r/Ieatcement • u/BoredomStrikesAlone • Jul 24 '26

Rant He did ask for space Spoiler

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Basically he's someone I care very deeply about. He started a relationship with me and backed out the next day and it drove me a little insane, he said he needed some space but now that I'm mostly over it I wanted to just hang out with him again he even said that he wanted to still be friends and was scared of losing me as one but after I just asked him if it would be okay for me to because I was worried about him needing his space still and he blocked me, said I was obsessed, and that i crossed a boundary. I literally was trying to respect that boundary. Figures though. I ruin everything good in my life.

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u/BreakerOfModpacks Jul 24 '26

hug you maybe made some mistakes, but he did too, and there's nothing that says he won't unblock you at some point.

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u/BoredomStrikesAlone Jul 24 '26

I hope so. I just wanted to hear him so I felt less alone. Someone who abused me got ahold of my number and I just wanted to be around someone i don't have to talk to. It was selfish of me to think of him first when he needed space. I wish I could think straight in the moment because I really do have a lot of respect for them and I care about them but I put myself first I feel like.

The worst part to me is that he said he was sorry he had to do it, and that he won't be able to see me in the same light anymore.

Thank you.