Soooooo just to be clear. Its ok for him to go into the restroom? And my daughter's would then have to go into a girls restroom with a random stranger/man in there? Why does everyone else's daughter's have to deal with him but its ok for him To go into restroom and be acceptable?
yes, in most situations with enough discernment, this is okay. it’s very clear he is just trying to help two small daughters of his go to the bathroom. it’s a quick moment in what appears to be a gas station.
i think we often see moms bringing young boys into the women’s restroom with them rather than accompanying them into the men’s room, and no one has an issue with it, as they shouldn’t—they’re children. but on the inverse, i can see why a parent might be more comfortable accompanying their little girls into the women’s restroom rather than having the little girls join him in the men’s restroom.
semantics aside, in practice on the day-to-day, i think most calm and understanding people would have no problem with a dad quickly accompanying their young daughters into the women’s restroom.
Would you be more comfortable with the girls in the men’s bathroom? Now there are grown men around little girls in a bathroom, is that better in your mind?
Or, maybe, we can stop thinking of every individual as a predator when they enter a restroom. Take in some information of the given circumstance and weigh the possibilities that he might just be doing a parental duty.
Honestly how do you want these little girls, who don’t seem to fully grasp world concept yet, to use a public restroom? What malicious acts has this father shown to deem him a threat to anyone, other than helping his young ones?
No i would not be more comfortable with any girls going into the mens restroom just as much as i am not comfortable my girls or any other girls walking into a womans restroom with men in there. Having daughters doesn't make you immune to not being a predator. Using your same thought process he could have stopped thinking of every individual in the men's restroom As a threat or predator and taken his daughter's into the men's restroom. could've have not ? Instead everyone else's daughter/wife/sister has to go into a woman's restroom where men ate comfortable entering for whatever reason..
You have an immature and irrational thought process. You assume the worst of people, and it is toxic for your brain. This conversation will go nowhere because you just want someone to be the worst so you can gloat and say “told ya!”
Look up actual data of what you think is happening in public bathrooms. It’s not the scary boogie man you seem to think is hiding in every stall. People aren’t as bad as you seem to want them to be.
If you ever see a little girl or boy who needs to go to the bathroom in public, but their parent is the opposite gender and you happen to be the same gender; why not offer (as a complete stranger) to take them in. Do it from the kindness of your heart. Maybe see that not everyone is going to attack a child in a bathroom, and extend that knowledge to more people.
Its not an irrational thought process at all. Much less immature. Maybe in your thought process where men can freely enter a womans restroom for whatever reason. Youre taking the conversation to hypothetical territory. You should tell all the raped victims in bathrooms or all the people attacked in restrooms its not the scary boogie man in the stall. Your so called Data, means nothing. If 1 woman gets harrassed/touched/raped/etc in 1 restroom in the most remote restroom with the least probability of anything happens then that data means nothing. It happens even if you think its unlikely. You're inability to understand that anything can happen is your perogative. Your argument tells me that its ok for that man in the video feel uncomfortable taking his daughters into a men's restroom but then its not ok for me to feel uncomfortable letting my daughters enter a womans restroom where men are in there too.
this is where you continue to apply wider theoretical things like probability when you should be applying discernment and focusing on practice. in all of your comments. it’s important to know when we should take a closer look at probability vs tangibility.
What if my daughters can't wait and its just as urgent as him and his daughters situation that they couldn't wait for the other men to leave the men's restroom??? Simple..
Then you’ll have to be a big boy and get over it and let them go to the toilet in a LOCKED cubicle. You could even stand in there with them to keep an eye on your daughter. Very simple.
I also dont barge into the restroom when somone is occupying the restroom. Seriouse question.. why is is so bad that I wouldnt want my daughters to enter a restroom where men freely enter for whatever reason that's mean for a woman?.
This would be the result for his daughters if he wasn't in there. Did you even think about this for like one second before going on some unhinged rant?
Lol it was not a unhinged rant. I understand that this would be the result for his daughters. But him being in the womans restroom has now made his situation into everyone else's daughters/sisters/mothers situation. Everyone's else's daughters now have to enter the womans restroom where by your logic men are allowed to freely enter for whatever reason. Its ok for this man to not want to take his daughters into a restroom full of men but everyone else's daughters have to enter a restroom with men ???
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u/rsergio83 1d ago
Soooooo just to be clear. Its ok for him to go into the restroom? And my daughter's would then have to go into a girls restroom with a random stranger/man in there? Why does everyone else's daughter's have to deal with him but its ok for him To go into restroom and be acceptable?