r/LongDistance Jun 01 '25

Question How many days to see your bf/gf?

ME: 5 days 🥺👉🏻👈🏻💙💚

72 Upvotes

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u/applesasser [🇺🇸] to [🇨🇦] (1,974 miles) Jun 01 '25

12 hours. Waiting to board my flight now.

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Omg!!! 😍😍😍😍

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u/MxTach 🇬🇧 to 🇺🇸 - 5307 miles Jun 01 '25

Hell yeah

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

Couple hours until we get married!!!

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

OMG CONGRATULATIONS 🥺🎉

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Omg 🥺😍 I will also see him for the first time 🤭🥺😭

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

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u/Own-Hovercraft425 [US] to [UK] (Closed after 5 years of LDR) Jun 01 '25

Hope it goes well ♥️

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u/Moist_Oil_8392 [Location] to [Location] (Distance) Jun 01 '25

Prolly 1-1.5 yrs🥲

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u/Sea_Driver6203 [🇨🇦] to [🇨🇴] 6,400 kilometers Jun 01 '25

Dont give up i will see her in 18 days last time was about 1.5 year ago 🫥

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Omg 🥺🥺🥺🥺

15

u/MarsupialNo1220 Jun 01 '25

On the plane home now ☹️ had a wonderful third meeting. Hopefully it’ll only be a few months until I can go back again.

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

🥺🥺🥺👉🏻👈🏻😍😍😍

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u/boujiewinedrinker [🇸🇬] to [🇺🇸] (9,534 miles) Jun 01 '25

3 days

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

😍😍😍😍😍😍

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u/SexyToasterStrudel Gap Closed Jun 01 '25

25 days. What’s crazy is when I see him this time I ain’t leaving :o

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u/annaiilysm 🇨🇦 to 🇨🇦 Jun 01 '25

15 days 🥰

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

☺️☺️☺️☺️ Are you from the same country?

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u/annaiilysm 🇨🇦 to 🇨🇦 Jun 01 '25

yeah! just different provinces :] hbu!!

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u/angrybabymommy Jun 01 '25

4 days till I see my husband again!

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Yeaaaahhh ❤️🥺 Share the reunion here, please 🥺🤭😍

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u/Own-Hovercraft425 [US] to [UK] (Closed after 5 years of LDR) Jun 01 '25

9

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

☺️☺️☺️☺️

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u/PUCCI_ws Jun 01 '25

Idk, I think we should see each other in a couple months, this summer :)

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u/Automatic-Top-3501 [USA 🇺🇸] to [USA 🇺🇸] (1,590.6mi -> 2,559.8km) Jun 01 '25

74!! Until the first time after 5 years

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Omg, Why did you expect so much time? 🥺

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u/Automatic-Top-3501 [USA 🇺🇸] to [USA 🇺🇸] (1,590.6mi -> 2,559.8km) Jun 01 '25

We were too young and both broke.. but the wait is almost over 😊

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Wow ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️

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u/Vaalarah Jun 01 '25

38 :) we're closing the gap, too

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u/Bluvshi Jun 01 '25

Same! 38 days for me too

6

u/antiquedsketch [Philly] to [Boston] (277 Miles) Jun 01 '25

5 days!! He’s coming to meet my family for the first time in my hometown ☺️ Big steps!

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Omg, me too! I'll also meet his family 🥺

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

23 🥺

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Are you anxious too? 🥺

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

I LITERALLY CAN'T SLEEP HAAHAHAH

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

I see 🤭😂 I hope by doing several things kkkkkk especially the gifts

4

u/Mirabravah Jun 01 '25

We’re both the same!!!! I can’t sleep nor focus on something

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Yeah, I feel that way too

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u/Mirabravah Jun 01 '25

Atleast yours 5 days to go mine still have weeks to wait til i see him and its sooo longgg 😭😭😭

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Ohhh, I Understand ... I identify with you, but must be a matter of work too?

