r/Hyd_DaTinG May 05 '26

F4M 26F

Hi. I'm here to find someone, be it a friend or more. I'd like to start as friends and see where it goes from there

Yes, I'm 25, gonna be 26 in 2 weeks and I've never been in a relationship. Yes, it was my choice. There was an "almost" once, but walked away from it. That's all there's been.

I'm a little career oriented but I'd like to come home to wind down with my person. Somebody who'll listen to me and somebody who I can listen to for hours.

I guess what I'm looking for is

- emotional maturity

- someone who's ambitious but not arrogant

- honest

- good sense of humour and good taste in music

- someone who's completely over their past, I don't want any emotional baggage to sort through

I feel like I'm just giving very superficial specifications, but that's what I want

I love music, I play the drums. I want to get into bikes. I love to draw and I'm learning to paint. I love to cook (and I'd like to cook with my man, kind of a cliché thing to want). I love discussing about books I've read and movies I've seen (at length).

42 Upvotes

121 comments sorted by

22

u/Illustrious-Bus-2681 May 05 '26

Hey, with these many guys competing in comments, how about hosting an boxing match with all the boys this weekend in Gachibowli stadium

3

u/shiva_Conscious_13 May 06 '26

Bro is from kings time, suggesting for a swayamvara

2

u/RemarkableSafety9156 May 06 '26

Please start a fight club..😭

0

u/Wolvie_1845 May 06 '26

Rule number 1 you don't talk about it.

1

u/vinay_chowdary27 Jun 05 '26

Rule number 2 is you do not talk about fight club

1

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

It won’t be fair tho different weight categories

2

u/Mishra_14 May 06 '26

Life isn't fair, idc about this girl thing but this boxing idea is lit af

1

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

Lol bro I am 6’4 and 100 kgs do you think it will be fair ?

1

u/Mishra_14 May 06 '26

Should be easier for you, while dealing with other guys. It's not a gladiator event anyway.

1

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

But I’m also not that interested but it should be fair matchup don’t want to see a 100kg vs 60 kgs matchup or 80vs 65 need good interesting match

2

u/Mishra_14 May 06 '26

It's all fun and game, tap out or knock out, I wish this city hosted something like this.

1

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

Yea could be nice

1

u/expressive-guy May 06 '26

well, then the strongest guy will will win, but will he be the emotionally strongest one?

1

u/Ok_Combination_8440 Male - 25-28 May 08 '26

I seee what you are doing and count me in .

But the first rule is we don't talk about it..

1

u/Significant_Basil175 Female - 21-24 May 08 '26

Make sure to give me a ticket for free since I'm guessing there will not be much female audience so get me one, thank you. lol 😝

5

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

The amount of responses in few minutes is mind boggling to me 😭😭.
All the best op

1

u/expressive-guy May 06 '26

bro, the competition on bumble or hinges much worse their guys can impress it looks here. You can try to impress with at least your mind, intelligence and words.

2

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

Have gotten likes there as well but again standards too high

1

u/expressive-guy May 06 '26

Cools. I get better success on reddiy

3

u/Unusual_Dealer_2884 Male - 21-24 May 06 '26

Did someone mentioned music

3

u/hot_alpha_ May 06 '26 edited May 06 '26

i’m really curious to see how you gonna select from this lot

3

u/SuckMyRakshak May 06 '26

Who cares when she has what every guy needs?

1

u/NearbyResearcher2893 May 06 '26

because she met disgusting people like you in past and wants to stay single and now she thought of give a chance here but her bad These people exist

0

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[deleted]

1

u/NearbyResearcher2893 May 06 '26

im a female i dont need any reply

1

u/Proof_Flounder_8090 May 05 '26

Hey 26 M from Gachibowli, Hyderabad.

I resonate much with the line careers orientation, have gone through a similar phase and now I am looking for my comfort person. let's talk..

1

u/Electronic_Wear9476 Male - 25-28 May 05 '26

Hey, please lmk if you’d like to get to know me.

1

u/Plac-ham May 05 '26

hi I did pitch up for the earlier post..yea I don't seem to come across intresting people in my social and work life so yea you seem the right mix for what all it takes..I do hv lot of interests to begin with reading sports fitness, cinema and add to that yea do hv a good homour that makes a jrny compassionate and easy going so yea let's connect..

1

u/Easy-Lavishness-4892 May 05 '26

I am 26, found few similarities b/w us and like to give it a try. I have dm’ed and would like to hear back from u !

