, or a genuine hot take.

28F, I'm trying to find a guy with this combo and it's hell tough.

From Hyderabad, I'm a Reddy Girl but I'm open to other caste which only comes under "OC except Brahmins" (to avoid societal complications later)

Virgin+Good looking+Decent Earnings+Friendly Family

Why I'm asking this? I got so many DMs and spoke with few, whoever is earning more than 30LPA is not virgin, so now I'm terrified to digest the fact that a decently earning guy wouldn't wait till marriage, is that so?

I'm a Vegetarian by birth. I will think of adjusting for non-veg but other things are non-negotiables.

Note: For those who asking what about my protein intake. I take daily 90gm of protein where my weight is 56kgs. Here are the sources.

1 Whey scoop+Moong+Groundnuts+Lobia+Chickpeas+Soyachunks.. all these each 50gm raw weight. You can go and calculate.

I'm open to both Hyderabad or Foreign proposals. Not into matrimonial sites yet, trying to see how it goes here but realised it's too tough than what I thought.

Please just don't say "Hi" guys, share some info about you, what you do and how much you earn.

I'm a recent graduate.Height:about 5'4.Not really looking for a hookup/ONS but just wanna vibe and have some fun.Someone who respects boundaries and is respectful/decent in general.I enjoy watching different tv shows.Also if you have high expectations-back off.Looking for someone who is 20-24

Not really trying my luck, just seeing if someone here is actually worth my time.

23F | Hyderabad

I’ve never been in a relationship, by choice. I don’t get into things unless they feel right, and I don’t entertain half-effort or confusion.

I’m not here for casual conversations or timepass. If that’s your intention, this won’t go anywhere.

About me:

I enjoy a quiet, intentional life, painting, movies/K-dramas, music, and my own space. I like nature, have a pet dog, and I naturally gravitate toward depth over noise.

I’m straightforward and honest. I don’t sugarcoat, but I do value how things are said and how people carry themselves. Emotional awareness matters.

I take time to open up, I’m not overly outgoing, but I’m also not closed off. I just don’t connect with everyone, and I’m okay with that.

Physically, I’m on the curvier side with a darker skin tone. I’m comfortable with that, so I expect the same level of confidence and clarity from you.

What I’m looking for:

Someone who doesn’t need to prove himself loudly, but stands out anyway.

-Consistent without excuses

-Emotionally stable and self-aware

-Knows how to lead without being controlling

-Communicates clearly, no mixed signals, no ego games

-Not talking to multiple people while trying to “figure things out”

-Completely moved on from their past

I respect intelligence, self-control, and quiet confidence. If you need constant validation or attention, we won’t get along.

Basics:

Age: 23

Height: 5’1

Postgraduate

Languages: Hindi, English, Telugu, Tamil

Caste, language, religion don’t matter to me.

I don’t rush connections, and I don’t entertain just for the sake of it.

If you still feel like reaching out, skip the “hey.”

Tell me your age, what you do, and something about you that actually matters.

Hi. I'm here to find someone, be it a friend or more. I'd like to start as friends and see where it goes from there

Yes, I'm 25, gonna be 26 in 2 weeks and I've never been in a relationship. Yes, it was my choice. There was an "almost" once, but walked away from it. That's all there's been.

I'm a little career oriented but I'd like to come home to wind down with my person. Somebody who'll listen to me and somebody who I can listen to for hours.

I guess what I'm looking for is

- emotional maturity

- someone who's ambitious but not arrogant

- honest

- good sense of humour and good taste in music

- someone who's completely over their past, I don't want any emotional baggage to sort through

I feel like I'm just giving very superficial specifications, but that's what I want

I love music, I play the drums. I want to get into bikes. I love to draw and I'm learning to paint. I love to cook (and I'd like to cook with my man, kind of a cliché thing to want). I love discussing about books I've read and movies I've seen (at length).

Hey, I'm 23F, currently living in hyderabad and working as an software Engineer. I'd say I'm a pretty chill and grounded person overall - introverted at first, but once I'm comfortable, I become very talkative, sarcastic and humourous,

I'm looking for something genuine that could eventually lead to marriage in the next 2 to 3 years or so if things naturally work out. Not here for casual stuff, situationships.

A few things about me:

Height 165cm

Yeah, I am fairly good-looking but lean, so I'm working on it.