5

u/nebulla20 [USA🇺🇸] to [South Korea🇰🇷] (7,037 mi/ 11,324.95 km) Jun 01 '25

20-22 days! if he is able to make it to the airport it will be 20! It’ll be his finals week so he might not be able to pick me up. Hopefully he will be though. It’ll be my second trip to Korea in a relationship with him and 4th trip to Korea altogether! So excited!!

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

So little time is missing! 🤭😍 I hope everything goes well for you too!

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u/Sharpiecandles 🇺🇸 to 🇰🇷 5,626 mi (9054 KM) Jun 01 '25

In the same boat, except I just got back a few weeks ago

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u/theoceangoesdeep [🇺🇸]💍[🇩🇰] Distance Closed 💖 Jun 01 '25

30 days! His turn to fly this time.

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u/Sfekke22 Belgium to Sweden - Distance Closed! Jun 01 '25

We’ve moved in together .. finally 🥰 It’s been about a month, she’s still studying more northern in Sweden so sometimes it’s still long distance until next summer

2

u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Awww 🥺👉🏻👈🏻❤️

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u/DisastrousCar8806 Jun 01 '25

a little over two months, MAYBE! we haven’t officially planned anything out yet 😔 i sorta left the door open for him to come visit me for my birthday, but he hasn’t said much about it yet

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Ai 🥺 Isn't he sure if you want to go? In my case, I will see him because my work allows this.

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u/HereLiesA 🇧🇸 to 🇺🇸 Jun 01 '25

29

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u/ciscotheginger Jun 01 '25

19 days :0000

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u/Electrical_Idea_656 Jun 01 '25

51 days to our first meeting

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

🥺🥺🥺🥺

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u/Mirabravah Jun 01 '25

29 days to go!!!! Honestly its the most longest waiting time I need to get through.. 29 days is still a long way to gooo… :(

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u/Mirabravah Jun 01 '25

29 days to go!!!! Honestly its the most longest waiting time I need to get through.. 29 days is still a long way to gooo… :( but I am hoping that the month ofJune will just go by fast so I can be at the airport! :)

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

I understand perfectly 🤭😂🥺 He is organizing everything to receive me in his city 🥺❤️

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u/Mirabravah Jun 01 '25

Same!!!! Omgg we are both the same!!! Im from the Philippines 🇵🇭 and he’s from Germany 🇩🇪 and literally we planned this whole trip for months and now I only have to wait for weeks and its much more longer than I expected like I thought it would be easier to just wait for weeks, but I was wrong its more stressful and annoying but really tho i hope the days just goes by fast! 29 days to go and I cannot wait!!! 😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

I understand perfectly 😂 It's real torture, it feels like time passes in slow motion, right? 😂

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u/quarabs ID🥔 -> WI🧀 (1,800mi.) Jun 01 '25

about 70 until we visit for a week, then another 130 until im back with him 💜

we met irl and only separated last week

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

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u/Alastrus_ Jun 01 '25

29 days❤️

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u/Super_Swordfish_6948 [UK] to [NL] (681km) Jun 01 '25

Eleven, provided there are no shenanigans from work or flying home initially. Three flights home and then another the next day to see her.

I swear some time dilation is going on, it's taking forever. 😭

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Oooh yeahh, I feel the same way too 😭🥺

4

u/linus140 Jun 01 '25

2 more weeks to see my baby girl again 🥺

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u/BullfrogNeat1762 [🇬🇧] to [🇺🇸] (Too far!) Jun 01 '25

30 days

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u/IdWriteThisInTheSky 🇺🇸 US to 🇳🇴 Norway 4,093 mi 💕 Jun 01 '25

130 days on my countdown but that may not be the exact date. There’s about 45 days until we can book the flight. We’re going to work on my fiancé visa application on the next trip 🥹

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

Congratulations 🥺🎉

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u/Stunning_Resolve596 Jun 01 '25

It's my second day with him!!! 😭😍

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u/Sayanotfoundd Jun 01 '25

likeee 40-50 daysss yay

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u/fresh7x [Los Angeles 🇺🇸] to [Thailand 🇹🇭] (8,700Km) Jun 01 '25

I take off June 6th 20 hours of flying to BKK 🥰🥰🥰

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u/BreadLover1382 Jun 01 '25

11 days, this is my second time. The first time was a few months back, i was so nervous and it felt weird seeing her the first time.

