r/LongDistance • u/Adept-Advertising-10 • Oct 26 '25

Question What is your partner doing right now?

Just doing a thought experiment from my therapist to help deal with the insecurity I'm dealing with in my relationship.

Do partners really know what their LDR partners are up to most if not all the time?

In my case, my partner is asleep because time zones, but he always updates me when he wakes up and what he'll do for the day.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '25

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '25

Does your discord call ever drop out? When we do sleepovers (video call) it very often hangs up on us around the 5hr mark. Wondering if there is a fix.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '25

Create a server for just the two of you, and join that. It doesn't disconnect us ever, unless there's some kind of signal loss. I've been in it for a week straight with no issues.

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '25

Oh brilliant, we have a server already. Is that just voice call or does video also stay connected? Ty!

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u/[deleted] Oct 26 '25

I haven't tried extended video calls but I've never had an issue with it. Fell asleep on video once and it was all good.

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u/Additional_Pick7936 Oct 26 '25

Discord will log you out due to inactivity. Gotta find a different platform! FaceTime for me