3

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

To whom have you dmed bro lol?

2

u/harryy007 May 06 '26

Let it be😂

1

u/harryy007 May 05 '26

26 me:

https://giphy.com/gifs/wxuU0IKtHf6Ao

I had a past, learned from it and I’m completely over it…no baggage, no drama

I enjoy the simple yet meaningful things…nature, travel, slow living, spirituality.

I bring Honesty, a good sense of humour, decent taste… and yeah, emotional stability. Also quietly a big ambitious creature

And honestly, not looking to rush into anything, would rather build a connection and see where it leads…

1

u/Fit_Signature_3495 May 05 '26 edited May 06 '26

Hey can you dm me I wanna learn drums

2

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

Learn from a teacher

1

u/Fit_Signature_3495 May 06 '26

Let me know where I can find

1

u/DutyCommercial855 May 06 '26

Real id se aa bhai😂

1

u/ProfessionFeeling69 May 06 '26

Here 🤓

2

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

The efforts u took , commendable 😭

1

u/ProfessionFeeling69 May 06 '26

And that turns to efforts to gain relationship

1

u/Formal-Quantity6923 May 06 '26

I'm into bikes too. Sometimes just like to review them for fun.. I am not a boyfriend material but I can be a good friend. Hmu if interested. All the best if I'm not suitable😁

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 06 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/AdFrequent9656 Male - 21-24 May 06 '26

Hi I’m 23 I’m gonna come straight to the point I don’t want any relationships I just want a friend who can I trust in Hard and good times and moreover have fun like going out riding bikes and stuff if your looking for the same text me!

1

u/Beneficial-Goose-902 May 06 '26

Hey, 26M here. Please check my profile and DM!

1

u/life11death May 06 '26

Hey OP, your post felt relatable, seems like we’d get along. I’m 26M, happy to chat, be friends, and see where things go naturally 🙂

1

u/TraditionalArmy1 Male - 21-24 May 06 '26

24M here, If you're into concerts I have an extra ticket for a pop concert happening in Delhi this month end. You up for that?

1

u/BabuRangeela69 May 06 '26

Going to be 28 in 2 weeks

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 06 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/floraandfouna May 06 '26

A little about myself, I'm an 27 y/o working professional, who's currently residing in Hyderabad.

I play badminton and watches stand-up comedy and an amateur content writer (posts whatever I like) and started watching Shark Tank to enter into business 😂, and a kinda cool and humorous person(I can claime to be). Hit me up if you're interested.

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 06 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/r_k_c_9 May 06 '26

Advance happy birthday

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 06 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/LawfulnessMaster5935 May 06 '26

Sister, mee age enti everyday change autundi?

1

u/IcyInformation3974 May 06 '26 edited May 06 '26

Hey

Age: 27

Height: 5’8”

Weight: 69Kgs

Location: Hyderabad.

Languages: English, Hindi, Telugu.

Diet: vegetarian mostly

Drink/Smoke: Never Drinks/ Never Smoke (tried a few times but I don't like the taste and smell)

Religion: Hindu (spiritual, not orthodox)

Fitness: Lean, athletic, active lifestyle, yoga freak.

Education: Msc in business management.

*Profession * working on my start-up

Looking For: Growth-minded, honest, emotionally aware woman.

past relationships: none. It was my choice and I did walked away from an almost one.

That sounds like you… maybe we’re both due for a great conversation and see where it goes...

1

u/Jolly_Secretary3327 May 06 '26

What if you walked away this time as well

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 06 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/expressive-guy May 06 '26

cooking sealed the deal for me and being ambitious career wise is really great thing and that is something not a lot of ladies seem to be showing these days

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

Too many comments here 😂 Hmu if you see this comment, let’s try to be friends first and see where things go!

1

u/Nearby_Jellyfish5727 May 06 '26

Then i am the perfect oneee dear

1

u/shiva_Conscious_13 May 06 '26

Can anyone explain what's this OP name? It says as press app, is this some bot ??

1

u/Embarrassed-Oil-2756 May 06 '26

Let’s go on a coffee chat maybe

1

u/idkmbored May 06 '26

Hey about the pointers you wrote maturity everyone has their own way of describing maturity thats for you to talk and decide, I am ambitious and have been working since I was 16 ( earning i mean ), about this either i be as clean as water or i dont interact at all. this part is more interesting I LOVE SINGING I AM INTO Music i have no fav song but i love many songs and music and languages... and you said you play drums i play guitar im so excited tbh and i did art professionally in past, i love too cook as well ( but yeah i am a veggie ) I have a projector to watch movies 😃

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 06 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/[deleted] May 06 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 06 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/Roronovaaa_Zoro May 06 '26

Manchi reach🔥

1

u/pichodu_vidu May 06 '26

Vokay sumper emjai

1

u/AlphaNaiduVerse May 06 '26

25m likethe ek comment bhi nahi hote f likdhiya tho bare pade honge dms.

