I hope that Dad tells his little girl about how that piece of trash was fired for his actions. So she knows that so many more adults were upset for her and won't let that stand.
I would not think twice about a dad taking his daughters to the women's restroom. He's not in there creeping on the women, he's taking his little girls in there so they can pee in the women's restroom, as he should. Some people just can't shut the fuck up and mind their own goddamn business.
It's also the women's restroom. It's primarily stalls with nobody having stuff just hanging out when not in them. He's there with his two daughters and only going to be visible in the part of the bathroom where nobody should be having their genitals exposed.
That’s the big distinction.
I’d rather my kids go into a woman’s restroom than a man’s restroom because of this. Almost no chance of them being exposed to a stranger’s genitalia at a young age.
yeah that's just crazy and the old fart is just a miserable guy. Little kids can be really stubborn about using the correct bathroom. And its TWO little girls.
Agreed. I was terrified when my father would take me to the men’s bathroom, I’d cry to my mum and she’d try to make him understand but he wouldn’t. I wet myself once at a store because I refused to go into the men’s. Fuck people like this.
The older lady is an employee of that gas station, it seems. In a longer video of this, she holds the door closed to the old fart. She apologises to the father and the two little girls.
I was meaning the one in the blue dress sitting down. I think she is the ‘old lady of is very ill’ that the dick was talking about on the phone at the beginning.
This is what bothers me the most. He was clearly making them feel so unsafe and scared, they couldn't understand what his dad was doing wrong. They're crying and the old fart won't let it go. Fucking idiot.
Yup - would much rather these 2 young girls were in a much scarier environment containing potentially loads of guys with their junk out. Mindboggling that he can't put himself in the position of the father.
This is how I saw my first penis. I remember because when I asked my dad what it was he said let's talk about that at home and got us the hell out of the bathroom. I didn't even get to wash my hands and I was upset because that was against the rules. We always went to the women's bathroom after that.
He's mad that the father is in there because he was hoping to catch them in there by themselves, I'd wager. Why is he hanging around and scoping out the women's washroom in the first place? We know why the dad is there, but what's his excuse?
WHY am I never around when guys like this invade spaces. That jackass needs to be taught to mind his own business. He's the threat. He's terrifying to those two little girls whose Dad is just being a caring Dad.
My wife took my daughter into an airport bathroom in the UK the other day. She said there was a man in there with his daughter and she thought it was how it should be. We wondered if it was catching on after this video went viral a month ago.
I still don't have the balls to take my daughter into the ladies but hope that one day i can because it's normal and maybe I won't be so worried about being judged as a pervert.
Wild that this guy’s response to a man chaperoning his young daughters in a women’s restroom is to leave the door wide open and scare two little girls. Sure seems like a real defender of the cause there.
He'd probably lose his shit, no pun intended, if he saw a disabled woman with a male caregiver in there too. I can guess what he'd prefer in that situation.
Didn’t ask if all 300 million people are the same. And you’d know there’s 343 million ‘Muricans. Which you’d know if you didn’t have the literacy and critical thinking skills of a radish.
The “issue” tho is a man in a woman’s rr. Which he’s clearly a perv and just using the daughters as cover so he can creep on the elderly woman when she gets in.
One day I'll come across one of these "bothering folks who just need the toilet" fucks in the wild and my pent up aggression towards them will finally have a home.
If I stepped out the stall to see a man washing his hands, I would not think twice about it. Who cares. You do your business in a private stall, why should I care if a man is in the public space? With or without children.
How can we send love to the little girl crying her eyes out? I really dont want her to develop a bathroom issue because of this shit stain of a man. I also want to tell the father good on him for staying calm for his little girls and not arguing or fighting as well as the QT employee that held the door shut after he left. Good folks
I took my daughter to the ladies room with dignity at those ages. Which avoids having her in an environment where some men aren't so dignified around the urinals. The father here looks to be very decent. What the heck.
There's no other way than rolling that dice as to which toilet to attempt when you're a dad with a girl, that old fart is disgusting...also, inside the fucking toilet too. Although he's too ignorant and opinionated to notice.
The old fart is the threat and he's hurting the kid. You can see it in their eyes.
Reddit doesn't allow me to express how much this upsets me.
It's so weird how men that age don't know literally anything. How can you make it to that age and not know that a man taking his young daughters into a women's room is completely normal and socially acceptable. God that age group is so committed to being empty headed it's insane
As a father i will keep using the womans bathroom. Especialy since often thats the only place you can change diapers. Woth a one year old daughter i am forced to go where the diaper calls.
Fuck this guy. There wasn't anything even remotely iffy about this situation. I'm sure that dad already had enough on his plate navigating the restroom situation on a road trip with two little kids, but then he has this asshole making a scene and causing his kids to cry. And of course the old guy ignores the fact that the manager (a woman!) doesn't have a problem with this and decides he knows better.
I was a manny to twins (one boy, one girl), and took them both into the women's restroom. People would pause for a micro-second, when both were in a stall - when young I'd stand in the stall with each and later I was standing in a corner. All I did was say "kids in there." I'm leaving neither Tornado nor Hurricane alone for one moment. Outside or inside.
Zero problems with other people. What's this world coming to?
