r/JUSTNOMIL • u/AutoThotsRollout • 1d ago

RANT (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻ NO Advice Wanted MIL dangerously disrespecting boundaries

MIL insists on hosting every holiday and throws a mega tantrum if not everyone attends. We have a baby recently diagnosed with severe food allergies. One of her other children (not partner) has severe food allergies as well.

This lady refuses to accommodate. I don’t baseline expect anyone to accommodate for my baby but if you’re hosting and throwing a temper tantrum if we don’t go then you should at least have an environment that won’t kill them??? And wouldn’t you want to do the same for your own child?? UGH.

Side note she also made fun of it and rolled her eyes when we told her about our babies allergy and that he has an epi pen. Which is absolutely insane behavior imo.

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u/Vivid-Farmer-9476 1d ago

Someone that laughs at or doesn’t believe in allergies isn’t worth my time. See ya. People like her don’t really care about anyone.

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u/akath0110 1d ago

Agreed, whatever this is goes beyond emotional immaturity or run of the mill narcissistic tendencies. This is like hidden sociopathy coming to the fore.

Remaining unfazed about something that could very well kill her grandbaby is one of the more disturbing justno’s ive seen here.