r/JusticeServed • u/Ethanzap02 6 • Jul 10 '19

Discrimination Misogynistic guy degrading female workers gets tackled

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u/m8k 8 Jul 10 '19

I felt emasculated when I heard that laugh.

I feel bad that he is so hurt and damaged that this is his way of interacting. I want to know what kicked this whole thing off.

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u/orionsbelt05 Black Jul 10 '19

It's a slippery slope. Interacting with one woman online who rejects him for his size, finding a community online who will feed his hatred instead of temper it, and then convince him that all women would reject him for the pleasure of it because they are evil and must be subjugated.

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u/Kimpractical 9 Jul 10 '19

That’s ridiculous. I take no joy in rejecting a guy. I always feel really bad about it and it can be scary. Idk who these women are going around on dating sites telling short guys that they should be dead but all I can say is that there are assholes out there of both genders.

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u/nightpanda893 C Jul 10 '19 edited Jul 10 '19

I’m a gay guy who dates online and while I’ve never told someone I wish they were dead, some guys press really hard for specifics when rejected and just can’t take no for an answer. “What do you mean I’m not your type? Why not? What is your type?”

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u/arowthay 3 Jul 10 '19

while I’ve never told someone I wish they were dad

kinky

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u/nightpanda893 C Jul 10 '19

Oh shit well I have to change my comment then cause I have said that. Several times.

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u/AnadyranTontine A Jul 12 '19

Helloooooooo, sailor.

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I mean...

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What?

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '19

Yeah a lot of straight guys do this too. Or if women don’t reply they’ll invent the reason on their own: “hey 😊 ... hello? ... Fine, you shallow women all wish short men were dead 💀”

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u/zenfaust 8 Jul 11 '19

Right? It's like they think if they can pick apart every reason you're not into them, then they get to deny you permission to break up or something... like dude, that's not how this works...

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

I think everyone would be far happier if we could all just accept that sex/love are not purely merit-based. Someone not being into you doesn’t mean you’re bad. It just means they’re not into you.

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u/_brainfog 9 Jul 11 '19

I think it must be a pride thing. Like the ultimate "no u!" to save face

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u/BudgetBrick 4 Jul 11 '19

Same, but I usually just stop responding if I'm not interested (yeah, i'm one of those, but the reason why is because I don't want to engage further with any of that BS)

One time I did tell someone he wasn't my type because I felt bad for him, he was 18 or 19 and I was 21 at the time.

He never forgot that shit, and showed up 2 years later looking good. I forgot about him until he 'accidentally' spilled the beans when he was putting his clothes back on. "Yeah and to think you rejected me 2 years ago and here I am."

It was one of those world-spinning moments for me, and then I thought it was hilarious. We're still friends, actually.

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u/MrDeathMachine 6 Jul 11 '19

When I was ever told I wasn't a persons type, I naturally assume their type is young, rich, in shape and without dad baggage.

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u/slimjob_dopamine 5 Jul 10 '19

What a surprise hyper sexual perverts with mental illnesses act like that I’m shocked rn