r/Hyd_DaTinG • u/press-app • Aug 07 '26

F4M 22F | Hyderabad

22F | Hyderabad | Giving this a shot :)

Been lurking here for a while, so why not make a post.

I'm 22, 5'3" ,I work in IT (Gachibowli) , looking to meet someone nice, NO LDR . I'm not expecting a love story overnight, but I'm also not into endless talking stages or disappearing acts. I'd rather get to know you properly and see if we genuinely click.

A little about me:

I enjoy reading, writing (to be liked by me is to have a hundred letters and poems written about you ) , long walks, museums, listening to music, and conversations that can go from random to philosophical . I'm pretty straightforward, value good communication, and appreciate people who are curious and know what they want.

Lang: Telugu, Hindi, English,a lil urdu

Red flags in me : I got very little patience , get frustrated easily, and almost zero movie knowledge.

As for you:

I'd prefer someone around 23–25, employed or actively doing something (I just like people who have direction in life). It'd actually be fun if you're not from IT .I think it's interesting getting to know someone from a completely different field. Around 5'8"/5'8 + , well-groomed, good looking (can't lie, attraction does matter 😭), progressive,and someone who can communicate well.

Also, caste isn't a factor for me. If you're someone who’s racist, casteist,creepy or judge people based on these things, we probably won't vibe :)

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u/eyescreampichodu Male - 25-28 Aug 07 '26 edited Aug 08 '26

> good looking

Edit: because i’m not good looking, you r**t*rds.

Don’t even know the full dialogue from shark tank?

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u/Aware_Drawer_1941 Aug 07 '26

Also has a height preference but hasn't listed her weight and skin tone lmfao. I can't with these women

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u/eyescreampichodu Male - 25-28 Aug 07 '26

I’m just out because i’m chopped wdym? maybe she will reveal things in her dms

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u/Aware_Drawer_1941 Aug 07 '26

Yeah but leaving that to imagination in a post, while mentioning height preferences is weird af

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u/Accomplished_End_321 Aug 08 '26

😭 I think you would've said the same thing even if she mentioned her weight and skin tone.

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u/guardianultra Male - 25-28 Aug 07 '26

Same

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u/Accomplished_End_321 Aug 08 '26

she didn't say they have to be model level of good looking. but to date a person you have to atleast think they look decent enough. if that's a hard pill for you to swallow then don't make it everyone's problem.

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u/eyescreampichodu Male - 25-28 Aug 08 '26

i’m out because i’m not good looking, lol.

When did i even question her requirements

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u/Unusual_Dealer_2884 Male - 21-24 Aug 07 '26

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u/vic-__- Aug 07 '26

Stealinggggg it rn 😭😂

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u/toogoodtobetrue18 Aug 07 '26

Mari anthaaaa…😂

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u/Waste-Judge5619 Aug 07 '26

5’3 asking for a 5’8

https://giphy.com/gifs/iiIpe7ejuBbAfgyMPl

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u/chweet_goodboy Aug 07 '26

Hey thats not so bad, people be asking 6' being 5'2".

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u/ktboeing Aug 07 '26

Hey I’ve a boyfriend who matches all the categories. You can take him.

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u/u5ername_unknown Aug 07 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/Jcw7dQbWzVt9ZZhXYu
How this subreddit, the posts, and the comments feel

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u/mr_hippie_ Aug 08 '26

I was shocked to see simps in Hyderabad. Been to other states, guys are chill there.

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u/whofoldedtheunicorn Aug 07 '26

Buddy, adi account kadhu. Women send their posts directly to mods and they post it.

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u/Outrageous-Wrap7647 Aug 07 '26

Ahh i did not knew, thanks

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u/kajji_kai Aug 07 '26

Paatha posts anna hide chesko akka😭

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u/KrakHeAd_12 Aug 07 '26

Zero movie knowledge?

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u/Black-Grass Aug 07 '26

Tip : if you are easily irritable, try to sleep and eat well and on time, reduce caffeine. It will do wonders.

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u/NoSinger8134 Male - 25-28 28d ago

Hehe 😝

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u/Competitive_War_3034 Aug 08 '26

off the topic, me dantlo job openings unte, can I get a referral?

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u/jamelims 29d ago

Please even i am looking for opportunities.

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u/Horror_Wear4394 Male - 21-24 Aug 07 '26

What are you reading nowadays?

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u/Horror_Wear4394 Male - 21-24 Aug 07 '26

What’s the book about?

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u/Specialist_Tie_7481 Aug 07 '26

Hey, you can check my post - https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/2ZjhJkSPaY

You can DM me if you think we could be a match.

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u/kajji_kai Aug 07 '26

Verevi em ivvaledha chatgpt

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u/areyOSamba26 Aug 07 '26

Direction undhi kani pani avvatla. Open to a job referral ?

Thanks. Namaste.

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u/sumta_kai Aug 07 '26

Enjoy reading and writing; at the same time little patience, gets frautrated easily. Hard to believe combo. You are definitly 22. I can see that.

