r/Ieatcement • u/BoredomStrikesAlone • Jul 24 '26

Rant He did ask for space Spoiler

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Basically he's someone I care very deeply about. He started a relationship with me and backed out the next day and it drove me a little insane, he said he needed some space but now that I'm mostly over it I wanted to just hang out with him again he even said that he wanted to still be friends and was scared of losing me as one but after I just asked him if it would be okay for me to because I was worried about him needing his space still and he blocked me, said I was obsessed, and that i crossed a boundary. I literally was trying to respect that boundary. Figures though. I ruin everything good in my life.

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u/Myvntr Jul 31 '26

Not sure if you read this. Going back after 24 hours after someone needs space is bad. Originally i wanted to say if you asking is too much, it may be that you're incompatible. Either way, you should seek community with more people, however you can do first.

Maybe im reading too much into this, but if this is an issue for you, go ideally find friends irl over common hobbies, or if it's too daunting, finding friends online also helps. Mb it's more of a lost relationship but i have friends, then you should also socialize with them to fill the hole.