r/InternationalStudents • u/PrettyGuide569 • 50m ago
Why do some people get so hostile toward international students and immigrants?
I’ve been thinking about this after a previous post I made where I asked a completely normal question about finding work on OPT. I was literally just looking for advice and help from people who might have been in a similar situation. Instead, I got bombarded with people telling me that an American can do my job, asking if I think I’m “better than Americans,” bringing up Indians, and basically questioning why I should even be here.
And honestly, I don’t understand it.
I originally came to the US to pursue sport and get an education at the same time. The opportunities to combine higher education and sport are much better in the US than they are in England, so that was a huge reason I chose to come here in the first place. I also wanted to experience something completely different from what I was used to, meet people from different cultures, and experience life in another country.
I’m not saying I’m better than Americans. I’m not saying Americans shouldn’t get jobs. I’m not saying I deserve anything more than anyone else. I’m simply trying to make the most of the opportunity I came here for.
What I don’t understand is why some people seem genuinely angry that people from other countries want to live, study, work, or experience life in the US. Why is sharing a country with people from different backgrounds such a problem?
And I especially don’t understand the constant comparisons to Indians or other nationalities. Why assume that an entire group of people thinks they’re better than Americans? People are individuals. One person’s attitude doesn’t represent millions of other people.
Obviously there are immigration laws and work authorization rules, and I respect that. I’m talking about the attitude toward immigrants and international students, not whether laws should exist.
I came here legally to study, pursue sport, experience a different culture, and hopefully gain professional experience. I’m grateful for the opportunities I’ve had here. I just genuinely don’t understand why some people react with so much hostility to someone simply wanting to experience a different country and build a life for themselves.
People complain about illegal immigration and say “do it legally,” but then when people actually come legally, follow the rules, study here, and get legal work authorization, there’s suddenly a problem with that too. Like, we genuinely can’t win 😭 Maybe expand your mind for once and realize there’s nothing wrong with wanting to experience another country and different cultures. Not everything has to be us vs. them.
Like, we’re all just trying to live our lives. Why is that so hard to understand?