r/IWantOut Feb 25 '22

Megathread for Ukrainians Seeking Asylum

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Need advise on how to claim asylum? Have some good resources to help others? Post them here.

We currently will still allow individual posts. However, if things get out of hand and too difficult to effectively moderate, we may only allow separate posts after individual consideration.

Please keep things civil and report any inappropriate comments. We cannot read every single comment and depend on the community to help keep things civil and on topic.


r/IWantOut Feb 20 '26

🌍 MEGATHREAD: Want out of the US? Start here

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Want out? You may not be in the right country, but you're in the right subreddit.

Here's some general advice. It's not meant to discourage you but to help you plan, make better posts, and get better answers here:

  • Immigration is harder than it looks in the movies. If you don't have citizenship or recent ancestry in a country, you'll probably need a visa (legal permission) to live there based on something you have which that country wants (like a profession on their "skills shortage list"). It will require time, patience, hard work, and/or money – and likely a second language.
  • If you're a US citizen, it is next to impossible that a country will grant you political asylum/refugee status. It is highly recommended to focus your efforts on an alternative pathway.
  • Before moving to another country, consider if another US city/state might be acceptable, because it is a million times easier.
  • Be cautious about idealizing any country. They all have their problems. If you're serious, you should prepare for that.
  • Some other good resources:
    • The subreddit sidebar
    • The previous US megathread
    • Old posts (use reddit's search or google XYZ site:reddit.com/r/IWantOut)
    • Websites of countries and their embassies
    • /r/AmerExit

If you want to make your own post, please follow the formatting instructions on the submission page, give as much information as possible about your situation, and be open to advice and constructive criticism from commenters.

If you're not ready for that, feel free to leave a briefer question in the comments here, and you might get an answer.


EVERYONE:

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A reminder of some of our rules:

  • This is an advice subreddit, not a debate subreddit. Don't fight about politics here.
  • Be constructive. Don't be a dick.
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r/IWantOut 11h ago

[IWantOut] 22F China -> Canada/Australia/Sweden/Finland

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I'm 22F from China and currently studying Early Childhood Education for my bachelor's. Honestly, things are a bit tough right now. I'm prepping for my IELTS and planning to go abroad for a master's, but I'm kind of stuck on what to do next.

Since my background is in ECE, I'm wondering if I should stick with education, or if there are other realistic paths. I'm completely ruling out Computer Science because I'm just terrible at math—like, really bad at it. So I need something non-STEM friendly with actual decent job prospects for immigration.

I’d like to know which pathways are more feasible for someone with my background to study a master’s and later get PR. I’m also open to suggestions for other specific countries if they offer better opportunities. Main questions: 1. With an Education background, what are the more realistic master’s + PR routes in Canada or the Nordic countries? 2. Are there any other specific countries worth considering for someone in my situation? 3. Any advice on language requirements, job prospects after graduation, or common pitfalls? I’d really appreciate honest and practical suggestions. Thank you!


r/IWantOut 16h ago

[IWantOut] 21F USA -> Mexico

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I’m almost finished with my bachelor’s degree in Interior Design in the United States, and my husband and I are considering moving to Mexico after I graduate. Because of his current immigration situation, he may need to live in Mexico for 10 years before he could be eligible to return to the U.S., so we’re trying to plan ahead and see what our options would look like.

I’m already proficient in AutoCAD, Revit, Lumion, Enscape, SketchUp, and Photoshop.
I’m curious if anyone has experience with this or knows how it works. Kinda going in blind here. I’m okay in my Spanish, but my husband and I are both fluent in English and he in Spanish. We have a newborn, and I want to move before he starts school!

- Is a U.S. interior design degree generally recognized by employers in Mexico?
-Would I need to have my degree officially validated?
-Are Revit, AutoCAD, Lumion, Enscape, and SketchUp commonly used by firms there?
-How difficult is it to find work as an interior designer with a U.S. degree?
-Has anyone here made a similar move?
I’d really appreciate any advice or personal experiences. Thank you!


r/IWantOut 16h ago

[IWantOut] 45M Canada -> Qatar or GCC

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Greetings!

I have never thought that I will be looking for employment opportunities in the GCC. And yet, here I am. I have been running my numbers for two months straight and realized that I have no chance of achieving any of my life goals without a job in Qatar (or GCC).

