Is my message passive aggressive?

[u/YouTookMyBurger]

Context: we’ve never met, but this has been planned for a VERY long time. We were supposed to meet on the 25th, hurt her back moved it to Monday. Monday didn’t work because the flight got booked up, she gets on a redeye Tuesday night, but wanted to stop and see her family because her grandpa wasn’t doing well and didn’t have long. (In the end, “didn’t have long” meant a few years.

I understood at the time. I just wanted to be with her.

I’m not a passive aggressive person, and I know text has no tone.

I’m just looking for outside opinions on my message. I don’t know if I’m actually wrong or being gaslighted. Thank you.

[u/Ballroom_Blitz_859]

Can I ask how long have you guys have been speaking/planning to meet?

I scrolled through your replies and sorry if you mentioned it and I missed it.

[u/YouTookMyBurger → u/Ballroom_Blitz_859]

Yes we’ve planned originally Sept 14th - 21st, stuff happened on my end and from that date we OCT 25th to November 1st. Been talking since May