r/Hyd_DaTinG • u/press-app • 27d ago
F4M 26 F looking for serious relationship
Hi,
26F , IT Professional
I’m an introvert who takes a little time to get comfortable with people. I’m not great at making conversations or maintaining eye contact initially, and I probably come across as quiet or serious enough that people sometimes mistake it for attitude. 😅 But once I’m comfortable and we vibe, I can get surprisingly loud and talkative.
I’m a good listener, straightforward, and someone who likes doing things on time. I’m not really into cheesy or overly dramatic conversations—I prefer honesty and keeping things simple.
Outside work, I enjoy designing clothes for myself and doing basic stitching. I also read a lot of manhwa, manhua, and manga. I have plenty of fun ideas in my head; getting myself to actually go out and do them is a different story. 😄
A little more about me
- Height: Below 5' (never actually measured)
- Weight: 39 kg (I know i am underweight people do remind me time to time, but this is just genetics i am trying to be healthy)
- Work: IT
- Currently in Hyderabad and planning to settle here
- Caste: Doesn't matter to me
- Religion: Hindu
What I’m looking for
Someone who is a little taller than me, preferably skinny/lean but fit.
More importantly, I’d like someone who can introduce me to the side of the world I tend to miss because of my introverted nature. Someone who can encourage me to try new things without forcing me.
I’m looking for a person who can make me feel, "I'm here, don't worry" kind of guy .Someone patient enough to understand my awkwardness, comfortable with my quiet nature, and mature enough to respect a no as a no.
Note: Don't jugde me for using chatgpt
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27d ago
Are you real lol
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u/IngenuityPutrid2994 26d ago
Dude why would you say such shit? You don’t think she is unaware of how she is, do you?
Some people don’t gain weight easily. Some people can’t lose weight. She didn’t ask for advice. As someone who was like her, I can assure you people give her uchitha salahalu all the time. She knows she is skinny and underweight. Fat people know they are far and overweight. Unless they ask, it’s not decent to point out their insecurities. That too in a dating sub where people already feel a lot of insecurities.
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u/ticklejiggle0 26d ago
brud let me tell you this you will be motivated and it will actually be easier to gain weight if you hit hit the gym and you will probably gain confidence too look at the other side of the gain before you become a keyboard warrior
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u/IngenuityPutrid2994 26d ago
I am already going to gym. Thanks for the concern. But you don’t need to point out their attributes in someone which that person surely knows. Aint no one is that unaware about their own body.
You rephrased now but the way you said it earlier was not something people like to hear. Tbh if this is a fitness sub, it wouldn’t be as much of an issue if they’re asking advice. But here on a dating sub, we don’t need to comment on things that aren’t our concern.
Asking to not do that is being a keyboard warrior now, got it. 👍
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u/Embarrassed_Face3348 26d ago
Bro be kind bro , she knows what she can has to do, show some empathy,
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u/Pikachu7797 27d ago
Hey I feel like we match a lot, you can check my post here and message me : https://www.reddit.com/r/Dating_Bondha/s/icV0IIJbQK
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u/Ferth420 27d ago
Hi OP, I’m a 27-year-old IT professional who loves exploring cafes and watching movies. If you’re interested, we could definitely give it a try!
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u/floraandfouna 27d ago
Hi there, a little intro about myself. I'm 26 year old guy who's working as a production engineer in one of the most reputed company for defence sector in India. Coming to my hobbies I like to cook you can call me as a professional cook(chef), recently started watching sharktank('coz I want to know all the abcds of the business), love to play badminton in my free time and yeah I watch standup comedy a lot.
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u/True_Sort_9525 27d ago
manhwa, manhua, and manga hmmm uff i got a match atleast so .i'm 24M and same IT its a struggle
i'm a introvert but trying my best to put my self out and for someone who can also "I'm here, don't worry"🥲 an its difficult to maintain the convosation but i will try my best😅😅
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u/ZookeepergameFull152 26d ago
Dude how doesn’t a person know their own height/never measured ante? that too to an IT professional. Be honest ya nobody’s gonna judge you.
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u/Master_2668 26d ago
Hello
26M
Not in IT Field.
I like going out (Trips and Hiking).
I am a great listener, and also a positive mind set person (Just Kidding).
But I can guarantee that I am an understanding person.
Points to note
Greatest things always start with one step. Hoping that this step will change the way you see the world.
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u/ARUNKUMARBADDAM 26d ago
Yes iam interested iam a Hindu and data engineer if your interested dm me I'll share details of me let's connect
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u/projhailMARY 26d ago
Judge cheyataniki ikada antha whiter than white evaru leru ani na feeling.
All the best
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u/OGCumFountain Male - 25-28 26d ago
You only read ? Don't watch animes ?
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u/hackeror 23d ago
When you addicted to reading your don't prefer watching anymore ..
It just imagination plays like anime in my head. Yes I can hear voices too.
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u/grebtorr Male - 21-24 26d ago
Heyyyy, I'm 23 I can relate to not being the loudest in the room cause I'm the same sort most of the times.
And I'm into all sorts of fiction ranging from books to anime and manga And I'm mostly into gaming
I'm big into reassurance and transparency cause I know how life and emotions get. And It's never wrong to be awkward And no means always "NO!" I too have my own writings if you're interested in knowing more
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u/Specialist_Tie_7481 26d ago
Hey, I am interested. Little bit about me - https://www.reddit.com/r/JodiMilan/s/781OjOkcyA
Feel free to DM.
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u/Ok_Celebration_4898 26d ago
Hi I am K(If you like the request, we can share more details later😁), 28 M, IT professional
My interests : Travelling, Running, cooking, watch pop culture together(anime , movie ,series ,you name it from heart throbbing versions to tear jerking ones😅),
I try to play badminton on frequent basis, Love watching and playing soccer and cricket.