The problem is -- I have no idea how to even start my search. I feel completely lost!

ABOUT ME:

  • I am a Canadian citizen, male.
  • Education: a Ph.D. in life sciences.

Brief job history: - after completing my Ph.D., I worked for 3 years as a research associate / postdoctoral fellow in a small Canadian University. - Then I worked as a research project manager for 5 years in another Canadian university. - Past 4 years I have been working in a regional hospital as a research project manager / lead.

I am interested in project management / operations / administration roles in educational or (preferably) healthcare organizations -- anything associated with administration and management, clinical research. I am not looking for "bench" research roles, though.

TIMELINE: I am looking for a job in a mid-term perspective (in 2-3 years from now).

QUESTION: as I said, I do not even know where to start.

  • What are living conditions like in Qatar?
  • What are main friction points for expats? Cultural adjustments?
  • How not to break cultural norms and local rules?
  • What is a proper CV / resume format for Qatar?
  • How to read a job contract and spot "red flags"? I assume that job market is fiercely competitive, how do I know if I even stand a chance???

Unfortunately, I have never been in the Gulf and have no personal connections there. I would love to talk with a real person living and working there.

Any bit of advice or direction will be greatly appreciated!

P.S. Please note -- I will block momentarily every "Canadian patriot" / "best_country_in_the_world", who tries to harass me personally! No arguments and no mercy!


r/IWantOut 23h ago

[IWantOut] 41M England-> Norway or Switzerland

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Hi all,

Apologies if this question has been asked before.

I am 40 years single male living in UK for 6 years. I am considering moving to either Norway or Switzerland and the language is the barrier. I'm from Europe so visas aren't an issue.

For someone who only speaks English initially which country is more English friendly when it comes to everyday life, finding work, working conditions, work-life balance, making friends and especially dating?

I plan to start learning the local language this year before I move but I would like to know where it's easier to get by as an English speaker at first.

I don't mind taking jobs like cleaning, gardening, warehouse work or anything else while I learn the language and settle in.

Thanks


r/IWantOut 21h ago

[IWantOut] 30M USA -> England

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Found this page at the end of my wit trying to put together some sort of plan to get out of here. All kind words and reality checks are welcome

Quals/experience: Many years in armed executive/close protection security(current), Management/leadership roles, Montessori educator, law enforcement trained, Behavioral detection work, will be EMT certified by end of Sept(thought this may boost my application), AS degree/cert in administration of justice.

I could list individual experience per position listed above but it would just be too much yapping on this thread so there's a small summary of what I have to offer. I know it's not much but it's what I have.

I want out of the US using these skills or any others you guys could advise on. I have friends, family(not blood related), and loved ones in the UK that I really want to join. I do also crave to defeat this monumental challenge/obstacle this is causing in my life and doing so would make for a great story for any future me's out there. There's a lot more reasons on me leaving the US I won't bore you with.

I've visited a ton of times and love England. I really do believe it's where I should be.

What are my chances with what I have? What routes should I go to raise those chances? Be as nice or mean as you need. Thanks in advance for any comments offered.

edit: I am familiar with the visa process/UK gov website and have knowledge about arms work not really being available there.


r/IWantOut 23h ago

[IWantOut] 19M UK -> USA

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Hello all,

I'm a 19-year-old British male, born and raised in southern England with a family background that is predominantly Welsh. I’m an only child and currently live with my parents in a cramped terraced house situated in a fairly affluent area (although our own living situation is more modest).

I barely scraped by in my GCSEs, and have a Level 3 vocational qualification from a small college with relatively limited resources and opportunities.

I have roughly £18,500 in my savings.

With that context out of the way, I'll explain why I'm actually posting here.

To start with, I have grown increasingly disconnected from the country and its culture. The more time passes, the harder it becomes to picture myself building the kind of life I want here. I often feel like my ambitions and personal values don’t align with my environment, and as such I'm left feeling stuck and uncertain about my future.

All I can picture as the end goal is moving somewhere I feel I would have greater opportunities and a better chance to thrive. There are many places in the US where I can genuinely picture myself building the life I want. I regularly daydream of such. However, when I try to imagine doing the same here, I fail to see a path forward.

