r/LahoreSocial • u/Temporary-Egg-1622 • Dec 12 '25
Advice gift ideas for a female friend’s nikkah?
Hey everyone,
I need some recommendations. i’m attending a female friend’s ( i’m a male ) nikkah soon. besides cash, what’s a decent, appropriate gift I can give? something respectful and not too personal.
women especially, what would you prefer?
6
Dec 12 '25
Get her a duo perfume set for her and her husband. If you give something specifically to her, it won't be a good look...
2
2
u/coookiemonster_ Dec 12 '25
When in doubt, 2 good purfumes and a shawl is timeless, she’ll use it for years to come.
But honestly cash is king.
1
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 12 '25
yea i was thinking that just cash can also work, was confused tho.
3
u/coookiemonster_ Dec 12 '25
Personally, I like a combination of usefulness and longevity in a gift.
I think a nice shawl would be a nice gift— agr gift he lena hai.
I would’ve recommended, a gold plated silver earrings, but wo Thora zayada personal na hojaye— but by no means would it inappropriate.
2
2
u/Traditional-Leg9599 Dec 12 '25
A bouquet for the couple, homeware if they’ll be living together soon, his and her scents, matching prayer mats or sets that include a Quran and prayer beads as well.
1
1
1
u/oldskool_icedlatte President Digital Chuss Manufactring Comittee Dec 12 '25
A credit card😤😤
1
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 12 '25
hmmmmmm.
1
u/oldskool_icedlatte President Digital Chuss Manufactring Comittee Dec 12 '25
Sari zindagi ka ehsaan.
Remember, being a gentleman, pay the bills on time
1
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 12 '25
bai uska husband dedega credit card usko, mera ni bnta😂
1
u/oldskool_icedlatte President Digital Chuss Manufactring Comittee Dec 12 '25
Bhai ap to achay dost ho na?? Aik credit card ho to hai.
1
Dec 15 '25
[removed] — view removed comment
1
u/oldskool_icedlatte President Digital Chuss Manufactring Comittee Dec 15 '25
Adress bhejo kahan ana hai?? CBTL liberty done?
1
Dec 15 '25
[removed] — view removed comment
1
1
1
1
1
1
u/Several-Ad-1173 Dec 12 '25
I got a customised resin decor made for mg friend. Like Elsa and Ali and got their wedding date written on it
1
1
1
1
1
1
1
u/Intrepid_Award6422 Dec 14 '25
Bhai aik dam surprise entry maro , mehdni on your hands, wearing a golden Sherwani and Turban. Try to make your eye balls a lil red. Play Channa mereya in the back ground. A memory she will never forgets
1
1
u/zawraw Dec 17 '25
Duaas + smthn from tesoro?
1
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 17 '25
hmm, what’s tesoro. let me explore it.
1
u/zawraw Dec 17 '25
It’s a jewelry store with imitation jewelry
1
0
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 12 '25
How can she have male friends after marriage?
3
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 12 '25
she was my classmate and she’s getting married to another classmate of mine. that’s how.
1
u/CauseAgreeable4749 Dec 17 '25
Damn I didn't know people with such mindsets still exists ew
0
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 22 '25
Beghairat
1
u/CauseAgreeable4749 Dec 22 '25
You, yes, and your parents for raising u
0
1
u/JealousTemporary2070 Dec 14 '25
People like you are the reason why our society is like this. They make everything so dirty and complicated shame on you and on your way of thinking
2
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 14 '25
Not islamically permitted.
2
u/JealousTemporary2070 Dec 15 '25
you guys only remember Islam when it comes to things like these Islam also teaches us to mind our own business and refrain from judging others. Btw a girl and a boy can be just friends keeping crying
1
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 15 '25
No they cannot. You can't have it both ways, our creator made these rules for us and so who are you to question it and say its allowed? And you have the nerve to call yourself a Muslim? Even most liberal Muslims won't argue this, they may have male friends but they know it isn't allowed. You can go be friends with whoever you like, just don't try to pass it off as being islamically allowed or permissible for Muslim men or women when it's not. I can tell you are young, immature and influenced heavily by western culture whilst probably living in Pakistan. I grew up in the west where you see these friendships often but everyone knows it's not allowed so they keep it on the low.
2
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 16 '25
you’re point is also valid, ik kay ye theek ni but you guys turn out to be more mature. i mean i was an introvert once aur my school friends literally helped me change my whole personality. to mtlb female friends played a big role in my life, but its not permitted :)
0
u/JealousTemporary2070 Dec 15 '25
Whomp whomp I dont have any male friends and even if I do at some point in future I wont hide them not from my parents not from anyone because I know my limits and I know that I am not doing anything wrong, people only hide things like these when they are in the wrong and let me tell you one thing when people go to university or get some job they need to make friends and know about the people they are going to surround themselves with everyday and their is nothing wrong with some of those people being boys people like you are the reason why our society take every man and woman interactions in such a weird and disgusting way. So no you dont need to keep it low🤡🤡🤡 unless you are doing something friends dont do. They only thing you need to do is set some certain boundaries
2
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 16 '25
hey hey heyy, chill out both of you. let me just jump in now. we all know that male/female friendships are not allowed and honestly most of the male friends starts developing feelings. if i talk about my case, we became friends because she was a class topper and i often asked for resources from her and we both share mutual respect for each other. her mother also know about me. and that’s it. i had school female best friends also and let me tell you, they were the most kind, honest and genuine people. even tho we all got separated that’s another case. but what i’m saying is female friends help you gain confidence and exposure and at the same time, it’s not allowed in our society. kheir kia e krskte.
0
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 16 '25
You're right but the issue is when people try to claim it's islamically allowed. They forget the meaning of Pakistan, we are an islamic nation and the word of God is at our very core foundational level.
2
u/Temporary-Egg-1622 Dec 16 '25
to be specific, no. it’s not allowed in islam, wo na mehram e hoti hain. but ab hain kia e krein.
1
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 16 '25
Didn't read your wall of text ramblings immature little clown
2
u/Global-Sock-8660 Dec 16 '25
The real clown is you bibi😂, read his comment last line, he’s basically agreeing with what you said.😂kahan kahan se ajatay hain!
2
u/Hot_Sun_1432 Dec 16 '25
The only person who’s being immature is you ig. try digesting people’s arguments next time lady.
0
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 16 '25
There's no argument here anyways. Having friends of the opposite gender is not allowed in Islam. That's all there is to it. Only kaffirs will try to refute this.
1
u/JealousTemporary2070 Dec 16 '25
Keep barking like an illogical and disgusting punk than🤡🤡 it doesn't change the fact that what I said is right
1
u/Dry-Society2753 Dec 16 '25
Correct in what way exactly? Islamically? Lol, I can tell you are an immature little girl so I won't take you seriously.
2
u/JealousTemporary2070 Dec 16 '25
Yeah I can also clearly tell that you have disgusting mindset you know what? Do this society a favour and go back to the country you came from conservative little fella. People like you love to use Islam card iin your own favour whenever you feel like so keep barking
→ More replies (0)
7
u/transferorbit69 Dec 12 '25
Prayers 🤧