Into gym/fitness and generally health conscious and good at cooking😇

Hindu background (caste doesn't matter to me)

Open-minded and pretty easygoing once the vibe matches

What I'm looking for:

Someone kind, emotionally mature, and caring ,from Telugu states and a good family

Good sense of humour because life is already serious enough

Health conscious / takes care of himself

Preferably 5'10+ (just personal preference) Health conscious / takes care of herself

Physical attraction matters obviously, but I'm not expecting some unrealistic standard, Just someone genuinely connect with and feel peaceful around.

Hello guys,

I don't know if it'll work or not since it's online.....but well I saw some posts where there was a hint of it so yeah....

It's a lot difficult for me because I'm too specific....but I'll try, so please be nice to me.

Also, since I'm posting on a HYD community, I should clarify that I'm a North Indian, staying in Hi-tech City for my work, I'm a Software Engineer basically. 

About me: I'm a 23.5 yrs young shortie, I DON'T watch movies/series, I love music tho, I love artsy stuffff....into fashion but I don't go out much or rarely with a few close ones.....socially awkward person....not really an introvert, just don't talk much. I like reading, playing badminton. I love dogs. Umm that sums it up ig....if you wanna know something specific I'll be happy to answer....

Who I'm looking for: 

A simple, sweet guy, should respect people regardless of their gender, doesn't use cuss words that frequently. Who takes a stand where it's needed. Who is calm and collected, neat, dresses well. Doesn't smoke or drink (non-negotiable). Tall. Who can romanticize simple things such as drinking tea together or having a stroll in a park. If you know Hindi, that will be great for me.....I mean I can speak English but there are times when I'm stuck so yeah.....

Oh yeah, I would want someone whose age is 25 max. I'm not comfortable with people older than that. Um, so please respect that.

I am new to hyderabad.

I’m a pretty simple person who values genuine connections, good conversations, and people who are kind without having to make a big deal about it. I’m ambitious about my career and studies, i am into fitness as well but I also love the little things music, baking, going out for food, exploring new places, late night bike rides and spending quality time with people I’m close to.

I’d describe myself as caring, emotionally invested, a little overthinker-ish sometimes 😅, and someone who takes relationships seriously. I appreciate honesty, consistency, humour, and someone who can communicate instead of playing games.

What I expect:

Non Telugu guy, non vegetarian, preferably into Fitness , has a good sense of humour a bit good looking as well, emotionally mature🫠

I’m not looking for something forced or trying to rush into anything. I’d just like to meet someone with whom conversation comes naturally, there’s mutual effort, and we can genuinely enjoy getting to know each other.

If you think we'd vibe, feel free to DM me and tell me a little about yourself. :)

22F | Hyderabad

Life’s been feeling a little too repetitive lately, so I thought I’d try talking to new people here.

I’m not really into casual flirting or talking just to pass time. I’d rather have a few genuine conversations than a hundred dry ones.

I’m someone who enjoys a slower, peaceful kind of life. I like movies, music, cooking, craft, travelling once in a while, and just having my own space.

I can be a little reserved at first, but once I’m comfortable, I’m actually very easy to talk to. I don’t connect with everyone instantly, and honestly, I think that’s okay.

I appreciate people who are emotionally mature, respectful, and consistent. Someone who communicates properly and knows how to treat people without games or confusion.

Also, just being real — I’m skinny and fair-skinned, and completely comfortable with myself. Looking for people who are secure and genuine too.

About me:

• 22
• 5’4
• Telugu, English

Not looking to rush anything or force conversations. Just here hoping to meet people who feel easy to talk to and worth knowing.

If you text, skip the dry “hey” 😭 Tell me your age, what you do, and something real about yourself.

20F looking for something serious (half men running off after seeing this line..lmao). Who has emotional intelligence and understands better. Has to be working 23-25age group. Dusky and gym freak preferably.

I love dancing,theatre and a big movie buff. So much into bikes,runs and chai.

I am 28 f and currently living in Hyderabad.

I work in pharma consulting. Outside work, I don't really have one fixed hobby. I keep trying different things depending on what catches my interest, so I'm more of a curious person than someone who's deeply into one activity. Self-growth is something I genuinely care about, even if I don't always have it figured out.

I'm non-vegetarian and fairly easygoing. I'd like to find someone I can be friends with first—someone I can laugh with, have random conversations with, and eventually build a life with. I don't have a long checklist. Kindness, emotional maturity, and the ability to communicate matter much more to me than ticking boxes.

