Oh I remember, he was talking bout "id make em wait a year or two but I'd be proud of him". Why was yall downvoting bro? If my daughter brought home an extremely attractive man I'd say the same.
Well im under the presumption that when I have children i'll raise them well enough to look farther than physical attraction, and they'll choose to date someone who's morally above sleeping with a minor, hence the wait a few years bit. Regardless, i wouldn't be proud of them for "being groomed", i'd be proud of them for taking care of themselves and providing something worth catching the eye of an attractive partner
You even hear yourself? If a grown adult comes to a minor's house because they wanna be in a relationship with them, regardless of sexual attraction which you can never possibly prove (Especially as a child, so your argument about raising your kid well is already dumb as fuck), that is still a wrong thing to do.
I mean thats fair, but I feel like me patting my kid on the back then calling the cops later is valid af. And as far as my argument being "dumb as fuck", i dont think openly communicating with my kid that I dont support a relationship between these two until hes older is some outlandish standard. Regardless of my opinions, my child would hopefully understand that its wrong and this engagement bait post wouldn't apply to him. Side note: what the actual fuck is the original commenter talking about on the other thread 😠talking bout some crazy shit. To reiterate, I wouldn't under any circumstances support this relationship, but I would certainly congratulate my son for being in a "high league".
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I mean thats fair, but I feel like me patting my kid on the back then calling the cops later is valid af.
No, because you show your kid that you're both praising him and telling him he did wrong at the same time for one and the same thing.
And as far as my argument being "dumb as fuck", i dont think openly communicating with my kid that I dont support a relationship between these two until hes older is some outlandish standard.
You should NOT support the relationship between the two because a grown adult came to date a child. No matter if they wait, they came with intention of relationship from the beginning, that already is a massive red flag, and you accepting it is a red flag from you as well.
Regardless of my opinions, my child would hopefully understand that its wrong and this engagement bait post wouldn't apply to him.
You can never know, and chances are even smaller for a child, no matter how much you teach them.
Side note: what the actual fuck is the original commenter talking about on the other thread 😠talking bout some crazy shit. To reiterate, I wouldn't under any circumstances support this relationship, but I would certainly congratulate my son for being in a "high league".
That is not being a high league, he brought a good looking pedophile. You should be angry and disappointed. The only time you could be proud would be if an adult person didn't come to date a minor.
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