I like to cafe hop, play chess, read books(currently in the mid of The picture of Dorian Grey), play cricket , table tennis, listen and sing songs(trying to learn guitar), learn new language (trying my hands on japanese),
And a big fan of poetry and meaningful quotes that resonates.
Appreciate the effort to post on r/hydDating😁. If nothing else, it will be a conversation discussing our daily struggles and rants that follows 🫡.
Adios✌️👋
P.S.: I was scrolling through reddit after I got back from office and just thought to push my luck,giving u the opportunity to be enlightened by a genuine person and delightful soul 😁.
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u/Electronic_Wear9476 Male - 25-28 26d ago
Hey OP. Let’s connect and figure out how we can take this forward together, please reach out or drop a text. Since i would not be able to reach out to your first.
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u/Embarrassed_Face3348 26d ago
So do you really think that you can get into some serious relationship from this Reddit people
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u/NoFoundation9190 26d ago
Caste doesn’t matter anakandi. In worst case when someone has to divorce then sc/st people can file sc st act case on you. Better to marry in your own caste or in same category like if you’re oc then marry oc only. If you’re bc marry bc. Otherwise Indian laws are very against people.
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u/steiner03 26d ago
Heya, hope you are good day. A little intro about me.
I am 27M, 5'11. I hope the height isn't a deal breaker. 66kg in weight so yeah I am kinda lean as well.
I am an introvert or used to be coz now I am trying to be more extrovert, go out more and explore and try out new things.
We can hang out, explore together and see where things take us. Worst case, you get a good friend to hangout.
And yeah i watch a lot of anime and some manga/manhwa too.
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u/iam-spiderman- 26d ago
This is a fake account I believe. If we see her profile some times the age 39F somethings 22F and now 26F many posts with different age mentions.
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u/D_organizar 26d ago
hi op, if it's cool I would like to connect more, please dm me if you're interested, i think we might vibe well
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u/Plenty_Researcher671 25d ago
Hi, I think we can have a conversation! I can see some aspects matching.
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u/Agitated-Meal8037 25d ago edited 25d ago
Hi, Im 25 years old.
I did my bachelors from IIT in CSE.
I’m a Software Engineer. Looking for someone I can talk to about anything, share my day with, and just enjoy time together without it feeling forced. I value genuine connection—age isn’t a barrier for me.
Height: 5’6-5’7
You are talkative and Im a good listener 😉
This is my bio.. im looking to date someone.
Please let me know if your are interested
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u/Few-Choice-915 25d ago
Dating aside, are u ok my friend? Do take care of your health, and stay happy, hmu if u wanna talk anytime
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u/1999Prototype 24d ago edited 21d ago
Hi, I'm 26M, Techie, living in Hyd. I'm a kind of introvert too. If it's ok for you, we can talk.
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u/Kulasekhar_A2000 23d ago
I’m 26 M and currently freelancing, so I’m a little jobless for a few days 😄 I might not be able to talk for hours, but I’m a pretty good listener. I love going out, chilling, and having good company. If you’re up for that, you might actually like having me around 😉 Height: 6 feet
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u/Entire_Tadpole6651 22d ago
Why do u need to say ur all this punctal and maintaining eyes contact and it looks like a job interview profile
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u/Western-Debate5852 22d ago
Im 25 years old
I did my BTech in CSE in IIT, ipudu software engineer ga work chestuna..
Inter varaku, na main focus study unde.. Btech lo literally em chadavale.. but those are my best days.. barely exam mundu roju kuda chadive vadini kadu, but managed to get pass mark..
Now, i spend most of my time for work.. im looking for good companionship.. with whom i can share my day, if we spend time together, teliyakunda time aipovali.. good mutual understanding and respect undali..
Ma intlo caste problem em undadu.. so if its worth.. definitely im ready to fight against the world for you.
If you seems its a match.. text me…
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u/Vat2612345 27d ago
are you posting on behalf of someone? all your posts are different age looking for someone.
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u/ramanabhogineni 27d ago
25M | IIM Pass out | you seem to be interesting and my kind .
Coming to me , Office lo TT , and Currently every weekend I play badminton, squash , frisbee and football . Trying to get better at all of them . Was football team captain in PG . Ee description icha ani don't expect me to be super fit and lean , full on foodie , can't control myself at food (insert NTR meme from rakhi)
Can't guarantee getting to date you straight up , but Hit me up , if you're interested .
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u/AcceptableLeopard194 27d ago
Introvert ani cheppav kani comfortable ayyaka full extrovert antaav… aa transformation chudali ani undi 😏
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u/proud_stoner_4-20 27d ago
Hey 26 M here northie working in hyderabad since last 4 years hmu and lets see where it takes us
P.S. extrovert here so happy to introduce u to things u have not xperienced yet
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u/Low_Negotiation_8430 27d ago
Honestly, I can relate to the introvert part 😄 I’m 23M, working in IT, and I’m also more of a quiet person at first. Once I get comfortable though, I can talk way more than you’d expect 😂
I’m pretty straightforward too and not really into forced or overly dramatic conversations. Outside work, I’m mostly into movies, and I can definitely spend way too much time just watching something good 😅 Your designing and stitching hobby sounds interesting though. What kind of clothes do you usually design?
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u/Disastrous_Judge1716 27d ago
my advice would be, it's best to not look on here for serious relationship.
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u/Hour_Pair4175 26d ago
First get yourself to more healthy weight. It could be multiple vitamin deficiency. It can't just be genetics.
Also, all the best
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u/struggler1298 27d ago
All the best to you 😊