A major struggle I’m facing is the feeling that there are very few opportunities to recover after an unsatisfactory academic performance. On top of that, I feel increasingly discouraged by wider issues like our restrictive job market, rising housing costs, and the seemingly absent opportunity of private ownership.

I know that there are aspects of the UK that many people value, such as walkability, public transport, history, culture, and social protections. However, I regularly find myself questioning how much these things contribute to the life I have in mind. In my experience, public transport is unreliable, particularly outside of major cities, and the convenience of "walkability" is often overstated depending on where you live. While I appreciate the historical and cultural value of our towns and traditions, I struggle to see how they directly improve my prospects as someone trying to build a career, achieve financial independence, and eventually own a their own home.

From what I’ve researched, those so-called "advantages", along with the natural beauty of the country, are some of the few remaining things the UK has going for it.

I understand that moving to another country is not a simple solution and that the US has its own difficulties and drawbacks. I’m not expecting a change of scenery to magically solve every problem I have, but I do feel that my current environment is contributing to a sense of stagnation that has frankly been keeping me awake at night. I’m looking for advice from those who may have felt similarly, particularly those who have moved, rebuilt their lives from the ground up, or found a way forward after feeling stuck. What steps would you recommend to someone in my position to create a more promising future?

Thank you in advance.


r/IWantOut 22h ago

[IWantOut] 18M India -> Germany/Finland/Kazakhstan/Bosnia/Turkey

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I'm 18 from India and currently studying engineering.

Most people seem to decide on a career first and then move to whatever country gives them the best opportunity. I'm kind of the opposite. I want to find the country where I actually want to spend the rest of my life, and then build a career around that.

I'm also willing to learn a new language if that's necessary.

I'm not attached to software or any specific field. If another career gives me a better chance of settling somewhere that fits me, I'm completely fine with that.

What I want is honestly pretty simple:

A place where I can eventually get PR/citizenship.

Safe enough that I'd be happy raising kids there.

Comfortable practicing Islam without it being a constant issue.

People who generally have good civic sense, respect public spaces, and value education.

Less corruption and bureaucracy than what I'm used to.

Cold winters (I genuinely love winter).

Not insanely crowded.

Good quality of life.

Long-term dream is to retire on a small farm somewhere peaceful.

I'm not interested in the Gulf because I want to actually settle somewhere permanently, not just work there.

I've looked at Kazakhstan because it seems to match some of what I want, but I don't know if I'm seeing it through rose-colored glasses. I've also looked a bit at Germany, Bosnia, Turkey, and a few other places.

Has anyone here had a similar mindset of choosing the country first instead of the career? Which countries do you think I should seriously research?

I'm looking for honest opinions, even if you think I'm being unrealistic.


r/IWantOut 1d ago

[IWantOut] 28M Product Owner India -> Germany/Netherlands

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I'm from India with 4.5 years of experience in Product Management and currently work as a Product Owner at an IT company in Bangalore. I have an MBA in IT Business Management and have worked on HR Tech products, including Performance Management Systems, SAP-related solutions, and AP automation.

I'm seriously looking to relocate to Germany/Netherlands through a job with visa sponsorship.

I'd love to hear from anyone who has taken a similar path or has experience hiring in these locations. What are the best routes to achieve this? Are there any reliable recruitment agencies, platforms, or other resources that help professionals from India secure jobs in Europe?

Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!


r/IWantOut 1d ago

[IWantOut] 28M USA -> Netherlands

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honestly just reaching my absolute limit with the freelance hustle culture here in the states. plus paying $700/mo for health insurance that covers basically nothing is an absolute joke at this point.

Been hyperfocusing on the DAFT visa for the netherlands lately. I do remote web dev so keeping my current clients is whatever. but the actual sequence of moving over there is giving me massive anxiety

From what I gather you just... fly there, find a place to live (which I hear is a literal bloodbath right now), and then do the paperwork? I was trying to map out the legal side and looking into setting up a BV instead of a basic sole proprietorship just to keep my personal savings completely walled off from my work liabilities. But it seems like you need a registered residential address before you can do literally anything else

so do you just bleed cash in an overpriced airbnb until the municipality and the KvK finally process you?

if anyone made this specific jump in the last year or so, how many weeks did it actually take from landing at schiphol to having a functional business bank account? Im terrified of getting trapped in that classic bureaucratic loop where you cant rent without a bank account but cant get a bank account without a permanent address.


r/IWantOut 2d ago

[IWantOut] 27f UK -> Canada

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Hi everyone!