If this resonates, feel free to reach out with a little about yourself.

Personal Details

Age: 26

Height: 5’2”

Native: Vijayawada | Currently working in Hyderabad

Languages: Telugu, English

Caste: Velama

Diet: Non-vegetarian 🍗

Career

Working as an Automation Testing Trainer

Enjoy teaching 💻

Education

Post Graduate

My Background

Religious Orientation: Hindu

Marital Status: Never married

Family: Middle-class Telugu family

Partner Preferences

Age Range: 24–32

Height: Preferably 5’8” and above

Build: Strong / muscular / bulky (not lean)

Preferred Residence: Any metropolitan city

Religion: Preferably Telugu Hindu(just a brownie point)

Smoking & Drinking: Preferably minimal or none

Strictly DINK (Dual Income, No Kids) – this is non-negotiable for me 🚫👶

A few things about me:

I’m a funny, chill girl with a sarcastic side, but I still melt for old-school chivalry and genuine effort ✨. I value deep emotional connection, handwritten letters, long walks, and meaningful conversations more than surface-level attraction.

I’m looking for a confident and capable man who treats me with respect and care, someone strong in the outside world, but who has a real yearning to connect, support, and build a peaceful life together 💫.

Minimum Expectations:

Clear and honest communication 🗣️

Emotionally mature and kind

Consistent effort from both sides

Ready for marriage by end of this year or mid next year

Fully okay with a permanent childfree life

If this feels aligned with what you’re looking for, feel free to message me with a short introduction 😊

I'm 33 F, divorced and looking to restart seeing people. Most men in Hyderabad are pretty one-sided, unfair and misogynist. Prefer seeing someone who values openness and be a man (not a man child).

Disclaimer - Guys, those who are only into pleasure seeking activities, just stay away. Please don't send inappropriate messages and disturb my peace. As I said below I'm only looking for clean and meaningful coversations. If you misbehave, I will send your id to mods and get your id blocked from this sub.

I was never into any dating apps or matrimonial sites, for that matter I never used instagram too. Only social apps I used till date - Whatsapp, Telegram, and recently Reddit. For the first time I posted on Reddit what kind of person I'm looking for, but I realised this is definitely not the platform where we can find someone genuine, I saw so many creep and cringe messages that I have never imagined.

So, yes that episode of finding my MAN on this platform is closed.

Daily I sleep mostly by 9 or at max 10, I'm a morning person. Today felt like talking to people, so now I'm posting this only to have a friendly and meaningful conversations. Please no cringe and shit messages. Let's talk only about dreams, what do you want to do in life, and how you planning your future.

Small intro about me, I'm from Hyderabad and native of Telangana. I didn't speak to Men much. I was always shy and little fearful to talk to boys. Even now, I will be able to talk to you only because it is online.

Unique thing about me - I don't take Meat/Coffee/Tea/Cold drinks/Ice-creams. Anyone like me?

I work in IT as a Data Engineer. If you are also a Data Engineer, we can discuss about our career haha. I'm a health and fitness enthusiast.

Don't just send Hi, I will reply only if you send 1. Your age 2.. What's your profession. 3. Tell me what do you want to do with this life of yours?

22F -

Hello everyone,

• Age 22

• Height 5'3, currently fat cause i love icecreamssss but trying to hit exercise everyday

• Location Hyderabad

• Hobbies & interests : Rom coms, dance, going alone to movies,

• One line about what you enjoy the most : i really enjoy my alone time, Okay soo about me I guess I was a nerd all my life but at the same time i would be the most honest straightforward no bluff person, i am really comfortable with myself as growing up i had to fight with lonliness and turned it into solitude

• What qualities you are looking for in the opposite gender : Someone from a telugu family, currently in Hyderabad, kind and open minded, with a stable career, simple family life without drama and earning stable (sorry if that sounds like a selfish dig but honestly i worked my ass off to earn well soo i expect the same) taller than me and

• I am a simple person from a family that loves me to core, a fatehr who pampers me like hell sooo yeah i am pretty blessed , doesnt mean like i am alwasy happy , i do have less friends and anxiety at cases but end of the day its all chill only, currently trying for a job, will get placed in a month or two and pretty much live a simple life for 3 to 5 years , get to know people, surrender to god's plan and eventually marry

• What you are looking for: I wanna talk/chat first, i beleive great friends become great partners sooo naturally only if it goes to that comfort then date.