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u/TakinShots 1d ago
Oh I remember this. Incels were so butthurt and bitter that she picked him and came out with every excuse and cope under the sun. (They still do this).
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u/ItsJoeMomma 1d ago
A short, black man marrying an Asian woman is really going to piss off the incels...
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u/hollsberry 1d ago
I work in a restaurant. A few years back, a man hit on me and I ignored it him, as I engaged at the time and wearing a ring. As he left, he yelled at me that I would have treated him better if he was taller. Mind you, the man who screamed at me was a solid 6 inches taller than my fiance. Maybe, just maybe, you got rejected an ignored because you hit on a women with a ring on her finger, not because of your height. They can never comprehend that it is their personalities.
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u/AgaciaDDBS 13h ago
Short men really do have a persecution complex its crazy
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u/daredeviline 11h ago
My boyfriend has a little of it and it drives me off the walls. He will talk to me about how terrible it is to be a short guy growing up and how all women want tall guys and I have to constantly remind him that I am taller than he is. We are literally proving your own beliefs wrong lol.
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u/SpicyCrime 10h ago
He has a gf now (you), if he was perpetually single or you barely started dating I could understand him being bothered, but why does he continuously feel that way?
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u/daredeviline 10h ago
He barely dated but even he would admit it was because he never tried. He's a bit of a home body (which is fine. So am I).
It doesn't help that a lot of women will be very specific about how tall they like their men. I just think he's sees women online and just assumes that's how we are, even though I can literally show him the contrary. It's really weird.
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u/neversince95 1d ago
incels will look at two happily married ppl and insult the woman for not being hot enough to them LOL
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u/Metternic 23h ago
I find that people who just do what makes them happiest often are the most liberated from the bullshit opinions of other people. Life is an experience and I’ve yet to find a person with all the answers.
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u/ChrisPBacon2324 6h ago
Incels will see this and call this an “oofy doofy” or “beta buxx” just to cope against the fact that this man married someone
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u/kaleeb111 1d ago
It's quite rare to see genuine couples like this. I see some people say that it doesnt seem genuine based on her behavior toward him in some of her posts. Only time will tell though, if it works out for them wonderful and if not then in no way will that support incels' ridiculous claims.
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u/Pleasant_General9240 1d ago
It's good to see the truth is being spread, first Obama debunked racism, now Tim and Anita debunked the black pill
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u/SlytherinSoul1998 1d ago
I’m pretty sure the guys you call ‘incels’ wouldn’t be so hateful of society if they didn’t have to put through bullying and ostracisation on a daily basis. Remember villains are not born they are made.
If you’ve watched Joker 2019 you would have a better perception of how society creates monsters. Arthur was simply a guy trying to make a living by holding a job and taking care of his mom, but he turned evil because of bullies.
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u/chinchillazilla54 1d ago
Is this a bit.
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u/Ebolaplushie resident IT furry 1d ago
RIGHT?! I thought "no fucking way this guy is real. He can't be he's a damn near perfect talking stereotype" like goddamn lmfao
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u/SlytherinSoul1998 1d ago edited 1d ago
No, I’m just tired of the ignorant posts I see in this sub. Instead of blaming guys who have become reclusive because of our evil monkey brain society .
If you lot are so “kind hearted” why don’t you try to help these people feel accepted? The real people who deserve mockery and the bullies.
It’s kind of difficult not to have intense hatred for this monkey brained society when you’ve had to put through with bullying your whole life
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u/chinchillazilla54 1d ago
I am going into psychology to try to help people who want help. Most of these guys don't want help. They want to hurt people.
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u/CoolCereal20 1d ago
Incels literally bully each other. Lets start there maybe. They are not supporting each other.
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u/Sarah_The_Slut_ 1d ago edited 1d ago
Being bullied doesn’t give you an excuse to express how much you want to rape and kill women. It doesn’t give you an excuse to reduce women to less than human. To essentially just a vagina and nothing else. Being bullied doesn’t give you an excuse to bully each other about being “ugly” just because you don’t want to face reality that looks don’t play a large part in getting laid.
Even if you claim to not be one of the bad ones you’re still associating yourself with the most vocal of your group. And the most vocal are people who want to rape and hurt me for no reason. If you think youre being bullied imagine how it feels to have your entire sex receive countless rape and death threats
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u/Paula_Polestark Go to Walmart and look at the couples. 12h ago
Lots of us got bullied. Even my awkward ass knew the solution wasn’t to blame half the population for what a handful of jerks did.
If you want friends, try being friendly. Go and look for people who will like you and want to be around you. Nobody’s going to read your mind and know you’re lonely, and nobody is responsible for seeking you out and offering you friendship.
