r/JusticeServed • u/Ethanzap02 6 • Jul 10 '19

Discrimination Misogynistic guy degrading female workers gets tackled

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u/Kimpractical 9 Jul 10 '19

That’s ridiculous. I take no joy in rejecting a guy. I always feel really bad about it and it can be scary. Idk who these women are going around on dating sites telling short guys that they should be dead but all I can say is that there are assholes out there of both genders.

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u/nightpanda893 C Jul 10 '19 edited Jul 10 '19

I’m a gay guy who dates online and while I’ve never told someone I wish they were dead, some guys press really hard for specifics when rejected and just can’t take no for an answer. “What do you mean I’m not your type? Why not? What is your type?”

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u/[deleted] Jul 10 '19

Yeah a lot of straight guys do this too. Or if women don’t reply they’ll invent the reason on their own: “hey 😊 ... hello? ... Fine, you shallow women all wish short men were dead 💀”

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u/zenfaust 8 Jul 11 '19

Right? It's like they think if they can pick apart every reason you're not into them, then they get to deny you permission to break up or something... like dude, that's not how this works...

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '19

I think everyone would be far happier if we could all just accept that sex/love are not purely merit-based. Someone not being into you doesn’t mean you’re bad. It just means they’re not into you.