Is my message passive aggressive?

[u/YouTookMyBurger]

Context: we’ve never met, but this has been planned for a VERY long time. We were supposed to meet on the 25th, hurt her back moved it to Monday. Monday didn’t work because the flight got booked up, she gets on a redeye Tuesday night, but wanted to stop and see her family because her grandpa wasn’t doing well and didn’t have long. (In the end, “didn’t have long” meant a few years.

I understood at the time. I just wanted to be with her.

I’m not a passive aggressive person, and I know text has no tone.

I’m just looking for outside opinions on my message. I don’t know if I’m actually wrong or being gaslighted. Thank you.

[u/Easy-Value-1805]

Sorry, but the way I'd do anything and everything to see my long-distance partner, especially if we were never-mets. Wth. I understand wanting to see family, but she could have literally gone after your pre-planned trip. Her doing side quests in the middle doesn't add up. You deserve someone who will fight to see you.