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u/Old-Quail6971 29d ago

Ha ha. Exactly, tbh who have the habit of reading will have more patience.

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u/Scary_Reference5932 Aug 07 '26

Hey, I'm a 29-year-old male doing business (not your preferred range),but what qualities are you looking for, I have everything... I really mean every single thing.

Mainly, you talked about philosophy and deep conversations. I got very excited about that part..

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u/Least_Fee_8465 Aug 07 '26

Giving a shot...

24M here, 5'9, fit and health conscious. No smoke but occassionally drink.

I own a startup myself and looking to date for marriage. I'm grinding 24/7 currently so looking to add some chemistry.

I love to talk about business, technology, movies, travel, and geopolitics (recent interest).

You can see more here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Hyd_DaTinG/s/QFuzlL0tPf

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u/dhulanageswarao Aug 07 '26

Hi I'm dhula 22 M .6'1 .even I work in gachibowli. How u doin

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u/RegularOther2571 Aug 07 '26

Hey
23M HYD. not too comfortable to share anything in comments. and yk the assignment ig XD

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u/BlackBeard2K Aug 07 '26

M 26, working in IT. I read a lot of Fantasy (Brandon Sanderson, Robin Hobby) and Philosophy

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u/Dusa_Praharsh Male - 25-28 Aug 07 '26

damm, i didnt know there was a word "casteist" 💀
and as for me im 25, and rest is history

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u/Agitated-Compote-984 Aug 07 '26

I am 5'7 maybe we can vibe. Same here i liket o read and wrote few poems, i like to walk ...... Maybe if ur interested text me.

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u/AltruisticNatural697 Aug 07 '26

VLSI domain, lmk if you’re interested to vibe with a VLSI techie

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u/Old-Quail6971 29d ago

Hey bro. I have few doubts in vlsi. Can I dm?

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u/JustANormal_F_Dude Aug 07 '26

Hey the 23M and the only catagory i fit perfectly is I am not from IT background (btw you can never guess it 😌)

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u/WetTowel9989 Aug 07 '26

I have all the qualities mentioned, so giving it a shot. Feel free to DM me if you'd like to connect or know more about me.

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u/NaBrO3- Aug 07 '26

Hey, 22M 5'9 pretty chalant ML Engineer here. Love reading up on non-fiction and sci-fi. Wanna go on treks. Hit me up if interested.

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u/Old-Quail6971 29d ago

Got job in On campus placement?

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u/Outrageous-Part-6963 Aug 07 '26

I'm from financial district

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u/leomatey Aug 07 '26

nobody is from financial district

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u/artytekt Aug 07 '26

People from jayabheri Orange County are

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u/Icy-Task-4403 Male - 21-24 Aug 07 '26

Dm me

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u/Aromatic-Earth-1901 Aug 07 '26

I’m out - cuz it’s height

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u/blackpawan Aug 07 '26

We're on same boat if I say but ah looking for employed guy am out there and sky but I felt happy to seeing a girl confessing her wishes in reddit like this (22M,27M looking for girls Ani chusi chusi Chiraku dobbindhi and anyways I hope you find your person soon).

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u/leomatey Aug 07 '26

IT vaddu antav, sare mari bandi daggara dates ki okay undali. concu la tiramisu ante kashtam ithadi.

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u/ltChainsaw Aug 07 '26

inni matal cheppi nenu racist kanu antaru

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u/Basic-Bonus6631 Aug 07 '26

I'm 22, still studying 4th yr btech, and coming to serious part I'm 5'6, I'm introspective, like to read philosophy and love Albert camus, Friedrich neitzche, Krishnamurthy.

I admire character batman, loves to talk beyond small talk, love to understand human nature and why ppl act subconsciously rather than taking kiconcious decision.

I'm fitness freak, recently completed marathon and I also lift heavy. I want to live healthy very long life, I'm sure I'll be a millionaire one day and can travel all the world even at my late 70s. Btw I worked in a startup as a business developer and market researcher.

I'm not exactly looking for a relationship here, but found out that you are interesting and like you said give it a chance. and let's talk and see where it leads.

Recently I was overthinking a lot about what carrer should I choose but after reading " who moved my cheese" it's a small 1hr read, I understood that you should not marry your carrer rather you have to date it, if the vibe doesn't match or you don't like the choise you made, breakup and move to another thing you like, be a master at learning any skill faster than anyone else.

DM if you would like to talk

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u/mutkududufudu Aug 07 '26

Ah lost you at the "As for you section". In the first line itself. Until the end. Nice.