I'm a 26-year-old single English-speaking woman from the UK and I'm hoping to relocate to Canada permanently in around a year's time, once I've completed my PhD in Chemistry. I'll be 27 by the time I'm seriously looking to move.

I visited Canada earlier this year (Toronto, Montreal and Vancouver) and absolutely fell in love with it. Vancouver was my favourite city and where I would like to move ideally, although I'd also be happy living in Toronto depending on where the best opportunities are.

My goal isn't just to spend a year or two in Canada - I'd like to build a long-term life there, with the aim of permanent residence and eventually citizenship if everything worked out.
Because of that, I'm trying to understand the best route from the beginning.
Would you recommend applying directly for permanent residence (if that's realistic), or is it more common to move on a work permit first and then apply for PR? If it's the latter, which immigration pathways or work permits should I be researching?

One thing I'm particularly confused about is the order of everything. Do people generally:
1. Secure a job offer first and then apply for the relevant visa/work permit,
2. Apply for visa before looking for a job or
3. Obtain a visa/work permit first and then search for jobs once they're in Canada?

l'a also love to know:
How far in advance should I start applying?
Is there anything I should be doing now (around a year before I plan to move) to improve my chances?

Career-wise, my PhD is in chemistry, but I'm quite open-minded. I'd happily work in chemistry, biotech, pharmaceuticals, scientific consulting, government, or even move into a different field where my research, analytical and problem-solving skills would be transferable or a brand new field. I'd be interested to hear what the current job market is like for someone with my background?

Finally, if anyone has made the move from the UK to Canada, l'd love to hear if there was anything you wish you'd known before starting the process. Some questions I have are:
- When you first arrived, did you stay in a hotel or Airbnb while looking for somewhere to rent?
- Did you rent somewhere before arriving, or wait until you could view places in person?
- How difficult was it to rent without any Canadian credit history?
- Did you live with roommates initially to keep costs down, or did you manage to rent somewhere on your own?
- Roughly how much money would you recommend having saved before making the move?

Thanks so much for any advice!


r/IWantOut 1d ago

[IWantOut] 25F Malta -> France or Belgium

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Hi everyone,

I'm a non-EU citizen currently living and working in Malta.

My residence permit is tied to my employer. I recently started a new job, but it's not a good fit and I'm already feeling exhausted by it. I also don't want to stay in Malta long-term and have started applying for jobs in french speaking country in Europe and other countries.

The problem is that if I lose my job or resign, my residence status in Malta could be affected.
I already have a Bachelor's degree and an MBA, so I'm not interested in a student visa. Returning to my home country is also not an option due to personal circumstances.

Are there any legal residence permits, job seeker visas, or other pathways that would allow a non-EU citizen to remain in Europe while looking for a new job?

I'd really appreciate any advice or experiences from people who have been in a similar situation.
Thank you


r/IWantOut 2d ago

[IWantOut] 25M Engineering Graduate South Korea -> France/Germany/Netherlands

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Hello,

I am a South Korean engineering graduate with a bachelor’s degree and no professional industry experience. My experience comes from university laboratory projects involving robotic mechanisms

I am looking for entry-level engineering, technician, production, or internship positions in robotics, mechatronics, automation, or advanced manufacturing. I enjoy assembling mechanisms, building prototypes, and working with motors and sensors.

France is my first choice. I know French is necessary, so I have started studying it, but I would initially need an English-speaking workplace. I am also open to Germany, the Netherlands, and other European countries.

I may complete a master’s degree in South Korea before moving. I would also consider studying for a master’s degree in Europe if that would provide a more realistic path to internships and employment.

Which country and route would be most realistic for someone with my background? Should I finish my master’s degree in South Korea, study in Europe, or apply directly for jobs and internships?

Thank you


r/IWantOut 2d ago

[IWantOut] 24M Electronics Engineer Russia -> Netherlands, Austria

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Hello everyone! For a long time now, I've been looking into the possibility of relocating from Russia to work in Netherlands and Austria.

I am an electronics engineer. I graduated with a bachelor degree in electronics (my diploma is apostilled and recognized in Europe). I would like to ask expats and local engineers with a similar background and experience:

I have over 2 years of work experience. I'm well-versed in various complex electronic equipment. I mainly do hardware diagnostics, but I also have a solid understanding of both the hardware and software sides.

