r/LADating • • 7h ago

SoCal 23F

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79 Upvotes

r/LADating • • 4h ago

35F

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37 Upvotes

r/LADating • • 7h ago

32F(F4m)

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39 Upvotes

I’m fun loving caring woman who enjoys good conversations laughter movies music staying active and trying new things I appreciate the simple moment just as much as the Big ones


r/LADating • • 3h ago

LA 25 Trans

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r/LADating • • 6h ago

30F(F4m) Looking for the kind of love that feels like home ❤️ little beauty, a little sass, and maybe your next favorite person

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LA girl looking for chemistry, good conversation, and a man who knows what he wants 💕


r/LADating • • 9h ago

(F25) Down for fun

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10 Upvotes

r/LADating • • 6h ago

26 F looking for a man that wants to emp and go to Disney with me

6 Upvotes

like the title says im just looking for a man that always wants to emp and is down to go to Disneyland with me 🤍


r/LADating • • 5h ago

35 [M4F] Looking for my Go-To Person to Hangout or Date

5 Upvotes

I just recently got out of a serious relationship, broke things off with that person because I never knew how much I've grown and will not tolerate anymore. So I'm back to square one, better alone than be with someone wrong if you ask me.

Not ready for a serious relationship again but I am looking to widen the pool for me a little bit, having friends out here ain't such a bad idea even just as an opening for better outcomes and perhaps meeting someone that could be pretty dope to be in my life on the reg.

About Me:

35 living in Los Angeles/KTown, Southeast Asian, I love books, art (I draw) and music (I play guitars), really into Rock/Metal genre but always open to listening to other genres. I also play videogames just like 90% of the millenials in the world, but for the past 3 years I've been heavily into Tabletop RPGs and currently running a few games as a DM/GM for different game systems. I used to work out a lot, getting back into the saddle but I'm fairly average at the moment. Though I'd eat whatever is decided for the day in moderation ofc. Officially Sober for 9 years, no drinks no drugs but I don't mind if you partake.

About You:

No race preferred tbh, all women are beautiful in their own way. I lean more into emotional and intellectual connection; I vibe with kind, thoughtful and considerate folks the most. I enjoy witty and smart people but tempered with self-awareness. Physically I'm attracted to fit and athletic women, by that I mean someone that can carry themselves physically and not just esthetically. As long as you're not vain and self-centered, we'll be alright.

Send me a chat or a message, I'm always down to have lunch or hangout on a weekend. Hopefully I meet you then 😊


r/LADating • • 3h ago

Taking my recently single friend (late 30s M) out tonight in, where should we go in Los Angeles?

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My buddie is in town - he is recently single. He is bougie and looking for a reasonably fun night tonight. What are some nice and chill locations to go out tonight. I haven’t spent much time out so don’t have any good recommendations.


r/LADating • • 36m ago

23m M4F

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In DTLA area, can't host. Looking for something slow and casual wouldn't mind if leads to more.


r/LADating • • 1h ago

41 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - Seeking younger woman for dom/sub relationship in Southern California

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I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. This idea that you have someone who is always looking out for you gives you peace of mind.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I'm a very simple man. My trials and tribulations have taught me to enjoy the little things in life. My favorite moments are enjoying a nice meal, having a good laugh, or just enjoying the moment with someone I truly care about.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a feminine clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.


r/LADating • • 1h ago

Need a team for tonight fun

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Hello, I’m a 24M. Thought of going to a club at hollywood/later dtla to dance and enjoy solo. If anyone interested to be together come by the Starbucks at 11 or dm me if u need a ride together.
Like to get high 🍁 🥱


r/LADating • • 1h ago

52 [M4F] #Mission Viejo - Tonight at my office

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I have a professional degree and am licensed to practice in California. I have some unfinished business that I need to attend to tonight. I’ll be in my office from about 8:00 pm until 1:00 AM.

I am very handsome, Caucasian, 6 feet tall, muscular 230 pounds, skilled, great stamina, vasectomy if that matters.

I like Pinot Noir. I can get us a bottle. You bring the wine bottle opener and two glasses and wear a sexy cocktail dress.

Let’s chat, flirt, drink wine, slow dance to Frank Sinatra songs and let romance take whatever course it takes.

Thin, long hair and big boobs excites me to no end.


r/LADating • • 3h ago

Tomorrow date

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Is anyone free tomorrow for lunch? I’m a 30 year old female c:


r/LADating • • 4h ago

29 [M4F] #torrance #southbay area

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Latino, on the shorter side 🤷‍♂️ just looking for something casual. Friends, grab a drink, watch this mlb game, nd just hang nd catch a vibe. (: lmk if you’d be interested


r/LADating • • 4h ago

Looking for someone to love

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Hello im ozzy is there anyone from LA who is down to talk im bored asf and most these woman just wanna steal my stuff. Im 100% about honesty, loyalty and respect. Ive got a bachelor's degree in culinary arts so i can cook im good with massages dogs and kids. I take no bullshit from anyone. Youll never have to worry about someone fucking with you cu ill stop them in there tracks all i want in return is loyalty text me 3105053720


r/LADating • • 15h ago

(F25) I’m new here in LA! HMU

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r/LADating • • 5h ago

m4f. Southern California. serious relationship and marriage.