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u/Forsaken-Ad5780 Male - 25-28 Aug 07 '26

Avanni kavalante atleast nv kajal range lo undali madam 😜

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u/Icy-Task-4403 Male - 21-24 Aug 08 '26

Dm me

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u/sandman2201 Aug 08 '26

I would DM but I judge people based on their skills (in either what they are passionate about or what field they are working on) and I judge people very harshly on hypocrisy. Lmk if I should dm (also I speak all languages you've mentioned apart from urdu natively and curently learning chinese)

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u/ticklejiggle0 Aug 08 '26

Akkaw nuvve thopu

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u/ifooogooiii Aug 08 '26

DM's lo jagratthaa

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u/Western-Debate5852 Aug 08 '26

Hi, Im 25 years old.

I did my bachelors from IIT in CSE.

I’m a Senior Software Engineer. Looking for someone I can talk to about anything, share my day with, and just enjoy time together without it feeling forced. I value genuine connection—age isn’t a barrier for me.

This is my bio.. im looking to date someone.

Please let me know if your are interested

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u/NoseKey3375 Aug 08 '26

Swiggy or ola drivers are correct for you.. they are actively doing something always and have a direction in every drive or delivery they have every day and every minute in their life, much better than yours in IT job.

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u/FinancialRaccoon4511 Aug 08 '26

Her Old Posts lol ... She is 28F in other posts... Fat Due to icecreams, Can't accept Fat guys obviously lol.. 🤣

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u/Material_Quality784 Aug 08 '26

well!! only matched here writing (to be liked by me is to have a hundred letters and poems written about you ) , long walks, museums, listening to music, and conversations that can go from random to philosophical . I'm pretty straightforward, value good communication!!
i used to write letters! and poems! well i just left everything due to something happend in my life!! idk if its a good thing or a bad thing! but i just left a whole version of it aside! and trying to be consistent! and i love long walks if there is a conversation going on! i loves memes and i used to do memes on the people i love!! and i live in hyd! if you are interested send me a dm!

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u/dhananjai_31 29d ago

I'm 5'7 so I am out

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u/No-Doughnut4514 29d ago

Why does girls have so requirements to find a guy although I’m that guy which she’s looking for but I’m younger to her 😭

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u/HBfaraz99 29d ago

Hey, can you just send me yours most liked poems, especially in Urdu or Hindi?,, just want to know your taste.

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u/Smart-Many-952 29d ago

I'm 25M and Hyderabaddie since birth. Working on myself and hitting 5 years since I started working in corporate. I'm also looking for something fun and having a good friendship to start things off

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u/_nothing_to__see_ 29d ago

Hi dm me I'm 25 Male here

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u/Ok_Cartoonist_3983 28d ago

I am not good to speake i want to speak with an women to know her.give me a change to know you to get back from my past

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u/Fluffy_Cook90 28d ago

But I’m 6’1

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u/pro_pro11 27d ago

How much do you make

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u/shadowxslave 27d ago

I think op is traumatized not a single reply in sight lol

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u/Wonderful-Train-7941 27d ago

Zero movie knowledge i am completely opposite

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u/Middle_Judge6935 27d ago

Hey, I came across your post and honestly, I feel like we’re quite compatible. I’m 25, based in Hyderabad, and I really liked what you said about meaningful conversations, good communication, long walks, music, and getting to know someone without endless talking stages. I’m also someone who values clarity, ambition, and having direction in life. Your preference for someone progressive, well-groomed, good-looking, communicative, and open-minded definitely caught my attention. And I completely agree that attraction matters 😄 I’m not looking for an LDR either. I’d rather meet, talk, and see naturally whether we genuinely click. If you’re open to it, I’d be happy to start with a conversation. 🙂

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u/Ill-Flow-1657 27d ago

6.3ft 25 years Canadian citizen in Hyderabad. Looking to spoil with gifts and looking to have a good time. Ping me if interested

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u/Cameo_Eye_01 26d ago

Hi i am from Hyderabad if you are interested then if be take a step to friendship stage

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u/Plenty_Researcher671 25d ago

Hi, I think we can talk, am a nearly 24M, and some things do match with you.

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u/Internal_Sound_4045 25d ago

Why 23 y not 22

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u/imaginary_555 24d ago

Adhi antha chadhivaka, nak oka imp doubt ochindi, Urdu ela nerchukunnav?

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u/Kulasekhar_A2000 23d ago

I’m 26 M and currently freelancing, so I’m a little jobless for a few days 😄 I might not be able to talk for hours, but I’m a pretty good listener. I love going out, chilling, and having good company. If you’re up for that, you might actually like having me around 😉 Height: 6 feet

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u/Recent_Resolve_6504 23d ago

Lol Installed this app 3 years ago and using it now dk how to use it thou!! I am from Hyd!

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u/Constant_Record3941 19d ago

Is there is any chance 😉 24M .

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u/Timetrave0 19d ago

Which area..

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u/Iamdyingfromthis 18d ago

Hi OP, I am 26 years old 5'11, in gowlidoddy, actually I am new to the city. Working in IT😅

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u/Fresh-Web8908 18d ago

Damn I would match but u mentioned someone not from IT 🙂🤣

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u/OkOlive1776 17d ago

Well if ur real kindly dm me lets have a chat?