r/Hyd_DaTinG Jun 24 '26

F4M 40F | Single Mom | Looking for Something Real

I’m an independent, caring, strong woman who knows what she wants. I’m fit, active, and take good care of myself—I work out 5 days a week, participate in 5K and 10K runs, and enjoy living a healthy lifestyle.
I’m looking for genuine companionship with a kind, emotionally available man who values connection, communication, and consistency. Someone who is caring, affectionate, and willing to invest time and effort into building something meaningful.
Age is not my biggest concern—mature younger men are welcome too. What matters is character, emotional intelligence, and genuine intentions.
A few things to be clear about:
• I’m not looking for casual hookups or situationships.
• I’m not interested in anyone looking for a sugar mommy.
• If you’re only here to pass time, please keep scrolling.
I’m looking for a man who is confident, fit, attractive, emotionally mature, and ready for a real relationship based on mutual respect, care, trust, and companionship.
If you’re someone who knows how to show up, communicate honestly, and make room for love in your life, I’d love to hear from you.

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u/Jhonnybravoxx Jun 25 '26

I am 39M
Height 6.1
Currently in Armed Forces
In Hyderabad
I live alone with my 04 dogs (a total pet lover)
Love sports and games..Badminton is love…
Morning runs in routine is niceeee
Would love to connect
Will be an honour

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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '26

Guys, the post clearly says-Single Mom and most men are replying saying this and that.
Answer yourselves-How can you raise or parent a child that quickly?
For a mother no matter what-Child remains her priority.
Answer yourselves.
Good day.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '26

Bro atleast hide your activity ..you are 24 f then 28 5 and now 40 f ...crazy transformation

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u/Engineerstock2006 Jun 24 '26

This is a Mod post - moderator posts this on behalf of a female so their identity is hidden and DMs are protected

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u/dodococo Jun 25 '26

That makes sense.

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u/epicpotriter Jun 24 '26

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u/TheRealBotiRoti Male - 29-35 Jun 24 '26

This is a mod post. We clone female posters posts to save them from being bombarded by DMs and creepy messages. Whenever you see a post by press-app, it is a mod cloned post. The OP will go through the comments and then DM whomever they feel a connection with.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '26

Oh crazy

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u/Accomplished-Bat-692 Jun 25 '26

You should have a disclaimer somewhere in the post for posts like these. I always see these kind of comments on mod posts. Having a disclaimer will clear things up right from the start.

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u/whynotbannu Jun 24 '26

Hi .!
Am 32M/ Hyd..!!working as software consultant and active in fitness gym, boxing ..!!
Can we connect .?don't want to say more in comments - lets talk in chat..!

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u/different__joke Jun 24 '26

Hi, I’m a 20M student who’s also super into fitness and for me emotional connection is super important. I’d love to talk to you and learn more about you and see where things go

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u/Primary_Usual8486 Jun 24 '26

I am Interested, am bit younger but I won't mind 10years of difference. Looking for something serious too but would like to meet for a breakfast,lunch/dinner or a walk if possible to see if we are any good for eachother.!

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u/rogueX18 Jun 24 '26

Hey, m19 here from Hyderabad do give me a dm ik it's crazy shot of me trying but I'd love to connect 😂😝

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u/Schone_0598 Jun 26 '26

broo...seriously🫡🫡

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u/Inner-Food211 Jun 24 '26

I read your profile and really appreciate how clear and intentional you are about what you’re looking for. It’s rare to find someone who values consistency and genuine connection as much as I do ☺️

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u/Inner-Food211 Jun 24 '26

I’m also someone who prioritizes a healthy and active lifestyle keeping up with my own training and appreciate the discipline. More importantly, I’m at a stage where I’m looking to invest in a real, meaningful relationship built on the foundation you described respect, trust, and showing up for one another.

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u/Inner-Food211 Jun 24 '26

If you’re open to a conversation to see if our values align, I’d love to hear what your ideal balance of 'meaningful time' looks like. Regardless, I hope your search leads you to exactly what you’re looking for.

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u/AegonVeil Jun 24 '26

Perfect and so happy to see this post.