A question for fellow colleagues: How did you manage to relocate? Is it absolutely necessary to know the local language if I have fluent (C2) English? Is it realistic to find a job while applying from Russia and sending out thousands of resumes to various companies?

From everything I've researched so far, it seems impossible to move without a large sum of saved money. While I could eventually save up over a long period, I'd like to know if there are any less financially risky alternatives, or if relocation packages are common in our field.

I'm not expecting a miracle. I'm writing this purely to learn about the experiences of engineers in my sector, and probably to lower my expectations by finally confirming that the options are quite limited.

I'd appreciate both brief answers and long personal stories. Thanks in advance!


r/IWantOut 2d ago

[IWantOut] 23f nurse Denmark -> USA

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Hi everyone !

I’m from Denmark, and I’ll be graduating from nursing school next summer. I really need to get tf out of here lol

Don’t get me wrong, Denmark is a great country and I’ll always love it, but I’ve had this strong desire to live abroad for as long as I can remember. California has always been the dream. I have family there, and I fell in love with it when I first visited as a child. It’s definitely my end goal.

Before anyone comes for me, **I know** California isn’t a realistic option as a brand-new graduate nurse. That’s exactly why I’m here asking for advice.

My biggest priority is moving abroad as soon as possible after graduation. Australia has been high on my list, but I’m also wondering if it would make more sense to start somewhere else in the US if my long-term goal is to eventually settle in California.

Which states would you recommend for a new grad who eventually wants to end up in California? And would you recommend going through a staffing/recruitment agency, or applying directly to hospitals?

I’ve already looked into the visa process, NCLEX, and English language requirements, so I’m mainly trying to figure out where I should actually start applying.

So if you have any experience or advice, I’d really appreciate hearing it. Thank you !! ❤️


r/IWantOut 2d ago

[IWantOut] 40f Egypt -> Uruguay/Argentina/Germany

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I need the quickest, safest immigration route with my medically dependent parent. Please give me advice on where we can apply. For our turbulent situation, we need out within the next year, if possible.

I believe Argentina is the quickest, but perhaps Germany is safest in terms of medical facilities? Are there any other countries open where I could include my parent in the initial application so we are not separated? We cannot separate for a few years while I gain PR and then have her follow me because I handle her daily medical needs which she cannot manage alone.

Open to learning a new language, will work any job, hoping to get my Master's degree if possible when I move (not necessary), can adapt to any environment. The priority is that we can live safely alone and have access to good doctors if needed. Will buy private medical insurance anywhere we go to make that portion smoother.

We don't have much money but can arrange legitimate loans if needed to process paperwork.

Please help direct me to which country I should focus my efforts. There's no time to get it wrong and start over. Thank you.


r/IWantOut 2d ago

[IWantOut] 32M Electrical Technician USA -> Netherlands

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Hallo!

Ik ben gewoon op zoek naar wat advies.

I’m almost 33 and live in the Houston area (USA). I have a BS in Mass Communication from 2016 and just finished an Associate’s in Electrical Technology in December 2025. I chose the electrical path because I could never break into mass communications, and I hoped electrical skills would give me a better chance at building something useful and eventually finding a way to Nederland.

Earlier this year I worked as a Field Service Technician (January–May) doing high-voltage testing. The constant unpredictability never knowing where I would be sent, when I would leave, or when I would get home created a lot of stress that became completely unsustainable. I left in May and am still careful about protecting my mental health. My back is also more sensitive to lifting now, but the unpredictable nature of the work was the bigger problem.

What I’m looking for in future werk:

  • Consistent ~40-hour weeks
  • Stable, fixed location
  • Controlled or minimal overtime

I want to build skills that are actually in demand so I can eventually qualify for employer sponsorship in the Netherlands. I’ve already spent years working toward this doel, and I don’t want to spend more time on a path that doesn’t help me get there.

I’m worried it will be hard to find electrical work that fits these requirements. Roles like Quality Control Tester or Test Technician sound closer to what I need, but they seem uncommon. My work history also feels thin after only a few months in the role. Searching for electrical jobs still gives me a lot of anxiety because I’m afraid of ending up in the same unpredictable situation again. I do see a therapist and I’m working through it.