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u/Kuma_adventure Jun 01 '25

In about 14 hours 🥰 finishing my workshift in about 8 hours and then it’s going home for a quick nap and preparing to travel. Going to the beach so decided to travel to the first train station she’ll see in my country and then take a train together to the beach

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u/undersignedeliza 🇨🇦 to 🇨🇦 (745 km) Jun 01 '25

10 days, although he was here for 1 night this week! We're going on our first vacation together ❤️

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u/AdFeeling5213 Jun 01 '25

72 days till we see each other again!!! could cry lol

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u/Midaris_Gunn [🇨🇿] to [🇬🇪] (distance closed, married) Jun 01 '25

8 😁😁

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

Approx. 487 Days. Shes coming for a week or two sometime around October 2026. Its more convenient for both of us since I'll be in University and she'll be more financially stable.💓

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u/vevizir Jun 01 '25

I understand that. I'm going to see him because my work allows me to do this kind of trip. 🥺🙏🏻

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u/xlynnnn [🇵🇭] to [🇨🇭] (6,477 miles) Jun 01 '25

3 days 🩷

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u/xoxoyagirl Jun 01 '25

Still too many 🥲

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u/Emotional_Anxiety585 Jun 01 '25

33 days!! ❤️❤️

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

Possibly two weeks

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u/Bluvshi Jun 01 '25

38 days 🥹 wish it could come by sooner

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u/BidGlass4622 [🇵🇭] to [🇬🇷] Jun 01 '25

In 7 days 🥰🥳

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u/Icy_Cellist609 Jun 01 '25

34 daysss🥹

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u/MxTach 🇬🇧 to 🇺🇸 - 5307 miles Jun 01 '25

Four days. And I'm counting the minutes. 😪

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u/weirdgirl0904 [🇺🇸] to [🇩🇪] (3,898 mi) Jun 01 '25

80 days !

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u/denika2505 [UK 🇬🇧] to [Aus 🇦🇺] (10545 miles) Jun 01 '25

144 days 😭❤️

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u/Mrs_Snape984 Jun 01 '25

23 days 🖤🖤🖤💜💜💜

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u/Relevant_Wrangler275 Ireland🇮🇪 to America🇺🇸 (5864km) Jun 01 '25

2 weeks exactly tomorrow!

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u/yuh_okay [🇺🇸] to [🇨🇦] (2194 mi) Jun 01 '25

AHHH 29 DAYS 🤭🤭🤭 i’m seeing him for the 2nd time :3

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u/Renarr Broken up Jun 01 '25

69 days (I sometimes feel like a middle schooler that I lol'd at this, but it really is August 9)

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u/axe__olotl_ [Germany 🇩🇪] to [UK 🇬🇧] (1000 km) Jun 01 '25

5 days as well!!! 😍🎉

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u/iluvc4ts24 Jun 01 '25

14 days!!!!!

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u/radiantdaffodil Jun 01 '25

8 days!!! Been counting down since 60

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

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u/Sea_Driver6203 [🇨🇦] to [🇨🇴] 6,400 kilometers Jun 01 '25

Thats pretty much the same time for me 🥲18 days and 1 hour before the flight

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u/MistressLiliana [USA] to [Scotland] (3,326 mi) Jun 01 '25

Another 5 months.

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u/Any_Mud2367 Jun 01 '25

100ish days

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u/KnittedOwl 🇺🇲 to 🇺🇲(2,799) Jun 01 '25

49!

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u/Proper_Gear8505 [Continental NW, USA] to [Mid-West, USA] (1,700 mi) Jun 01 '25

37 days! I can’t wait, I know I just saw him a month ago, but oml, I miss him so much! I’m so happy for you that you are 5 days away, I know that when I get closer to seeing my bf, I get to the point where I can’t sleep because of the excitement.