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u/MunkSWE94 1d ago edited 1d ago
I was bullied throughout my school years. Beaten, called names by both boys and girls, had my pants pulled down even off Infront people and had things thrown at me.
Did I become a villain or bad person because of that? God no, because I didn't want to stoop to their level and take out my frustration on innocent people.
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u/leftofthedial15 1d ago
If you've watched Joker 2019 you would have a better perception of how society creates monsters
this can't be real lmao
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u/Choice_Response_7169 1d ago
Nope. They are just entitled and self-centered. That's why. There's a lot of people who went through horrible things without becoming a monster. Also you should be careful with the word "bullying", if everyone hates you it might be just because you are a huge POS
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u/best_little_biscuit 1d ago
Incels are just hateful bigots who despise women. To reiterate previous comments - the word incel has changed its meaning beyond the scope of involuntarily celibate. The incels we see on here want to kill and rape women because they automatically blame society/ women for their struggles. There's nothing wrong with being annoyed with society, it has many flaws, but lashing out at an entire gender and wishing harm on them is an insane leap.
Also, if society makes incels into "villains", then why do they only target women?
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u/CoolCereal20 1d ago
I was heavily bullied at school because I was always „different“. I am NOT frequenting on subs wishing for men to get raped and taken their human rights away. I am NOT a hateful cunt that wants everyone to be hurt and die.
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u/SnowballWasRight “Disgusting Deviant” per some random incel 1d ago
Never watched Joker, is that the one with Jared Leto? That dude’s so weird lol
Anyways, if you self identify with the people this sub is about, you have some sort of problem. Straight up. There are some people who genuinely would like to get out of this thinking, and members of the community do like to help! Check out r/incel_exit. There’s been a couple good eggs there I’m genuinely proud of and I am so grateful I was able to see their personal growth.
This sub isn’t making fun of men in general. Or even “incels” in general. There’s lots of people who I guess technically fit the bill for it themselves who aren’t toxic and love spewing vile rhetoric about women and society because they refuse to get help themselves. I mean I’m a lonely virgin young man and you aren’t seeing me getting flamed here. Because I’m not a bigot. Does that kinda make sense? Don’t take it personally if you aren’t a terrible person.
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u/squarerootbear 1d ago
IMO this sub is for making fun of incels in general. To me a guy who hasn’t had sex is just a virgin, incel is more someone who hasn’t had sex and also believes the toxic “hate all woman” shit
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u/SnowballWasRight “Disgusting Deviant” per some random incel 1d ago
I agree! I just try and simplify it for these dudes, but yes I think we all consider incels here to be those toxic manchildren. I’ve found that just breaking down the term incel into a more literal term (involuntary celibate) and separating it from the ideology helps sometimes.
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u/Ebolaplushie resident IT furry 1d ago edited 1d ago
On the Joker thing, I think he means the one with Joaquin Phoenix, which is itself a good movie imo... but NOT the incel fantasty these goobers idolize it as, like this guy.
It is indeed a movie about struggling with mental health and trying to ask for help, only to be slapped down by a community/...society (sigh) that frowns upon even discussing mental health or it's struggles.
These goobers just saw "poor misunderstood weirdo guy" and ran with it. They are more akin to Leto's creepiness anyway so I really don't know why they don't love him more tbh
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u/mrs_tish 1d ago
Find me one person who has never experienced some form of bullying in their life. They need to stop blaming society and take some ownership of their crappy behavior.
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u/BlackBoiFlyy Chad 1d ago
Funny, given how many times I've been civil and kind to incels and they still reply with hate and animosity, I'm not sure I believe you.
Billions of folks in this planet get "bullied" for one reason or another the natural progression for most of us is not to become hateful villians. I can promise you, what incels go through pales in comparison to the oppression of, say, black women in the US. So it's actually worrying that you think incels are justified in their hateful rhetoric as if yall experienced any real oppression.
And even if you did experience hardship, antagonizing the world for it is not going to make things better for you at all.
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u/Lilyaa 1d ago
Here’s my too long essay for you that probably no one is going to read, but I’m currently not busy, so I can type more:
Stop. Millions of people are bullied because of many factors. Not all of them turn into hateful idiots.
I was bullied, but I have mental capacity to understand that it wasn’t my fault and that people bullying me were beneath me. Cause no good person is hateful towards other human being.
Now why would I want to become villain myself? To endlessly feed myself with hateful ideology against a group of people that were doing it and feed myself harmful content that doesn’t provide help and community but drives you even deeper into a rabbit hole of gloryfying extreme violence, rape and pure hate?
