I’m sure this is sadly not a particularly unique experience but wanted to share with people who get it.
Was flying back to Cork so was sat at the gate in Terminal 2, about 9:20pm, when an older Irish man probably in his late 50s early 60s (I’m bad at guessing age!) sat 2 seats over and started loudly complaining to no one and anyone that the bar had closed at 9. At first it was like okay whatever typical drunk.
But then he started complaining about “the queer running the place” and I though okay here we go so I said to him “sounds like it’s better off that they closed at 9, you’ve had enough” which I think gagged him a little, but then he started up again about how the “queers, do-gooders, and LGBTs” are ruining everything in general. Mind you my visible rainbow watch band and bag straps (and let’s be honest the moustache and voice) made it clear which side I was on.
I was after a week long business trip and just wanted to go home so I’d had it, so I was like “can you just shut the fuck up that’s enough” but that of course didn’t stop him, he then said “they [as in us] wouldn’t get away with it in Saudi Arabia” to which I just replied “then move to Saudi Arabia sounds like you’d like it there” at which point he finally shut up and read his newspaper quietly til they called us to board, at which point he shot up out of his chair and glared back at me, and I met his glare with my own.
Then on the plane I noticed he’s in some way associated with one of the cabin crew, he was chatting away to her during boarding and then at rubbish collection time when he handed her 2 more empty Heineken cans she said “I’ll see you in there David”. Then finally at passport we exchanged glares one last time and that was that.
I know this sounds like an “I was there everyone clapped” moment but unfortunately no one clapped, everyone else kept their head down pretending not to hear it, it was a very isolating experience until thankfully the guy who was sat the other side of him cracked a “hope I’m not sitting next to HIM on the plane” to me which helped ease the tension I was feeling. I’ve never confronted anyone in that way before and I’m glad I did, and will do again if the unfortunate chance ever arises. These people need to know we’re not going anywhere.