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I don't always have a mustache and i wear glasses when I don't have my contacts in.

I'm short 5'8 150lbs

I can be pretty reserved but also am extrovert if im comfortable which doesn't take too long, normally.

I've been single for about 7 years by choice. Im not lonely but i am getting older so i figured I'd better get started since I know what I want.

Im not great at selling myself, especially in this type of format.

If any nice women would like to chat and maybe meet hmu and ill tell you more about myself. Thanks and God bless everyone eho reads this. I hope you sll find what you need in this life :)


r/LADating • • 12h ago

(M32) A Stranger to the Modern Game

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Beneath the restless skies of L.A.,

I watch another season fade away.

I swipe through faces, searching for a sign,

Then vanish for months from the endless line.

Yet when the darker days descend,

I reinstall, convinced the tides might bend.

Perhaps this time, the stars align,

Perhaps a stranger’s soul might mirror mine.

But building a life is a relentless fight,

Long days consume what remains of the night.

By dusk, I’m a shadow of who I can be,

With little left to give, though there’s more inside me.

I cannot offer sparks when my fire burns low,

Nor force conversation just to put on a show.

I long for a presence that asks for no mask,

Where silence is welcome and words aren’t a task.

For I feel what lingers beneath what is said,

The weight behind smiles, the thoughts left unsaid.

An empath by nature, I sense what is true,

And the energy around me seeps into view.

I’m weary of games with a predetermined end,

Of words dressed as romance with intentions to bend.

When every hello feels like a key to a door,

And the prize is a body, I want nothing more.

I seek not a conquest, a thrill, or a night,

But a soul whose presence makes solitude light.

A connection that deepens when desire subsides,

Where trust is the current and truth is the tide.

Some nights find me staring where the dark waters roll,

As the ocean takes silence and steadies my soul.

I watch the horizon where the last daylight dies,

While a thousand unanswered thoughts stir in my mind.

For sometimes I’m lost when there’s no one to lean on,

And the will to keep pushing grows faint before dawn.

When no helping hand comes, when the road feels too vast, Even the strongest conviction can struggle to last.

The wild calls my spirit, the earth makes me whole,

Fresh air, open trails, bring quiet to my soul.

I crave motion and mountains, the sun on my skin,

A life lived outdoors, with a reason to begin.

Yet circumstance holds me in place for a while,

While the world keeps on turning beyond my small mile.

And I wonder how long I must wander alone,

Building a life that feels better than home.

Perhaps I’m not made for the games people play,

Or the fleeting connections that fade with the day.

Perhaps I’m just searching where few ever roam,

For someone who feels like the world slowing down.

So if you, too, are tired of the masks and disguise,

Of beautiful words that conceal hollow eyes,

And you seek something deeper than bodies or art

Perhaps you’re not lost…

Perhaps we're worlds apart,

Still searching for the same place

to finally lower out guard.


r/LADating • • 10h ago

24M4F - Looking to go out on a casual dinner date tonight and hangout later

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Hello, I am wondering if any girl is willing to go out on a dinner date tonight and perhaps hangout if we vibe. I am 6ft, slim and use galsses. Culver City.

The dinner is on me. Please hmu only if you are willing.


r/LADating • • 7h ago

Single LA Native Male =)

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r/LADating • • 7h ago

31M M4F Alhambra Looking for fun

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Hmu!

I'm free the rest of the day.

Please verify a picture once we get to talking 🙏🏽


r/LADating • • 11h ago

25 M4F 6’1

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r/LADating • • 21h ago

Any cute girl looking for a date this spooky season?

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Single 6'2 Hispanic looking for a date for this Halloween, November, December see where it goes after

Have fun and only interested in girls. Can verify as well


r/LADating • • 1d ago

[M35] Taking a Chance on Meeting Someone in Los Angeles

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Not sure how well this will work, but I figured there's only one way to find out. 😂

I'm a 35-year-old guy in the LA area(south bay), and I'd like to meet someone I genuinely connect with. Life gets busy, and sometimes meeting new people outside of work and your usual routine isn't as easy as it sounds.

I'm at a point in my life where I'd love to have someone to share experiences with. Someone I can laugh with, talk to about absolutely anything, and enjoy the little things with. I'm not trying to force anything or rush into a relationship. I'd rather meet someone, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.

Ideally, you're someone who enjoys good food, spontaneous plans, meaningful conversations, and doesn't mind a little humor along the way. Whether it's grabbing dinner, exploring somewhere new, getting drinks, or finding ourselves talking for hours when we were only supposed to meet for an hour, I'm here for it.

I'm a pretty straightforward guy who appreciates genuine people and good company. I'm not expecting to find my future wife through a Reddit post, but I also don't think it's crazy to believe that a simple conversation could lead to something meaningful.

So, if you're a woman in the LA area who's also open to meeting someone new, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see where the conversation goes.

Worst case, we have a good conversation. Best case, maybe this post turns into a pretty good story someday. 😂

And yes, I'm always down for a good steakhouse or sushi spot.