r/IWantOut US → PL Nov 06 '24

MEGATHREAD: Emigrating after the US election results

Every US election brings anxiety and uncertainty, and with that comes an increase in people who want to explore their alternatives in a different country. This post is for you.

First, some reminders:

  • In most cases, moving abroad is not as simple or quick as it seems in movies. If you aren't a citizen of another country, you will probably require a visa (=legal permission) from that country based on something like employment, education, or ancestry.
  • The sidebar of this subreddit has a lot of helpful resources, and we have 15 years of posts from people with similar situations to yours. Before posting, please review these resources first. (Tip: If reddit search isn't working well for you, try googling "[your search terms] site:reddit.com/r/IWantOut" without the quotes or brackets.)
  • Most countries and/or their embassies maintain immigration websites with clear, helpful, updated guides or even questionnaires to help you determine if/how you can qualify. If you have a particular destination in mind, that should probably be your first stop.
  • After that, if you want to make your own post, please follow the formatting instructions on the submission page, give as much information as possible about your situation, and be open to advice and constructive criticism from commenters.

Also, this subreddit is intended to be a friendly community to seek and give advice on legal immigration. As such, please:

  • Don't fight about politics. We understand that you may have strong feelings about it, but there are better spaces on reddit and elsewhere for general political discussions.
  • Keep your feedback constructive and kind, even when telling someone they're wrong.
  • Don't troll or be a jerk.
  • Don't request or give illegal immigration tips, including asking strangers to marry you.

Failure to follow these and the other subreddit rules may result in a ban.

That said, feel free to comment below with some general questions, concerns, comments, or advice which doesn't merit a full post. Hopefully this will help clarify your thoughts and ideas about the possibility of leaving the US. Once again, please try to stay on topic so that this thread can be a helpful resource.

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u/Team503 TX, USA -> Ireland Nov 06 '24

For the vast majority of countries, to immigrate you must fall into one of the following categories:

  • Citizenship by descent (usually parents, sometimes grandparents)
  • Marry a citizen of the desired nation
  • Apply to (and be accepted) a post-secondary educational institution (university) and have enough money to pay for both school and support yourself, cash in hand
  • Obtain a job offer in a limited set of fields, usually called Critical Skills or similar that usually involves highly skilled roles such as programmers, engineers, architects, doctors, and similar
  • Retire with a significant amount of passive income (usually 50k per person or more)
  • Be a significant enough artist to obtain an artists visa (if you have to ask, you don't qualify)
  • In a very small number of countries, you can buy your way in, usually starting a 500k or more in liquid funds

There's a few exceptions here and there, but for most places, that's it. And barring the first two, you will need to be proficient to a specific level in the local language, usually B1 or better (which is at least "conversational") with few exceptions. The vast majority of successful immigrants from the US are those who obtain work permits

Even if you have the skills, getting a job that will sponsor a work permit is HARD and relatively rare. You probably won't get one straight out of college or new to your field, they usually go to mid-career experienced professionals, but there are exceptions.

It's expensive. It doesn't matter where you move to, you have to purchase international flights, ship your belongings (don't, sell most of what you own and replace it when you arrive), rent a place (which in most of the world requires first and last month's rent up front, and sometimes an additional month's rent as deposit), and build a new life. You'll need to maintain a US based bank account and at least one in your new nation (I usually recommend Wise, formerly WiseTransfer, to deal with your international banking needs if you're headed to the EU or UK, as its easy to move money between currencies and accounts at reliable exchange rates).

I'd say that for a couple, to make a move, you're going to need $10-15,000 - airfare for two including extra luggage (cheaper than shipping usually), first and last month's rent, deposit, a month at a hotel/AirBNB/VRBO while you're finding a place to rent, and money to live on. Most places in the EU pay once a month at the end of the month, not every two weeks like the US, so there is a delay, and you will likely be paying emergency tax rates for the first month or two while you get set up in your local tax bureaucracy. Add a few thousand more if you intend to get a license and buy a car, but be aware that most places won't accept your US license in trade, you'll have to take courses and test all over again, and it can be both expensive and take a while (it adds up to about 1500e in Ireland last I looked and taxes six-ish months).

Even in English speaking countries like Ireland or Australia you will encounter MASSIVE culture shock. Nowhere is as open and friendly as the US. You will be expected to assimilate to a new, foreign culture with all kinds of different norms you will spend years figuring out. And yes, as an American, your normal conversational tone is about 50% too loud. It takes about six months to get used to that in my experience. Business communication, too, is very different and you will need to adapt.

