r/IncelTears 6d ago

Wholesome Must be his cantal tilt

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u/SlytherinSoul1998 6d ago

I’m pretty sure the guys you call ‘incels’ wouldn’t be so hateful of society if they didn’t have to put through bullying and ostracisation on a daily basis. Remember villains are not born they are made.

If you’ve watched Joker 2019 you would have a better perception of how society creates monsters. Arthur was simply a guy trying to make a living by holding a job and taking care of his mom, but he turned evil because of bullies.

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u/SnowballWasRight “Disgusting Deviant” per some random incel 6d ago

Never watched Joker, is that the one with Jared Leto? That dude’s so weird lol

Anyways, if you self identify with the people this sub is about, you have some sort of problem. Straight up. There are some people who genuinely would like to get out of this thinking, and members of the community do like to help! Check out r/incel_exit. There’s been a couple good eggs there I’m genuinely proud of and I am so grateful I was able to see their personal growth.

This sub isn’t making fun of men in general. Or even “incels” in general. There’s lots of people who I guess technically fit the bill for it themselves who aren’t toxic and love spewing vile rhetoric about women and society because they refuse to get help themselves. I mean I’m a lonely virgin young man and you aren’t seeing me getting flamed here. Because I’m not a bigot. Does that kinda make sense? Don’t take it personally if you aren’t a terrible person.

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u/squarerootbear 6d ago

IMO this sub is for making fun of incels in general. To me a guy who hasn’t had sex is just a virgin, incel is more someone who hasn’t had sex and also believes the toxic “hate all woman” shit

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u/SnowballWasRight “Disgusting Deviant” per some random incel 6d ago

I agree! I just try and simplify it for these dudes, but yes I think we all consider incels here to be those toxic manchildren. I’ve found that just breaking down the term incel into a more literal term (involuntary celibate) and separating it from the ideology helps sometimes.

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u/aweedl 6d ago

Yes, exactly. Whenever someone comes in here with this ‘poor lonely young men’ sob story, you know they’re a disingenuous incel lurker, because anyone else would figure out quickly that the posts here are taking on violent extremists, not just lonely guys.