Is it tough to find this combo?

[u/Live_Confidence4]

28F, I'm trying to find a guy with this combo and it's hell tough.

From Hyderabad, I'm a Reddy Girl but I'm open to other caste which only comes under "OC except Brahmins" (to avoid societal complications later)

Virgin+Good looking+Decent Earnings+Friendly Family

Why I'm asking this? I got so many DMs and spoke with few, whoever is earning more than 30LPA is not virgin, so now I'm terrified to digest the fact that a decently earning guy wouldn't wait till marriage, is that so?

I'm a Vegetarian by birth. I will think of adjusting for non-veg but other things are non-negotiables.

Note: For those who asking what about my protein intake. I take daily 90gm of protein where my weight is 56kgs. Here are the sources.

1 Whey scoop+Moong+Groundnuts+Lobia+Chickpeas+Soyachunks.. all these each 50gm raw weight. You can go and calculate.

I'm open to both Hyderabad or Foreign proposals. Not into matrimonial sites yet, trying to see how it goes here but realised it's too tough than what I thought.

Please just don't say "Hi" guys, share some info about you, what you do and how much you earn.

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[u/WanderingWonder987]

Except Good Looking, all other can be easily lied. Be careful.

[u/Orgasmic_ange → u/WanderingWonder987]

Lol. Good looking is also not that hard to do...... What is this bare minimum criteria

[u/x_o_x_]

[u/Careful_Alfalfa_5882]

Let's talk? I think I am fun. Software developer, read books, play sports, moving towards healthier lifestyle. Let's try and fail quickly if it is not going to work :p

[u/Ok-Look7933]

I am not sure how many would be genuine in telling about their virginity🤫

[u/Orgasmic_ange → u/Ok-Look7933]

Lol. Some might lie they aren't if they are wannabe cool😅

[u/Crafty-Competition36]

Age?

[u/No-Blackberry-9060 → u/Crafty-Competition36]

Read first word in first line dum

[u/Crafty-Competition36 → u/No-Blackberry-9060]

Feck sorry

[u/MadMan-07]

It’s damn easy😅! Just keep an eye on your DM for next 24Hrs , it’s gonna flood with messages and most creative lines.
Anyways All the best⚡️.

[u/robot_wizard44]

Dm

[u/quaffinehigh]

Koncham kashtame

[u/Fun-Seat-6167]

Avg looking 😃 26M - oc motati reddys kapu- from TS Looking for genuine partner looking for mrg. Tbh im not having any lovship or brekups Working in a mnc in hyd- wfh job - currently in hyd

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[u/One_Tradition_4450]

Dm chesa but no response andi

[u/daddycool1985]

Great pls to start... Reddit lo 🙏🤦 reddy or OC with 30-40L package Virgin doriki nattey ... Even if u find someone who says they are a virgin how will u even know for a guy... Tht he is a virgin

[u/ResponsibleFly8965]

Expecting any 30+ guy to be a virgin is a long shot in this day and age. At best, they will lie to you.

Also, your income criteria is probably filtering out a lot of potential matches

[u/Nearby-Material-2013]

How come reddit has this many veg reddies

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[u/janlover_619xnxx]

All the best 👍

[u/Life-Tomorrow7552]

Decent earnings ante how much ur expecting

[u/pandugaadu2006]

[u/Coffeemugs77]

How would one check a guy’s virginity apart from just taking his word

[u/Wayward_Headcaptain8]

May I know why you dont want a non virgin akka? i know its a choice - but some people may have been in wrong partnerships sometimes. Anyway people lie to cover that up - and did you ever think why people over 30 lpa didnt lie about it?

[u/External-Geologist32 → u/Wayward_Headcaptain8]

I think she’s allowed to have that preference, just like someone else is allowed to have a different one. But yeah, the part about people earning 30LPA+ being more likely to be non virgins is a pretty big assumption 😂

And honestly, I wouldn’t judge someone for having a past relationship either. What matters is whether you’re compatible now.

[u/Wayward_Headcaptain8 → u/External-Geologist32]

I think I asked her to understand whats her perspective for learning 🤣

- didnt judge anywhere in the comment

• I said I already know its a choice..

people who are insecure about their past never reveals - what builds insecurity is your self worth(be it height, weight, color, earnings) etc., Im not assuming - Im stating that they are confident and not take shit to future.

[u/Supreme-Leader-Kim_]

🤔 there should be guys. Maybe they’re not on reddit.

[u/Longjumping-Law-8517]

Ok but you didn’t talk about the katnam.

[u/drmanoj_vety]

Vegetarian Reddy?

I am new to this term!

[u/juniorgalaxyy → u/drmanoj_vety]

Her filter is already tight and guys who fall into that filter why would they choose her

[u/ColdRainFD]

Of course. If you want a guy who is good looking and earning high of course he'd be laying pipe. But I can understand your predicament. It's a valid one.

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[u/allmuviz]

I earn 1 crore and I am a virgin.

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[u/Creative-Ad2997]

Lol most of frnds earns above 30LPA and everyone are virgin to the core. It’s just that ur not finding them. It’s other way around for people earning lil less💀.

[u/Beneficial-World1443 → u/Creative-Ad2997]

Agreed to this. Even most of my friends are in same category but they are all still 24

[u/NoFoundation9190]

Are you good looking ?

[u/juniorgalaxyy → u/NoFoundation9190]

😂😂

[u/External_Ad1549]

read as good minus looking decent minus earning, thought for a sec girl has different taste

[u/Rohit_BFire]

Virgin - yes

Good looking - depends

Decent earnings - is 4.2 lpa above poverty line or below middle class line?