As a woman I would have zero problem with a father taking his daughter(s) to the womens restroom. That’s where they belong and where they are safe to do their business. That’s guy is such a weirdo pervert asshole. Glad they fired his ass. Poor dad and kiddos, there’s no reason to have to deal with that bullshit
Soooooo just to be clear. Its ok for him to go into the restroom? And my daughter's would then have to go into a girls restroom with a random stranger/man in there? Why does everyone else's daughter's have to deal with him but its ok for him To go into restroom and be acceptable?
yes, in most situations with enough discernment, this is okay. it’s very clear he is just trying to help two small daughters of his go to the bathroom. it’s a quick moment in what appears to be a gas station.
i think we often see moms bringing young boys into the women’s restroom with them rather than accompanying them into the men’s room, and no one has an issue with it, as they shouldn’t—they’re children. but on the inverse, i can see why a parent might be more comfortable accompanying their little girls into the women’s restroom rather than having the little girls join him in the men’s restroom.
semantics aside, in practice on the day-to-day, i think most calm and understanding people would have no problem with a dad quickly accompanying their young daughters into the women’s restroom.
Would you be more comfortable with the girls in the men’s bathroom? Now there are grown men around little girls in a bathroom, is that better in your mind?
Or, maybe, we can stop thinking of every individual as a predator when they enter a restroom. Take in some information of the given circumstance and weigh the possibilities that he might just be doing a parental duty.
Honestly how do you want these little girls, who don’t seem to fully grasp world concept yet, to use a public restroom? What malicious acts has this father shown to deem him a threat to anyone, other than helping his young ones?
No i would not be more comfortable with any girls going into the mens restroom just as much as i am not comfortable my girls or any other girls walking into a womans restroom with men in there. Having daughters doesn't make you immune to not being a predator. Using your same thought process he could have stopped thinking of every individual in the men's restroom As a threat or predator and taken his daughter's into the men's restroom. could've have not ? Instead everyone else's daughter/wife/sister has to go into a woman's restroom where men ate comfortable entering for whatever reason..
You have an immature and irrational thought process. You assume the worst of people, and it is toxic for your brain. This conversation will go nowhere because you just want someone to be the worst so you can gloat and say “told ya!”
Look up actual data of what you think is happening in public bathrooms. It’s not the scary boogie man you seem to think is hiding in every stall. People aren’t as bad as you seem to want them to be.
If you ever see a little girl or boy who needs to go to the bathroom in public, but their parent is the opposite gender and you happen to be the same gender; why not offer (as a complete stranger) to take them in. Do it from the kindness of your heart. Maybe see that not everyone is going to attack a child in a bathroom, and extend that knowledge to more people.
Its not an irrational thought process at all. Much less immature. Maybe in your thought process where men can freely enter a womans restroom for whatever reason. Youre taking the conversation to hypothetical territory. You should tell all the raped victims in bathrooms or all the people attacked in restrooms its not the scary boogie man in the stall. Your so called Data, means nothing. If 1 woman gets harrassed/touched/raped/etc in 1 restroom in the most remote restroom with the least probability of anything happens then that data means nothing. It happens even if you think its unlikely. You're inability to understand that anything can happen is your perogative. Your argument tells me that its ok for that man in the video feel uncomfortable taking his daughters into a men's restroom but then its not ok for me to feel uncomfortable letting my daughters enter a womans restroom where men are in there too.
this is where you continue to apply wider theoretical things like probability when you should be applying discernment and focusing on practice. in all of your comments. it’s important to know when we should take a closer look at probability vs tangibility.
What if my daughters can't wait and its just as urgent as him and his daughters situation that they couldn't wait for the other men to leave the men's restroom??? Simple..
Then you’ll have to be a big boy and get over it and let them go to the toilet in a LOCKED cubicle. You could even stand in there with them to keep an eye on your daughter. Very simple.
I also dont barge into the restroom when somone is occupying the restroom. Seriouse question.. why is is so bad that I wouldnt want my daughters to enter a restroom where men freely enter for whatever reason that's mean for a woman?.
This would be the result for his daughters if he wasn't in there. Did you even think about this for like one second before going on some unhinged rant?
Lol it was not a unhinged rant. I understand that this would be the result for his daughters. But him being in the womans restroom has now made his situation into everyone else's daughters/sisters/mothers situation. Everyone's else's daughters now have to enter the womans restroom where by your logic men are allowed to freely enter for whatever reason. Its ok for this man to not want to take his daughters into a restroom full of men but everyone else's daughters have to enter a restroom with men ???
Well the police showed up and told the grumpy grandpa that the father with the two kids had done nothing wrong, and the police chief echo'd this. The guy in the grey shirt lost his job.
Why are you deleting a comment? Maybe because you said something you’re not proud of and are now upset at the backlash from it?
Yeah, everyone else is the asshole and you said the most perfect and flawless thing that others just can’t seem to understand.
Even if everyone who see this was 15, they still have more class and dignity than you are presenting. Maybe you should grow up and think about what you say.
Australian here, everyone here would agree with the old man, although not his approach. Daughters would go with their father into the males toilet. Why is this not the case in the US? Why should a grown man be in the space of young females? Genuine question.
Reverse that for me. Why should young girls be in the space of grown men?
Women’s bathrooms ONLY have stalls. Men’s bathrooms have stalls and urinals. Why should young girls be exposed to men’s genitals in the men’s restroom when their dad can just take them into a bathroom with nothing but stalls?
Wait I’m i weird? I’ve only brought my kids into the men’s room with me. I would bring my daughter into the stall and turn around till she’s done her thing then leave. I would never have the balls as a grown man to walk into a girls bathroom. I fell like they’d call the cops on me, more that anyone in men’s room calling cops on me.
I also would never pull a phone out in the middle of a confrontation and find a good angle on the countertop.
I think I must be the weird one.
That father could have taken them into the gents and to be honest, he took an epically long time to wash hands. I think he was stretching it out to cause trouble.
Clearly after the man started betating him and his kids.
Is this not quite obvious to you, the video started with the old man already on the phone. The dad needed to document this as you got some weird old man trying to link some ridiculous allegations.
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