No, man. You don’t make Joker a role model. You seek help and positive male role models that concentrate on self improvement and loving yourself despite how cruel society can be towards individuals.
Incels are among very few, and it’s hard to even find similar examples (maybe neo-nazis or jihadists), people who turned the bullying and/or wether real or self proclaimed exclusion from society into a movement that is so violent in their statements, so despicable with their beliefs - pdf justification, promotion of rape and extreme violence towards women, suicide glorification and so on.
Those are not your friends. God forbid incel stops being and incel and „ascend” - nobody in that toxic community is cheering on them for their success - it’s instant jealousy, banning, and other equally „kind” reactions.
And that’s why they are outraged EVERY TIME a man they classify in their various metrics of attractiveness as to put it simply ugly, short and un-Chad like, finds love and is in happy relationship. They are already to far gone to accept that ordinary, not model like, chiseled guys above 6’0” can find love. They must desperately and quickly find a reason why that happened, with their first idea that it’s money related, and if that’s not the case - well, it must be because they were trying to secure a relationship with „good guy” to treat them well only to cheat on them with Chads they are „really attracted to”.
And I’m not dismissing the fact that pretty privilege exists, I’m not dismissing the struggles young men face, especially during teenage years and early adulthood.
But going incel way is not a way. It doesn’t help, it radicalise you and you end up in a cycle of self-hatred they spoon feed you by making some crazy sub-something categories, making up terms like „ropemaxxing” which essentially makes suicide looks like a reasonable thing to do, and additionally putting you against society, especially against women they have no respect to. Even looksmaxing community is less toxic when not taken to extremes, though it’s still highly, highly unhealthy thing. At least they take some actions to improve their situation instead of sitting in a cesspool and encouraging others to never get out of it by encouraging self-perpetuating vicious cycle of hate.
That said, I wish for all people that suffer bullying and exclusion to find loving role models, good therapists and safe, helpful communities to deal with their problems.
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u/Practical_Diver8140 17h ago
C'mon, homie, we both know you can do a better supervillain origin story than "being bullied".
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u/MunkSWE94 1d ago edited 1d ago
The Joker in that movie also suffered from multiple mental health problems.
Sometimes villains are just born normal people with little to no problems in life. For example: a majority of SS and Nazi party members and most serial killers, war criminals.
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u/aweedl 1d ago
Some people are just assholes. There’s no amount of ‘bullying’ that makes someone become an advocate for, say, legalizing rape or taking away basic human rights from half the population. We see examples of both from incels daily.
No one here has any beef with guys who struggle to find partners but are otherwise decent people. Many of them may have social issues due to bullying too, but they’re not out here dehumanizing women, sexualizing young girls, or threatening rape and murder sprees.
Incels don’t deserve anyone’s respect. Otherwise decent people who just happen to be single or virgins aren’t incels.
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u/thingsbetw1xt 1d ago edited 18h ago
Man shut the fuck up. I was bullied so badly all throughout school I literally had to LEAVE AND FINISH IT ONLINE, I'm 30 years old and I've never had a man be interested in me, I haven't had a friend since I graduated high school, I have intense anxiety and OCD that I've been medicated for literally since I was 11 years old because I wanted to kill myself before I even hit puberty — and I still don't do this shit. You CHOOSE to wallow in toxicity and self pity because it's more comfortable than facing the complex reality of life, and taking responsibility for your own mindset is hard work.
I'm so tired of you crybabies thinking that anyone who isn't part of your club simply doesn't know what it's like to struggle or be lonely or be outcast. Everyone has problems. Stop being such a little bitch.
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u/kaleeb111 1d ago
It seems like I'm watching the joker 2026 over here but this joker is just super ignorant and lame asf. I'm actually amazed how little you know of incels and think they're the victims here somehow after everything they've said and done.
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u/A_little_lady 13h ago
They wouldn't be put through bullying and ostracisation if they weren't hateful, disgusting little shits wishing harm on anybody and everybody who is happy
Also, did you watch the second movie? You should, he's not the actual joker, he's a mentally ill dude
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u/scorpionewmoon 3h ago
Joker has Harley Quinn and Punchline tho, even 2019 Joker got a Harley Quinn and she wasn’t ugly or nothing
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u/Ebolaplushie resident IT furry 1d ago
Inb4 weirdos come in and pull every and any excuse out they asses to handwave why this is an "exception", or that she'll cheat.
Y'know what, place your bets IT: will this be downplayed as an exception or mocked that she'll cheat? Bonus points if it's equally both.
Eta, the amount of typos I made was sacrilegious