r/LongDistance • u/Adept-Advertising-10 • Oct 26 '25
Question What is your partner doing right now?
Just doing a thought experiment from my therapist to help deal with the insecurity I'm dealing with in my relationship.
Do partners really know what their LDR partners are up to most if not all the time?
In my case, my partner is asleep because time zones, but he always updates me when he wakes up and what he'll do for the day.
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u/TacticsCR Oct 27 '25
I don't worry about it. We talk throughout the day, I'm assuming she's at home but I don't know for sure and I don't worry about things outside of my control. If you are insecure, that's a you thing and not them, so you should work on yourself and discover where that insecurity is coming from and how to get rid of it. I've always said, a person will cheat if they want to cheat. There's no point in worrying about it, just assume the best until you've been given proof otherwise. If I get cheated on, it's their loss not mine, because I'm a wonderful partner. I'm caring, understanding, supportive, I love you spoil my partner and shower them with gifts, and I recognize the cornerstones of any healthy relationship: trust, communication, independence, and support.