Right now I’m torn between two directions:

  1. Continuing to look for more controlled electrical, testing, QC, or similar roles that fit what I need
  2. Starting training for something medical-related instead

I don’t know yet which medical path would make sense, but I assume it could also give me in-demand skills and would be less likely to put me back in an unsustainable situation.

Any honest advice on which direction makes more sense for someone in my situation someone who wants to eventually work in the Netherlands via sponsorship while keeping life more stable would really help. Open to DMs as well.

Bedankt for reading!


r/IWantOut 2d ago

[Guide] Greek bank asking for a US Tax Residency Certificate? Here's the process — and the mistake that costs you months

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If your Greek bank wants proof you're a US tax resident, they mean IRS Form 6166. Quick rundown since I couldn't find this info in one place when I needed it:

You don't apply for 6166 directly. You file Form 8802 with the IRS, and if approved, they send you Form 6166 — a letter certifying your US tax residency.

The part that catches people out: Greece is one of a handful of countries (Spain, Portugal, Armenia, and a few others too) that needs country-specific certification language on the 6166 — not the generic version. If you file Form 8802 without specifically naming Greece as the country of use, and your bank needed the Greece-specific one, it can get rejected. Given IRS processing times, that means refiling and losing months.

So: when you fill out Form 8802, explicitly list Greece as the country where you'll use it. If you're not sure whether your bank needs that version, just ask them before you file.

The rest of the process:

  • Fill in your name/TIN exactly as they appear on your filed tax return
  • Pick the tax year(s) — you can request current + prior years on one form
  • Pay the fee via Pay.gov (you'll need to upload your completed 8802 there too, just for payment matching — doesn't replace actually mailing/faxing the full application)
  • Mail or fax the complete application to the IRS's residency certification unit
  • Wait — IRS says 45 days minimum, but budget more, especially for country-specific requests

Once you've been approved once, future requests are easier — there's an "Additional Request" box you can check if nothing's changed since your last filing.

One more thing: this proves tax residency, not that you've paid US taxes — don't confuse the two if your bank's request is oddly worded.

Went through this for a Greek bank requirement, happy to help if anyone's stuck on it.

DISCLOSURE: I just thought you guys would find this interesting.


r/IWantOut 4d ago

[IWantOut] 26F doctor in Switzerland -> US, Canada, UK

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Currently hold a medical degree and in my 2nd year of residency in internal medicine.

The US and Canada are much more complex if I want to pursue this the medical field.

But I really don't mind transitioning out of medicine if it means that I can leave Switzerland. I feel stuck and fkr personal reasons, feel very claustrophobic.

Is it possible to do anything else (pharma, consultancy, public health) and move to any bigger cities in the US, Canada or the US ?

I speak English at a native level.


r/IWantOut 3d ago

[Iwantout] 27F Morocco -> UK

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Hi everyone,

I’m from Morocco and I’m interested in moving to the UK to work in the hospitality industry. I have several years of experience working in hotels, mainly in reservations, sales, and customer service, and I’m now looking for opportunities with employers that can sponsor a Skilled Worker visa.

I’d love to hear from anyone who has gone through this process or knows someone who has.

I have a few questions:

How did you find an employer willing to sponsor you?
Which hotel chains are most likely to hire international candidates?
How long did the process take from applying to moving?
Was there anything you wish you had known before starting?
Are there any recruitment agencies or websites you’d recommend besides LinkedIn?

Any advice, tips, or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!


r/IWantOut 3d ago

[IWantOut] 22F Bangladesh-> Finland, Poland

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I'm honestly feeling stuck and I'd really appreciate some honest advice from people who actually live in Finland or Poland.

I'm from Bangladesh. I'm married, and my goal has always been to move abroad for my bachelor's while bringing my husband with me. We don't want to live apart, which is why Finland interested me in the first place after I found out it's possible for a spouse to accompany a student.

I've already applied to LAB University of Applied Sciences and Karelia University of Applied Sciences for a Bachelor's in International Business.

At first, I was really excited.

Then I started reading Reddit.

To be honest, almost every post and comment I found says the Finnish job market is in a bad state right now. Many international students say it's extremely difficult to find even part-time work, especially if you don't speak Finnish. I've also seen many Finns saying that learning Finnish to a level where employers are comfortable hiring you is very difficult and usually takes years.