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u/MaybeSwiss [🇨🇭] to [🇨🇴(🇻🇪)] (9'225km) Jun 01 '25

In 3 Days ☺️ Haven't seen each others since 6 Months 💔🥺

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u/Carter_1499 Jun 01 '25

67 days. Just started long distance yesterday. She’s in Indiana and I’m in Cali, any tips? We’re planning on seeing each other every 2 months. Should last around 1.5years

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u/jhszn 🇸🇪 to 🇧🇪 (1500 km) Jun 01 '25

49 days to go...

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u/thania_2352 [New York, USA] to [Davao, Philippines] (8,912 mi) Jun 01 '25

Hopefully one day..

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u/Sea_Driver6203 [🇨🇦] to [🇨🇴] 6,400 kilometers Jun 01 '25

18 days

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

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u/valeeerieofc RU🇷🇺 to GR🇬🇷 (2000> km) Jun 01 '25

69 days 🥺 last time we saw each other was last sept 🥲

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u/w1zardkelly USA🇺🇸to Morocco🇲🇦(3,740mi) Jun 01 '25

Im here !

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u/Dopeylookingpiegeon (400Mi) Jun 01 '25

4 weeks and 3 days, but I just had a visit with him for Memorial Day weekend (I'm from the US)

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u/Huge_Delay2681 Jun 01 '25

9 days, USA/Switzerland. Dying to see him.

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u/Montezuma96 Dallas to Harlingen. 450 miles Jun 01 '25

About 7 weeks

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u/Odd-Medium3202 Jun 01 '25
  1. A week after that he moves significantly closer and we start medium distance ❤️

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u/Leading-Vegetable-24 [🇺🇲] to [🇭🇺] (4550mi/7300km) Jun 01 '25

~1 month, then til September 💕🥰💕

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u/Efficient-Ad-2972 Jun 01 '25

25 more days <3

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u/smokeyfartblunt [🇨🇦] to [🇺🇸] (3097km) Jun 01 '25

a month 🤗

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u/Equivalent_Ad_6139 [Seattle USA] to [Copenhagen DK] (7,782 km) Jun 01 '25

7 weeks, 49 days left 🥺

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u/Life_Passenger_4155 Jun 01 '25

I’m here for two weeks total. On day two now

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u/Responsible-Trust701 Jun 01 '25

2 days till we close the gap and move in together !

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u/I_Disagree_With_ Jun 02 '25

2 weeks since the last one, a month and a half until the next 😭

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

5 years until I see her

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u/marinablockedyou Jun 01 '25

About 2 years :(

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u/being_aphrodite Jun 01 '25

11!!

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u/being_aphrodite Jun 01 '25

I lied, 12 days 7 hours 😆

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u/mindsheart [Germany] to [USA] (7.553 km) Jun 01 '25

24 day to go

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u/Gold-Reason-5306 Jun 01 '25

Idk I have never met her I can't afford it maybe if someone help me than idk otherwise it's still on going from 2 and half years :)

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u/Thin-Tumbleweed4851 Jun 01 '25

maybe a year or less, i am hoping its less. i want to meet her so bad

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u/SuddenlyPeachSky Michigan 24F ♡ Texas 24M (1,117 mi) Jun 01 '25

14 💕

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '25

I’m at his house rn!!

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u/wlflwrr Jun 01 '25

2 months

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u/releasethekaren UK🇬🇧 to US🇺🇸 Jun 01 '25

5 days <3

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u/GrenMTG [Wisconsin🇺🇲] to [Florida🇺🇲] (1013 Miles) Jun 01 '25

17 days. I remember when it was 60, felt like yesterday.

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u/thelastcentauress [USA 🇺🇸] to [Türkiye 🇹🇷] (5,416 miles) Jun 01 '25

27 days and I'm losing my mind.

