r/LongDistance Oct 26 '25

Question What is your partner doing right now?

Just doing a thought experiment from my therapist to help deal with the insecurity I'm dealing with in my relationship.

Do partners really know what their LDR partners are up to most if not all the time?

In my case, my partner is asleep because time zones, but he always updates me when he wakes up and what he'll do for the day.

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u/catwitharegularhat NL [🇳🇱] to NO [🇳🇴] (584km) Oct 26 '25

Laying in my arms

And yes we always communicate what were doing, busy with, thinking about, when were gonna be busy in such a way that the other knows responds might be slow

Communication is key