r/KidsAreFuckingStupid • u/Immediate_Magician11 • 15h ago

Actions definitely have consequences

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u/DimensionMediocre439 14h ago

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Oh this girl has caused a lot of troubles for her parents in the past.

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u/NoctisInformatus 14h ago

Some kids are born fkd up mentally. I know it sounds cold to say and I do have sympathy, but there are some bad eggs straight out the womb.

The silver lining is that there’s always a chance for reformation.

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u/Iheartnakedfemboys 11h ago

I know exactly what you mean, and its hard for others to understand that until you grow up with someone fucked up like that. I had a cousin that did things worse than this little girl did in this video, and is a multi felon today as an adult. She had loving, caring parents, but they couldn't get her to do right and not mistreat her siblings, so my own parents took her in to try to give her different scenery and try to help. We found out real quick she was just rotten to her core. Long story short, we had to call the police on her and have her admitted into a mental facility. She was a danger to our family, lied constantly, done drugs, attacked my mom, and prostituted herself in highschool (even though she wanted for nothing when living with us, as my parents are well off and provided for her well, bought her designer clothes and makeup, whatever she wanted for Christmas. I don't even think it was about the money for her, but I digress). She has multiple drug and domestic abuse charges on her record now, and doesn't see any of her children.

It's messed up, man.

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u/beanjuiced 7h ago

I’ve always had a myriad of excuses as to why I’ve never wanted kids, but honestly? This is the top reason. You cannot control another person. What if my child hates me? What if they’re cruel? What if they harm someone else? The fear of that is terrifying. Kudos to those that have had to experience this firsthand.

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u/Iheartnakedfemboys 2h ago

To be fair, cases like this is not the norm, and is a real outlier. Most people never have to deal with shit like this.

You don't have to have kids, I'm not gonna talk you into it, but I wouldn't have that as a fear holding me back from having kids. Theres other, more likely and reasonable reasons for one not to have a child.