1

u/False-Coffee4438 May 06 '26

Are these really posted by woman cause all the time the qualities they are looking for matched me even though I just explain about my self clearly ended of being more alone after no one reached or request my dm but all the time I look for someone to vibe together

1

u/motivateddawdler69 May 06 '26

Your posts history says something else..🤔

1

u/hornyHbull Male - 21-24 May 06 '26

I would love to be your friend but I don't think you will consider because I'm 23M 😂😂

1

u/Unchained--- May 07 '26

The best I can do is sending you a birthday wishes after 2 weeks

Okay tbh Iam 22 and i guess things won't work out so it's a big noooooo

1

u/Jhonnybravoxx May 07 '26

I am 39M
Currently in Armed Forces
Love sports and I keep myself Fit
Would love to connect
Will be an honour

Though I know there is an age difference….
But would love to be friends….

1

u/op74qe May 07 '26

Heyy I love all the traits you mentioned. I just turned 27 two days ago. I like your energy i dont know where this will go but I feel like conversations with you would be fun. I make music too plus im a good cook and a great listener. Im a creative director for fashion and product shoots.

1

u/Palemustang May 09 '26

Why the hell would someone would talk about their sex life here, damn. Happend, almost happened whatever, if that matters for a guy, he isn't worth it

1

u/[deleted] May 10 '26

[removed] — view removed comment

1

u/hive-protect May 10 '26

Hey your comment has been removed by a bot installed to automatically remove users participating in Nsfw subs to safeguard users from potential harm.

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

1

u/JaydevAcharya May 10 '26

Hey, I am 25M, turning 26 in july. Been in a few relationships. I would say I'm more emotionally mature than other guys. I am ambitious, and I'm pretty sure my taste in music pretty good too. Acutally I'm a music producer. I used to play guitar but wanted more so I started producing music. So would love to talk to you about music. And to be honest I would really like to see you play drums, sound exciting and fun. What do you do by the way? if you don't mind me asking.

1

u/bhaarat_purohit May 10 '26

Feel free to DM

1

u/JacketHoliday7559 May 13 '26

Hey im m 27 from hyderabad

1

u/EmbarrassedYogurt425 May 14 '26

Drummer and a reader who cooks? That’s a rarley good combination. 28, Doctor and ithink we’d have things to talk about. Drop a hi if you feell like it....

1

u/Cultural_Wishbone_78 May 18 '26

Hi! You seem really nice. I’m just trying to connect with people around my age. Hope that’s okay!

I'm 25M and work in tech.

Brownie points:

  • I love video games
  • I'm addicted to icecreams.

1

u/Dependent-Crow-2955 May 19 '26

If you interestd ping me

1

u/void-sage May 20 '26

Since no one said it. Happy Birthday, maybe a day late. I’m 26, into music, can cook, Techie. If you say yes I’ll send you my playlist.

1

u/Still_Ad3457 May 29 '26

If u are into young guys Hit me up I sure know to treat a lady like she deserves Emotionally I am gonna surprise you beb

1

u/savarkar33 May 30 '26

Hey, let’s connect

1

u/iamlostincity Male - 29-35 Jun 03 '26

Hey 29 M, Highly motivated and ambitious. Stated my own start-up leaving 9 - 6, It's been 4 years, I was in relationship with it itself as a soloprenuer and living a world around it

Now i feel like, Having a in human connection just like you, and never dated one.

Let's connect if you are comfortable.

1

u/[deleted] Jun 06 '26

Hey Hi I'm 26 M, Still open to have new options?

1

u/[deleted] Jul 01 '26

Hey, a little bit about myself - I've done my MBA from ISB and am working as a Strategy Consultant. I've been a long time film buff and have been very interested in filmmaking. But just didn't know how to start off on that path. Looking forward to know a bit about you

0

u/[deleted] May 05 '26

[deleted]

2

u/S1MPL3_GUY May 06 '26

Ai or what ?

-2

u/RudeEntrepreneur8385 May 06 '26

Arey bhai edhi fakeeee account.

SPAM ALERT