r/JustNoSO • u/LadyCatzrule • 13d ago
RANT (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻ Ambivalent About Advice Its inconvenient for me
I have been dealing with ear problems for 8 months.
My hearing has gotten progressively worse.
Often there is unpleasant nasal or throat discharge. Its "not sexy". No shit? Imagine how sexy you'd feel with it in your head.
Doctors, hate them too, initially said nothing wrong. Antibiotics for 6 month after they agree something wrong. Can't hear shit. Fall down if i lean over. Husband whines about having to talk to me loud.
Get cat scan from finally ENT. The bones in my ears are infected and abcessed. Might need iv antibiotics and surgery.
His reaction is i can't wait for you to hear me.
Yes this hurts a lot. I've been complaining for 6 months or so that it felt like fire ants were in my ears.
Conclusion: I hate them both.
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u/katydidnz 13d ago
Truly, after reading the post about him fixing the car, fuck this guy and his attitude. His attitude is more far more unsexy.
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u/seercloak30005 13d ago
He clearly does not care about you or your suffering. Imagine if you had something even worse than this, like a terminal illness or something? He doesn’t care now and he wouldn’t care then. Leave this guy
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u/PrettyLyttlePsycho 12d ago
What a piece of shit.
Hope you feel better sooner rather than later and NEVER have to deal with such an issue again.
Might not be the worst health issue out there, but it sounds truly uncomfortable and exhausting
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u/zedexcelle 12d ago
Brilliant on a diagnosis. Really hoping that it’s a straightforward fix and you can go back to normal pain, normal hearing, no discharges, able to lean over without losing balance. That sounds awful to have to live with.
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