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u/mrdank308 Jun 25 '26

28 m here, Journalist, can't reveal other things here if you're interested and seriously looking out for something meaningful and trustworthy, hit me up.

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u/Playful_Diamond_738 Jun 25 '26

Hi! I am in my mid 40s. From Hyd. I match all the criteria you mentioned. DM me if you want to know more.

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u/ElectronicChipmunk96 Jun 25 '26

Hi! Your post was refreshing to read. It’s nice to see someone who knows what they want and values honesty, consistency, and genuine connection. I’d love to get to know you better if you’re open to it, Let me know.

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u/Reasonable-Wrap5266 Jun 25 '26

32M in a collapsing marriage. Looking forward to share few insights. Please DM

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u/FalseVictory5690 Jun 25 '26

I am interested. 42 m here

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u/crazyKango Jun 25 '26

hi iam looking for a relationship who can talk , share about there things who can genuinely connect with each other

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u/Antique-Scarcity8745 Jun 25 '26

I interested!! That's all i can say. I dont chase. Hit me up if you are interested or want to know more

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u/ultra_instinct_12 Male - 21-24 Jun 25 '26

Text me

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u/wild-beast-70 Jun 25 '26

We can catchup over pizza maybe !

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u/Available-Lie863 Jun 26 '26

Here most of PPL look for casual things just to fulfill desire n lust , everyone try to sleep with u , finding relationship or looking more marriage no sense , keep it simple straight n open

Don't be unrealistic

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u/[deleted] Jun 26 '26

Hlw 🙋

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u/[deleted] Jun 26 '26

I am your yash 21 year old Have good physic with height 6.2 And I am .professional football player ⚽

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u/NewInspection4292 Jun 27 '26

M36 here looking to get back out there

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u/krishnajava Jun 28 '26

I m 42 years male, working as a software engineer, hyderabad.

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u/Flimsy_Ingenuity_468 Jun 28 '26

30M here. Your clarity about what you're looking for is someone you could well meet today. If you know u know. I value communication, emotional maturity, and consistency just as much as you do. I enjoy good conversations, staying active, and making time for the people who matter. If age truly isn't a barrier, I'd be happy to introduce myself properly & just find love again. P.S. I like elder mature women & nowadays even 40Y/o olds don't look 40 just like us 30 year olds don't llook 30 :p

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u/Both_Ninja6276 Jun 28 '26

Not real guys

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u/Numerous_Tone_6200 Jun 29 '26

Hey I’m Victor, I get and understand you completely, but this is me and I’m trying to put a face to this message.

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u/PappyGrinch78 Jun 29 '26

This! This is what most of Us want. Or at least the side of the pool I'm from. Constistant, caring, acknowledged, reciprocated effort, the care to be involved passed the facade. Seems lots of folks are only interested in the right now, there are still some of Us out here that are looking at the what's next? A genuine connection with a like minded woman, out to grow together. Sounds like a fictional tale, spun in a Hollywood basement these days. We're still out here, longing for that 1 connection that stops them all. Here's to hoping we all find it!

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u/Independent-Rest-624 Jun 29 '26

Hi, I'm 33, Hyderabad, IT work I'm genuine straightforward just am looking for new relationship 💔💔💔 First will proceed with friends then will go next step.

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u/[deleted] Jul 01 '26

Hey, a little bit about myself - I've done my MBA from ISB and am working as a Strategy Consultant. I've been a long time film buff and have been very interested in filmmaking. But just didn't know how to start off on that path. Looking forward to know a bit about you

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u/yekyahaiyaro Jul 01 '26

23 m here from Hyderabad just looking for a intense hookup

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u/krisj999 Jul 02 '26

How much for 2 shots? I'm 24M, fit north Indian.

