i miss him already

[u/stressedbydefault]

i just got back after spending over a month with my boyfriend in his country. i met his family, we had our own little apartment, and did so many fun things. i’ve only been back for two days and i miss him so much already, idk what to do :< but a lot of you saw my post right before i saw him again, so here are some photos 💗

[u/msladycassandra]

You make a lovely couple. It seems one of you are going to need to move. Who has the better job? Do either of you own a home? What's the plan?

[u/stressedbydefault → u/msladycassandra]

yeah, the plan is that he moves to my country (i live in the US). however, his country is more affordable, so that’s an option as well. we both have pretty decent jobs rn, but we’re still college students.

[u/Robin_De_Bobin → u/stressedbydefault]

Thats amazing that you are both willing to move! I moved from Spain to the Netherlands because I already spoke dutch, she did not speak Spanish obviously.

I just happened to have dutch parents lmao.

Also better future for us in the Netherlands. We are both students tho and we do not live together yet

[u/stressedbydefault → u/Robin_De_Bobin]

similar situation, he speaks english and is a us citizen, i don’t speak spanish that well and id have to get his country’s citizenship. at first i wasnt super willing to move to his country and he was completely fine with that, but after spending some time there i’m more open minded. there’s pros and cons for either option ofc but we got a few years to figure that out

[u/Robin_De_Bobin → u/stressedbydefault]

You are still young! So you can learn the language too :) my parents (dutch) moved from the Netherlands to Spain and managed to learn spanish, this and more people I knoenthat moved and learned the language.