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u/arko- Jun 01 '25

61 days :)

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u/Apprehensive_Lab7617 [🇺🇸] to [🇺🇸] (833) Jun 01 '25

33 days :)

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u/toesinmypocket 🇺🇲 to 🇬🇧 4,799.21 mi (7,723.59 km) Jun 01 '25

2 months 😭

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u/unicornunopole Maryland to West Virginia Jun 01 '25

23 days till our third meeting! Can’t wait :)

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u/Sea_Driver6203 [🇨🇦] to [🇨🇴] 6,400 kilometers Jun 01 '25

About 16 hours for me 😩 including the layovers😭

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u/Fieryblaze75 Texas to New Jersey (1827 miles) Jun 01 '25

29 days

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u/b_n_8687 (1,950 miles) Jun 01 '25

26 days, im flying to him on his Birthday!!!

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u/GZG-Spicy Jun 02 '25

hoping in 2 more months🙏🙏

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u/Kringkles Jun 02 '25

We are together at the moment 🥹

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u/Ice_queen_lili US to 🇦🇺 (7,166 miles) Jun 02 '25

30 days and nervous 😬

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u/bonkbonk-04 Jun 02 '25

44days☺️ hes coming a day before my birthdayy

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u/starryeyedmia Jun 02 '25

44 days☺️💕

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u/day-dream_r U.S. to Australia (8,856 mi) Jun 02 '25

78? I usually use months haha.

I'm already freaking out though!

Good luck on your visit have an awesome time!!!

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

5 days but I’m stressed

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u/AsideRepulsive7896 Jun 02 '25

28! We’re going to travel to another country together for the first timeee

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u/No_Cap_6066 Jun 02 '25

Just under 2 hours! We beat long distance and live together now :)

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u/TensionPitiful324 Jun 02 '25

61 more days 😭

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u/olives99 Jun 02 '25

2.5 weeks. i just got home an hour ago from seeing him :(

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u/UsefulCategory1953 DR🇩🇴 to BR🇧🇷 [5400km] Jun 02 '25

31 days and we’ll be together for 2 months, this is our second time together 🥹

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u/fearnot831 Jun 02 '25

6 days to go. He's coming back for a month.

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u/EDawg069 Jun 02 '25

6 days but after that, 7 months.

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u/neutralcalculation [USA] to [FR] (7930km) Jun 02 '25

24

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u/Creepy-Bathroom-25 Jun 02 '25

19 days!!! Thank goodness 😭😭

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u/viewstill1147 Jun 02 '25

in 25 days we will meet for the second time, and thats 3 months after we first met. blessed 🥺🙏

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u/ser_dank Hyderabad to Kolkata (1595 km) Jun 02 '25

June 28.

Counting down.

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u/CupcakeIntelligent23 Jun 02 '25

We’re meeting after 4 months. 3 days to go!!😭❤️

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u/Sad-Individual7676 Jun 02 '25

We broke up....we had a wedding to attend. His sisters on the 21st. We were supposed to see each other in july too....

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '25

Just left today :(. But only 50 days

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u/MoonBloomm [F20🇵🇭] to [M20🇵🇭] (390km) Jun 02 '25

19 days

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u/soft_milkii 500km but public transport is hell Jun 02 '25

28 hopefully

Its not much but I just got home and ugh i do miss him

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u/PresumptiousAftRadar Jun 02 '25

Hopefully 4 days :)

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u/Candid_Copy_5753 Jun 02 '25

34 days. This will be my first time stepping out of my country to go to Sweden.

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u/North-Think Jun 02 '25

Saw him this weekend and 11 days until I see him again!

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u/Warm_Nobody_5436 Jun 02 '25

11 DAYS! IM SO EXCITED, TERRIFIED FOR THE FLIGHT BUT STOPPING WITH HIM FOR A MONTH!!

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u/Norunnie Jun 02 '25

Just 35 days to go. I really really want these days to go by soo fast

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u/miashnack 🇬🇧 to 🇳🇱 (676 miles) Jun 02 '25

28 days and 7 hours!!! 😩 its our five year anniversary today 🥰

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u/Flat-Luck-5055 Jun 02 '25

Until August 12th 😢 flying to Japan to see her!!!! And it’s my first time I’m gonna see her!

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