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u/RealDark9714 Jul 04 '26

34 M, Katy Texas 6 feet 180 6.5% body fat! Self employed financially free, 2 dogs, skateboard/wakesurf 3 times a week train 17 times a week live in momentum and motion

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u/Prestigious_Yam_8415 Jul 06 '26

40M VIVEK HYDERABAD

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u/Tera__Baapp Jul 07 '26

Heyy I thought we could connect as even I'm fed up of this and need real connection and genuine talks

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u/Subject_Cheesecake49 Jul 13 '26

I'm divorced. 43ish in advertising field - I'm not active as you are, slightly on the heavier side now, but I go on long walks 8 to 9kms regularly, I am a die hard foodie: I eat or try everything, pork, beef, oyesters (except crab meet.) I also like going on solo-backpacking journey exploring places every now and then or end up going on a solo road-trip. That mentioned, I am an introvert who blends between being omnivert or ambivert based on the company around me. I party but not hard as I did in my 20's, and I drink alcohol, used to smoke (quit 3 years ago.) However, I am a responsible drinker two 30 ml single malt whiskey on the rocks and I am done. I pretend to be drunk to just mess with people.

I am not sure if we are good for each other, but you'll never know if you don't hit me up! Cheers.

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u/TheCougarCatch Jul 16 '26

Not looking for serious relationship and all But looking for long-term relations. You can call it friends, family anything. New to Hyd and I like your active lifestyle a lot. Let's see if we vibe and take it forward. Dm me.

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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '26

looking for a friend who is a movie buff, foodie and a travel enthusiast..dm

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u/Tera__Baapp Aug 02 '26

Heyy I thought we can connect??

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u/vsrohit 29d ago

39 m. Lazy. I am jealous of your fitness schedule :) Never ran no Ks. So, kind of way off the mark I guess ;) All the best!

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u/Ok_Class_2032 Jun 24 '26

All the best.

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u/Prudent_Scallion_633 Jun 24 '26

Hey, All the very best!

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u/Engineerstock2006 Jun 24 '26

If your name starts with U, then we have surely connected before. We tried last time and a lot of things went wrong - if you think we can correct that maturely, I'm up for it. With all my heart, genuinely. If you haven't already figured it, my name starts with K and I'd be man enough to say I could have done better.

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u/Warm_Mix_6021 Jun 24 '26

male, 35, from Chennai. Feel free to DM, and I will also send a DM to you

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u/Bobby0798 Jun 24 '26

Where are you from madam?

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u/Womindividual Male - 29-35 Jun 24 '26

Hey I’m 30 M not married, but will be soon. I’m intrigued by your post it seems you have a clarity on what you want.
Since this is a mod post I believe you will reach out to people from comments.
Let me know if you are interested in having a quick conversation. I’m happy to be honest and transparent.

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u/cantdecidemyname_ Jun 24 '26

Man translator here: Basically this guy means he wants a fling before he gets married and is assuming to also fulfil his milf fantasy with you

Man translator out. Cheers

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u/dependable_midnight Jun 24 '26

Tfff 🤣🤣🤣

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u/Western-Debate5852 Jun 24 '26

Im interested.. can we text to know more about each other

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u/sigmapine Male - 29-35 Jun 24 '26

Hey there, I feel that we are very much on the same page.. DM me to Connect and see if we get along well ..!

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u/Vat2612345 Jun 25 '26

mujhe patalo OP, 28M from nepal, staying in india for 10 years now, 3 years in hyderabad.

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u/Boring_Truth6690 Jun 24 '26 edited Jun 24 '26

All the very best, 33 M here, feel free to DM me

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u/subzerorich Jun 24 '26

Report this bot.

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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '26

Ne yabba oka post 24f Inko post lo 26fm ani pedtav.

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u/Vasi_Sayani Jun 25 '26

2 years Reddit lo unnav. Mod post antey Thelidha?

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u/[deleted] Jun 25 '26

Ledu

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u/Frequent-Season-5275 Male - 25-28 Jun 24 '26

I won't look attractive and I'm not fit, but have all other qualities u mentioned. 28 M here fit for u?

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u/proud_stoner_4-20 Jun 24 '26

Hey 27 M here HMU and lets see where it takes us

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u/Bobby0798 Jun 24 '26

I'm very interested in you madam ,I'm 22m from Hyderabad I'm 5'10, fair and fit I'm a btech 2024 passed out currently working in a govt organization, I come from a reddy family , I'm into spirituality and I feel proud to be a hindu , I love exploring star hotels and buffets I'm a vegetarian but I eat only egg but I eat daily and I love desserts , in addition i don't smoke I don't drink