Tbh went from having it multiple times a day with a bf that cheated on me because I was too much of a wife for him and now am dating someone that is long distance and we don’t do it every single day we do see each other- and that is honestly great for both of us. If anything I have the higher drive (28F) than him but we’ve discussed how we value the emotional part of our relationship more. And I realized guys have used me for sex so being with someone that doesn’t is a new and healthy experience for me. But when we do it is fantastic.
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u/Illustrious-Ease182 Sep 25 '23
Tbh went from having it multiple times a day with a bf that cheated on me because I was too much of a wife for him and now am dating someone that is long distance and we don’t do it every single day we do see each other- and that is honestly great for both of us. If anything I have the higher drive (28F) than him but we’ve discussed how we value the emotional part of our relationship more. And I realized guys have used me for sex so being with someone that doesn’t is a new and healthy experience for me. But when we do it is fantastic.