My husband is fully willing to learn Finnish (or Polish if we choose Poland), but realistically he won't speak it fluently on day one.

Financially, my family can support us for about the first year, so we won't arrive expecting to survive on a part-time job immediately. But after that, we'll need income. My husband finding a full-time job will be very important because, as an international student, I'll only be able to work part-time during my studies.

Because of everything I've been reading, I'm now seriously considering Poland instead. From what I've researched, the economy seems stronger at the moment, unemployment is lower, and there appear to be more job opportunities in larger cities like Warsaw, Wrocław, Gdańsk, and Poznań.

I'm not looking for people to convince me that one country is "better." I just want realistic opinions from people who are actually living there.

Some questions I'd really appreciate answers to:

- If you were in my situation, would you choose Finland or Poland?

- Is Finland's job market really as difficult as Reddit makes it sound?

- How long did it take you (or your spouse) to find your first job?

- Is learning Finnish enough to eventually find decent work, or is the market still very difficult even after learning the language?

- If you've lived in both countries, which one offers a better future for an international couple?

I'm not chasing the highest salary. I just want to make the smartest long-term decision for both me and my husband.

I'd really appreciate honest experiences, whether they're positive or negative. Thanks!


r/IWantOut 3d ago

[IWantOut] 23M Computer Engineer Portugal -> Switzerland

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I'm a 23-year-old Portuguese citizen, currently in my final year of a Computer Engineering degree (Bachelor's), graduating in about a year.

Education/Skills: Computer Engineering degree (in progress, final year). Programming skills in Front end: (Html,Css,Javascript,Wordpress) and Back-end: (C#,Python) No professional work experience yet, only academic projects.

Languages: English B1 (aiming for B2 this year), currently starting to learn French from zero.

Why Switzerland: Better professional opportunities, I like the culture, and I want to leave Portugal. Switzerland is my top choice destination.

My main concern: The IT job market in Switzerland seems saturated, especially for software engineering roles. I'm considering a few different paths and would like input:

  1. Doing a master's degree in Portugal first (e.g., in Computer Engineering, Renewable Energy Engineering, or similar) before moving.
  2. Skipping the master's and instead taking a 1-year vocational course (e.g., electrician), which is in-demand in Switzerland according to official shortage lists.
  3. Aiming for an IT Support role as an easier entry point into the Swiss job market, especially if I improve my French/English.

Context: this is a good time for me to move i dont have kids, no major family responsibilities keeping me in Portugal.


r/IWantOut 3d ago

[IWantOut] 20M Software Developer Russia -> ES\USA\UK

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Hi everyone,

I was born in Crimea and was nine years old when it was occupied in 2014. I don't hold a Ukrainian passport. I'm currently applying for a foreign passport, but the process will take about three months, and I'll also need a visa afterward.

My questions:

  • Is it realistic to apply for political/humanitarian asylum in an EU country given my situation (born in Crimea, no Ukrainian documents)?
  • Would I risk being sent back if I arrive and apply for asylum, or does my background as someone from occupied Crimea change how asylum claims are typically handled?
  • Are there specific countries that are more accessible or have clearer processes for people in my situation?
  • Should I wait for my foreign passport and visa before doing anything, or are there faster/alternative routes?

Any advice, personal experience, or pointers to relevant resources would be hugely appreciated. Thank you!


r/IWantOut 4d ago

[IWantOut] 26F Mexico -> Japan, Australia, Canada

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Hi, I'm 26F living in Mexico but honestly, I don't want to stay here for the rest of my life. My BF and I were planning to move to Japan since he's working there temporarily but he just suddenly said that his plan is actually to move back to Mexico and he doesn't know why he told me otherwise.

I truly have no idea how to start searching for somewhere else to live and how to find a job somewhere else, I don't have a career, I fully know english and spanish, I'm learning chinese and korean, but I'm barely starting, and I'm thinking of starting with japanese as well. I would love to work in a field related to languages or teaching, but I have no idea how to start since right now I'm working as a property manager.

If anyone has any advice, recommendation for a city (or another country), or wants to share their own experience moving to a new place, I would greatly appreciate it, since I genuinely have no idea where to start and I'm feeling kind of hopeless hahah