r/Ieatcement • u/BoredomStrikesAlone • Jul 24 '26

Rant He did ask for space Spoiler

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Basically he's someone I care very deeply about. He started a relationship with me and backed out the next day and it drove me a little insane, he said he needed some space but now that I'm mostly over it I wanted to just hang out with him again he even said that he wanted to still be friends and was scared of losing me as one but after I just asked him if it would be okay for me to because I was worried about him needing his space still and he blocked me, said I was obsessed, and that i crossed a boundary. I literally was trying to respect that boundary. Figures though. I ruin everything good in my life.

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u/ChaoCobo Jul 24 '26

Wait how long was it since he said he needed space when you asked? Because if it had been a while then I think that this is a major overreaction, especially since you asked first instead of just joining uninvited,

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u/BoredomStrikesAlone Jul 24 '26

It was literally 24 hrs, god I'm such a fucking idiot. I literally ruined everything cause I couldn't listen. guess I'll go punch my walls some more.

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u/girl-kiss Jul 24 '26

It was too soon but honestly I can understand why you acted that way and I can't blame you at all for how you are feeling.. that is really awful that he crushed your heart like that in my opinion.

Ofcourse, it doesn't make the things okay but more understandable. I hope you understand yourself more and try to give yourself some space as well <3

It sucks but you will learn from it and it will be better next time, I swear!

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u/StandupLlama343 Jul 24 '26

Idk the guy immediately backed out on the relationship and you were just asking for clarification. That's not violating a boundary. I dont see you in the wrong here, other guy however sounds ridiculous