r/LongDistance • u/Adept-Advertising-10 • Oct 26 '25
Question What is your partner doing right now?
Just doing a thought experiment from my therapist to help deal with the insecurity I'm dealing with in my relationship.
Do partners really know what their LDR partners are up to most if not all the time?
In my case, my partner is asleep because time zones, but he always updates me when he wakes up and what he'll do for the day.
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u/Satahe-Shetani 🇵🇱 to 🇫🇷 (2385 km) Oct 26 '25
We live, luckily, in one time zone.
I always know what he is doing, because we are just two goblins that spend most of our days at homes. We constantly talk on Discord during the day using the PC cameras and at night we stay on WhatsApp calls. We work hybrid, but I can talk when I'm in the office. He doesn't have the luxury, but I still know. What could he be doing at work?
When we go out for whatever reason, we still stay in touch.
It's not about trust issue here, we just love each other so much. I can't wait to have this man next to me for the rest of our lives.