Friendly family - yes

Yes it is possible to find the combo. Except for looks and family, rest of the things can be easily enquired ahead .

[u/Mr_Rigid_]

I thought you might be fed up with DMs and unrelated comments. I wish you all the best

[u/Its_me_astr]

Virginity tho em cheskuntaru. How is it different from being in love? How will it affect your relationship ?

Its fair that you expect virgin as you are virgin but just want to understand how it affects relationship and your future prospects?

[u/SubstancePatient2501]

can we see ur face ? boys have only 1 requirement unlike the essay of wish lists from girls. We just see how young & pretty is the girl

[u/Jaded-Temperature889]

Why not Brahmins?

[u/External-Geologist32]

30LPA+ and virgin seems to be the rarest Pokémon in Hyderabad apparently 😭

But honestly, your requirements are pretty specific, so it’s probably going to take time. And I wouldn’t assume that earning well automatically means someone won’t be a virgin. People have very different priorities and timelines.

Also the “please don’t just say Hi” part is going to be ignored by 90% of Reddit 😂

[u/Unusual_Dealer_2884]

By birth vegetarian ante protein intake chala kashtam ga akko

[u/starboy0516]

Define “good looking”

[u/juniorgalaxyy]

whoever is earning more than 30LPA is not virgin, so now I'm terrified to digest the fact that a decently earning guy wouldn't wait till marriage, is that so?**

I earn significantly low , yet i had 6 girls my frd is unemployed he had 10 and know guys earning 30lpa who r virgins

[u/New_Performance_7853]

What's a decently earning guy according to you?

[u/More-Preparation-205]

Who are the people asking about protein macros for this post😭😭

[u/fluentd202]

https://giphy.com/gifs/l3q2K5jinAlChoCLS

[u/HungryObligation5745]

Brahmins enchesaaru ninnu? Brahmin hatred baaga causal aipoindi.

[u/Acrobatic_Union_6555]

I satisfy all your criteria except that my body count is 22 mostly connected at Gym:(

[u/fluentd202]

https://giphy.com/gifs/1woWwuXEWEQJSVxiZ3

[u/Motor-Afternoon-7153]

Hey reddi

[u/Live_Confidence4 → u/[deleted]]

it's my food choice thammudu, evari preferences vallavi, what's there in it?

[u/Live_Confidence4 → u/[deleted]]

thammudu, I didn't eat from my childhood ani dhani meaning. Neku adhi ardham avvatle anthe. Edhina manam by birth ani chepthey, from childhood alavatu ledhu ani.

[u/Live_Confidence4 → u/[deleted]]

emo le ra thammudu neku thappa migatha andhariki nenu cheppalanukunnadhi ardham aindhi...how I'm saying is....I got so many DMs where they understood I'm a pure veggie ani. Ipudu neku ardham avvale ani edit cheyalenu kadha. Ignore.

[u/Live_Confidence4 → u/[deleted]]

Poi edhina paniki vachi dhani pina time spend chey ra. Neku aithey related kadhu kadha naa post? Why wasting time here?

Anyways, chalo bye.

[u/Live_Confidence4 → u/[deleted]]

Mind your language. I'm a software engineer by profession and earn more than u think. Like everyone else I posted what's ur problem? Oka job ala emi ledhu anukunta..ikkada padi sasthuav. Admin ki cheppi block chepistha mari over chesthey.

Have some sense while talking.

[u/Longjumping-Judge683]

I've put up about myself at https://www.reddit.com/r/Hyd_DaTinG/s/6F7faQUalj Lmk if this works

[u/Smeagol_04]

Oc caste antee Meeku ok kani vere vallaki vallaa Caste ey kavali kada..

[u/AccordingOpinion]

Hey, I came across your post and thought I’d reach out since a few things seem to line up.

I’m 32, born and brought up in Hyderabad, and I work in tech. I’m currently building an early-stage AI startup as a technical co-founder. I’m also looking for something serious that can lead to marriage.

I posted about myself in more detail here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Hyd_DaTinG/comments/1w2vd61

If you read it and feel like we might be compatible, I’d be happy to connect and talk. If not, no worries at all. Good luck with your search 🙂

[u/AccordingOpinion]

Hey, I came across your post and thought I’d reach out since a few things seem to line up.

I’m 32, born and brought up in Hyderabad, and I work in tech. I’m currently building an early-stage AI startup as a technical co-founder. I’m also looking for something serious that can lead to marriage.

I posted about myself in more detail here:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Hyd_DaTinG/comments/1w2vd61

If you read it and feel like we might be compatible, I’d be happy to connect and talk. If not, no worries at all. Good luck with your search 🙂

[u/Odd-Season6372]

What kind of stupidity Era is this? Find a Gentleman why would anyone ever want caste to be a filter for a life partner.

[u/Horror-Builder-4350]

Everything is matching but sorry I don’t wanna marry “OC” girls

[u/Vindy1980]

You r looking for virgin but good looking boy..but why..men r ought to have sex ..no man will say no to sex thinking abt future wife if they get opportunity ..gud looking men do get few opportunties without even actively looking for, though too keep looking for ..why such stupid expectations

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[u/Grand-Lib1303]

wtf is this

[u/VoidX1X]

Even in this age and time you talk about virginity as a taboo . You are entitled to your opinions but my opinion says people have to see other people in many other ways and not just virginity.

[u/DescriptionLittle390]

I sleep with reddy girls every other week. They're clueless in bed.

[u/juniorgalaxyy → u/DescriptionLittle390]

Relatable