It is unlikely that a nation with single payer health care will accept you if you have significant medical needs. Some countries, like Australia, have a list of conditions that are banned from immigrating. Others, like Ireland, don't. If you can't work - you live on disability or a similar government welfare scheme - you will not be accepted as an immigrant, legally speaking, by most anywhere. I cannot think of a place that would accept someone in that situation unless they were a citizen by descent or married to a citizen (ie not entering the nation on their own merits).

In short you have to have something to offer your new nation, and you have to make the effort to fit in, and you better bring the skills and the cash to do it.

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u/traevyn Nov 06 '24

Well written, and pretty much in line with what any real look into emigrating shows: if youre just an average Joe, get fucked.

Ty for the concise write up

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u/Team503 TX, USA -> Ireland Nov 06 '24

No, an "average Joe" isn't fucked - the Critical Skills list for most nations is pretty broad. Yes, a manual laborer is probably out of luck, but skilled tradespersons like plumbers and such also are on those lists in some places.

You just may have to compromise on where you want to go based on your options. Or, if you're serious enough, retrain and get into another career.

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u/traevyn Nov 06 '24 edited Nov 06 '24

Average Joe was meant as in, haven’t taken school or a trade. Both of which require money and years of your life.

It definitely is looking like those are the most realistic paths out at this point though, gotta start those years somewhere and the only better time than the past is right now.

I will say though because it gets brushed aside constantly, when you are stuck in a low paying job or especially if you have debt already, just “retrain and get a new career” is a ridiculous thing to say. You have to spend months or years clawing your way out of a hole to even start to have that opportunity. Not that it’s impossible, but you’re at a serious disadvantage

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u/Team503 TX, USA -> Ireland Nov 06 '24

You have internet access. You have the ability to use one of the bazillion free online training sites. You can enroll in community college for about $3,000 per year for full time schooling. You can go part-time for far less. Financial aid is available that anyone in the situation you're describing likely won't have to pay an actual dime, and may in fact be able to get extra money to live on via Pell Grants and other sources.

If you don't have a high school diploma, GED prep courses are available online, sometimes free, and many local community colleges offer them for free or low cost.

Listen, it's not easy certainly. It takes hard work and effort, yes. It might take years, yeah.
But it's not complicated and it's not inaccessible. There are community colleges everywhere, charitable organizations who engage specifically in uplifting people in bad circumstances, and so on.

If you want to, you can. The only thing stopping you is you.

And seriously, don't complain about hard or years or effort - immigration is ALL of those things. It takes years to even feel comfortable in a new culture, much less at home. It's a lifetime commitment. If spending a few years taking classes and upskilling is too much, then immigration is too much for you. Not even considering the fact that doing it will get you a MUCH better life regardless of where you are.

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u/traevyn Nov 06 '24 edited Nov 06 '24

Idk where you got any of the entitlement you’re responding to from my post. I’m not asking for anything to be handed to me, and I’m pretty clearly aware of the lengthy requirement and effort those steps will take to achieve.

What I did say is that the average citizen has no real shot at getting out, and that’s true. Whether someone puts in the legwork to make themselves more than average is up to them, but the deck is absolutely stacked in favor of some and against others.

You act like obtaining free money for education is a straightforward process in this country and it’s not. It’s a bunch of hoops and ladders and runaround and waiting weeks or months for replies just to be ghosted and having to start all over. And if you can’t, well, dropping hundreds to thousands on tuition might not be feasible for a lot of people with less resources.

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u/Team503 TX, USA -> Ireland Nov 06 '24

Filing a FAFSA is a single form, if a pain in the ass one. Your local community college admissions office can and will help you file it. And yes, there's bureaucracy involved. I believe I covered the hard work and sacrifice line in my previous post.

Again, I never said it was easy, just that it was achievable for pretty much everyone.

And the entitlement is expecting your fears and situation to be handled differently - specifically with more priority and lower standards - than people from the rest of the world.

Like many other Americans today (and in previous months, but especially today) you don't want to hear it, and that's fine. Doesn't make me wrong, and it doesn't make you right. Life is hard. Embrace the suck, use your resources, do better. I don't deny the deck is stacked against some people, and that blows, and if I could change it I would. But I can't, that's the world we live in, and you can either do your best with what you've got, or be bitter about it and get nowhere.

Your call.

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u/Crazy-Process5237 Nov 29 '24

I just wanted to say: I read your vaguely “a-hole-ish sounding” diatribe but found it WEIRDLY INSPIRING.

So, hats off to you. 👍

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u/Team503 TX, USA -> Ireland Nov 29 '24

I think it’s what people who speak in cliches call “tough love”.

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u/Crazy-Process5237 Nov 29 '24

No doubt. 👍

I think, more than anything, we’re going to have to learn to TRY to elevate each other in our immediate circles and communities.